Hello everyone. I am kind of on the fence about reviewing a lady. Though not new to the hobby, I don't participate as often as many others do but when I do, I usually call on TER to make my decision on who to see. With all the great reviews she had, I expected that the time spent would reflect the many previous reviews. The only thing that was spot on was her beauty. I have seen several ladies because of TER and each experience was amazing and mirrored past reviews of these ladies. My dilemma is do I leave a not so good review and look like the 'boob' or just chalk it up as a bad day?
The guys deserve to know about all the experiences, not just the great ones. Phrase everything tactfully and you will be fine. For all you know, this could be a pattern and guys are just too afraid to post anything other than stellar reviews.
The entire point of TER is to provide real, honest, reviews of providers so that potential clients can make informed decisions about who they want to see. The type of session that you are describing is exactly why clients use TER. They need to know what to expect - the good, the bad, and the ugly.
Concurrently, the review process also serves two other functions.
One, it rewards better providers by reinforcing and verifying their performance and value. This also works in the reverse by pointing out the sub-standard providers and thereby not rewarding them for rip offs or bait and switch or lousy performance/attitude.
Two, it can also perhaps serve as an indication to a provider that there may be room for improvement in her presentation or performance. The serious and professional ladies can and will take constructive criticism and use it to their advantage.
Your main role in making this work is to be as honest and reasonable as you can in your review. Don't simply throw out a harsh number and a couple of vague comments laced with bitterness. That reflects more poorly on the reviewer than it does on the provider. Of course, since you asked the question at all, I am led to believe that you probably aren't that type of person anyway.
A thoughful, well written, informative review is more important than any particular score or anyone's slightly hurt feelings. At least, that is how I look at it.
I guess it would depend on how much she didn't live up to her previous reviews, or what your expectations were.
The review process is not without its flaws, but it's better to go ahead and present your case, than to keep it to yourself, thinking it may have just been YMMV. I've passed on reviewing some ladies because they weren't good enough to recommend, but not bad enough to wave anyone off. In retrospect I should have reviewed them.
I agree with you buddy...at my age I can't be to particular; however I have not reviewed a few that I considered sub-par, because I did not want to insult the lady. In retrospect, that was probably wrong by not informing the prospective hobbiers (sp?). Live and learn.
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