Easy

It happens to everyone, I think. I have had to go back and enhance a couple of reviews. Just elaborate a little on the juicy parts, describing positions, subtle nuances, etc., and it'll probably fly.....

It's not piggish to be a bit more specific, it's informational and helpful to others, and THAT'S the whole point.

I've had to go back and embelish a couple of reviews that I thought were fine. I think it's that "Mom raised a gentelman" thing gets in the way sometimes. I still can't believe some of the things some guys write in their reviews. There are simply some things that you don't say to or about a lady. I think you'll find that most of these guys are actually writing the review about themselves, and not the lady at all.

I'll simply continue to write with as much dignity and respect as I can muster up. If I need to go back and "spice it up", then so be it.

BTW, I admire your perspective.

I have had to go back and add detail to a few of my reviews when they weren't approved the first time.  The strange thing is, I haven't noticed much of a difference between the ones that are accepted on the first go-round, versus the ones that get rejected for "not enough detail."  I have also seen many reviews by others that are almost completely lacking in details.  Oh well.

I'll admit, I approach the reviews from a more "subtle" rather than "in-your-face" perspective.  If I have to go back occasionally and be a little more explicit or change a couple of words, not really a big deal.

Maybe someday I'll try writing a review like HoleyDiver (of course, I generally don't even attempt half the things he does ).  Could be an interesting exercise in expanding my sexual horizons.

No system involving humans and judgement is perfect.  And TER seems to be much better than the alternatives.

I have a girlfriend who doesn't want reviews here because of all the content put in them.Your reviews would be exactly what she would feel safe with..

It's TER who makes the standard as to what shows but my vote goes to you..

I do only see gentlemen and I know you would only see a lady too..Be creative and make your review a few more paragraphs..Put some sultry adjectives in it..Make it like a romance novel staight from your heart.Now you have made their change and resubmit your review..I hope I can read about your rendezvous real soon and the lovely star of the show.

Is it better to see a woman totally naked when you meet or a lady with just enough to tease.

I have to agree with a little black dress and nothing underneath...Ohhhhhhh

-- Modified on 1/13/2009 9:12:41 AM

I think there are several staff members who read over the reviews to approve them.  Some review screeners might be more lenient than others.

You're not alone that's for sure....

I travel alot and no matter what state I've been in the same thing happens everywhere. So I'm sure it's not the local Mod's that are screening them.I've had at least 6 clients email me and say they tried to post a review and it was rejected. Then they do it again and still rejected. I told them to look at my other reviews that were on my profile and study them to figure out what's going on. By then they're frustrated and I tell them don't even bother...don't worry about it. They usually just end up cancelling their VIP status and go back to lurking or using other boards. It's a shame!
On another note, a hobbyist I met in my travels told me that there was a database or some computer program that looks for certain vocabulary, not sure if that's true or not.

Update

Well, my review got posted. Wooo Hooo! Only a week later with
very little editing on my part. The review still has the class, taste, and style that I'm comfortable with. Thanx for all the support.