I have my preferences in women, and in reading these and other boards, I know that other guys do too: We have preferences (and expectations) about her appearance (height, hair color, breast size, appearances, pubic grooming, etc.) as well as her performance (sometimes wanting DFK, DATY, BBBJ, GFE, PSE, etc.)....

And I imagine a lot of the guys are like me--shorter than average, overweight, middle aged, etc.

We're not Ken, or Adonis, or the like.

But the ladies still pretend that we're perfect, or make it seem like we are.

How do they do it?

You are NOT married to any of them!  

Some of my best lovers have been short, bald, heavy, etc.
BTW I dont think any of those are bad things. I actually prefer a man with a little extra weight. Its the guys who DO look like Ken that are pest.

Pest is the wrong word. I just mean that typically great looking men dont "go the extra mile" Lol to make sure Im having just a good a time as he is.

I have met some of the most amazing women with the capacity to accept people for who and what they are since being exposed to this hobby.....not only are they breath taking on the outside but they are twice as beautiful inside....we are the lucky recipients of that...I know that they are not always in the mood...but rarely have I been dissapointed. And we are aware of the bounderies but I for one think they are a very special set of ladies.....Happy New Year to those who do make our dreams come true.......

Amen brother! You hit the nail on the head. Also, many of these ladies are true professionals and know how to make us feel special. God bless them, one and all!

I know what you mean. I'm not an idiot, and I own a mirror, so I know what I look like, yet time after time, I'm treated like a king. I've been called cute, handsome, sexy. On the other hand, I've also been told that I look like Charles Manson, and still was treated like a king. Like I said, ain't they grand?

How do they do it?
Well that's something I spent way too much time trying to figure out. With only my first year under my belt (no pun intended) I spent too much time and energy trying to come up with a black and white answer for that. It's just my nature.

Lord knows in the "real" world, had I tried to approach ANY of these ladies in, let's say, the grocery store (isn't that where they say we should 'hunt'? LOL) you'd surely hear that one bad wheel on the cart spinning madly as they escaped the canned food aisle while looking for solace, and distance from me, in frozen foods.

But in this world....a goofy looking bastard like me has been welcomed with open arms, sparkling eyes, and warm hearts.
Real? How do they do it?
I'll not ever know "how"....but just be thankful that they can......and do.

I've learned that sometimes it's better to just enjoy....than to analyze.

Just sayin'

Yes they are, extra special ladies.  Most of us are not Brad Pitt look-alikes, but they make us feel like we are just as hot as he is.  Remember, that's their job.......But I love it anyway.

Swim

Yeah Sophie!!  To tell the truth, I just LOVE men, all types,always have, always will.  Thank you gentlemen for being there for us and also the kind words.  That meant a lot.

hugs & kisses and best wishes
for the new year.
joanna

I have had the pleasure of spending time with.  Thank you, thank you, thank you!

He has no genitalia! LOL!