Hey, matie: does not have to be personal.  
   
 You have an impressive review record, a lot of 9s and 10s. However, you did doll out some 7s where others gave 9s. Were you...“whining”? Or, more likely, you were dissatisfied with some or other?  
   
 All I said was that if I expect a lady to meet me at the door (figuratively speaking), I am mighty disappointed being greeted by a gentleman with a notepad. This bothered me enough to turn away, end of story.  Someone else might also find it awkward (see a post below); others could not care less. This does not and should not reflect poorly on anything that may follow behind that door - which could be above and beyond outstanding.  
   
 I have my opinion, you have yours; this is what this board is for.  If I shouldn’t “tell a woman how to run her business”, - well, maybe you shouldn’t tell me what not to post here. You could just say that you had a courteous introduction and a blast for your date that you thoroughly enjoyed. Kinda like a poster just below you.  No need for my character assassination.  
   
 I would like to put this matter to rest, if possible.  
   
 Respectfully,  
 L43