I knew there were some ladies that wouldn't see African-American men, but 5 out of 6?  I'm stunned, and saddened as well.

I wish you well my friend and hope you're inbox is over-whelmed with emails from knockout gorgeous blonde providers that will rock your world.

Good luck.

5 out of 6?
Are you sure it's that....or could it maybe be something else?

Seems that your posts go back all the way to 2006...and most of them are about this very same topic. Still zero reviews up to this point.
Looks like you only have something to say when it comes to a race issue and people not seeing you.

Maybe you're the only AA male in the state that no one will see. Yeah....we'll blame it on the color thing.

I suggest that anyone who takes your post on face value also does a search of your posts. It's an interesting read with a common theme.

Just sayin'

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Hope everyone is well.

I will be in the Tampa/Orlando area on tomorrow (Thursday) and would like to meet a blonde (white) provider who sees African-American men. Any ideas?

I have searched but 5 of the 6 I contacted do not see African-American men. No problem. Would appreciate any help. Also, I hope this does not turn into a discussion on race, etc... I am just looking for a choice of quality providers.

Thanks

I love meeting and having fun with men of all ages, sizes, races and disabilities. Nothing gives me more pleasure than ensuring that your time spent with me is a sexy, sensual and pleasurable experience.

I'd love to hear from you.

Truly,

Ashley DeVyne

Does that count???
lmao
Seriously though, you sound like a complete gentleman...
xxx
Jinni

I'm not debating what your experiences have been, nor what your rights are as a "paying member".

My point was simply that you've posted no reviews of anyone you've seen...nor offered anything positive to the board in the almost 5 years you've been here. You may be "paying" but you're not paying back to the community in any way. That's not a race issue....it's a character issue.

Again....all anyone has to do is search for posts you've made in the last 3000 days and they can see for themselves that the overwhelming majority of them say the same thing.

You can try to divert attention all you want by saying that I don't understand you because I haven't shared your experiences (which anyone could say, quite frankly)....but it doesn't change the facts or the point I was making.

The floor is now yours because I've made the point I intended. People will either get it...or they won't. I don't intend to clutter the board with a discussion that degenerates into the standard talking points of race alone.

Just sayin'

D,

Many minority hobbyists have shared with me (via PM) numerous experiences they have experienced regarding race in the hobby. If I chose to bring those experiences up on the board - that is my right to do so as a paying member.

As for reviews, I have not seen a local Florida provider since I started in the hobby. I have seen 6 highly reviewed PSE providers. And, never have I been told no by a PSE, even those who don't do interracial scenes. So, instead of filling the Florida board with 'blabber' on providers that I know nothing about, I remain silent.

A question? Have you ever booked an appointment with a local white provider; given them 3 quality PSE references; presented yourself in a polite and professional manner at their incall, only to be told that, "I don't see black men because they are cheap and scare me." When this happens to you, then you will understand how I feel.

that sucks, but as you stated, you've had this problem in the past. It's time for you to move on & do a "Search"  under reviews for what you want & contact the ladies rather than ask on the boards. I assume you can afford VIP to do this if you see porn stars.

Most guys don't help hobbyist w/no reviews who posts ISO on the board anyway, & most ladies who see no reviews or posting history won't bother for fear of LE.

***I guess I had to edit & put up the angry face for a few to make my point that this thread is closed, No More Posts to this Thread...you can PM moment1 for suggestions or comments.




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D,

If TER only accepted members who posted reviews the site could not survive.

Writing a review does not measure one's value to the community. I chose not to write reviews about the well known, often reviewed providers I've seen. Why repeat what has been said 10 times or more? I have responded to several PMs about my PSE experiences.

Lastly, maybe more people would comment on the board if you and the "you can't comment unless you have a review police" weren't waiting in the weeds to degrade their views.

Just sayin

That you (moment1) prefer to continue with a discussion of your negative experiences, instead of looking for a positive one. I did the search and saw the common theme of your threads..and I'm surprised you didn't see any of the fine ladies that responded in the past (I assume you did not see them because they're not pornstars).

Things people say can be hurtful and it sucks, but you either take the "lemon" as is or make lemonade...

Good luck with your search

I've had the same experience as well. But at the same time I have found a group of ladies that are open-minded to all and I have had a wonderful time with them. To answer your question, call Angel (or Bambi) as she does not discriminate and is quite open to mostly everything. You may also want to contact Discrete Meets as well.

Good luck.

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