That is how it began for Tiger Woods.  Wishing you better luck.

Wife found hobby phone

Sent me a PM, I'll do her for you until she isn't mad and forgives you...

Then if SO finds it you could say you just found it and didn't know exactly what to do with it. Sounds like a stupid answer but there's no proof of foul play. You can't do anything with the phone including dialing out with out that code.  

If you use your private phone hope you erasing everything  

Sorry this has happened and hope you'll be able to work through this.  

I had a friend get busted the same way and told him to tell his wife he was hooked on porn which escalated to talking to women as part of it. She actually fell for it but he had to go to therapy.  

I hope your email is protected or she has more evidence you won't be able to deny.  

Kisses Hale

Thanks for the heads up

Too bad. Hope all goes well and it will. If you are a good provider, she will realize how inconvenient divorce will be. She will realize that providers fills the void and keep things together for many marriages.
It will pass but you are going to go thru some rough bumps. Go buy her a nice diamond, she will get over it...after the motions...eventually.

I JUST talked about this with an ATF-EVERYBODY should have a lock on their phone

With phones doing so much these days like pay for lunch, scanning at checkout for discounts etc, I believe it is fair and smart for everybody to have a password on their phone- hobby phone or not.  

If the wife asks why you all of a sudden put a password on the phone- just say you would be worried about somebody getting your personal info if you left it some place. Encourage her to do the same!!! Tell her the password for the regular phone!  

Then have a different password on the hobby phone so if she finds it- she can't get in and you can more reasonably deny the phone not to be yours. And of course, if she finds it- just say you found it and were not sure how to get it to the owner lol

Sorry this happened to you.

I got busted earlier this year when my provider friend was flying up to meet me on a golfing vacation in SC. The wife put something on my phone to track everything. She was willing to forgive me but we are actually separated and looking at divorce now. Was a really tough few months that included counseling but after a lot of soul searching I am much happier now.  

Hope things work out for you the way you want!

Feel for you...

and may you recover from this without too much pain and suffering. Just reminds me and makes me glad I am unattached while in this environment...

If you are saving phone numbers of your hobby phones make sure they are always locked. Then deny it's your phone .

That's terrible to hear. Probably the worst nightmare for anyone on here.

For everyone else, check around on the android/ iTunes store for apps to hide your pics/vid/numbers/apps. There's a few things you can use to stay safe and under the radar.

Good luck & stay safe peeps

to open the phone
so no matter who finds it without my fingerprint noones getting into that phone.
Its a Note not cheap  but I ask you....
what price do you put on the peace in your marriage.????