and mine showed up today.

A disgruntled individual in my civilian life has threatened to "out" me.

So, as an emergency measure, I have pulled my website and other obvious sources of identification offline... for the moment.

THE GOOD NEWS-- it hasn't changed a thing. Everyone who has already booked with me is still on my calendar, and I can still be reached by email and (less easily) by phone.

I hope to have my website back up within a day or two, (minus the face pictures.)

Thank you for all for support and understanding while I "appear to disappear" for a moment... and I look forward to meeting some of you wonderful fellows very soon, indeed.

Tabu

Hang in there and keep your chin up.

Lexi

Sorry to hear that and hope everything works out without any major problems.

I'm glad to read "THE GOOD NEWS" since I've been waiting to spend time with this vixen and have a date planned for her visit to Philly.

You are such a "WAY COOL" lady...this too will pass.

And I pity the fool...who messed with you

xoxo,

Steph

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too shall pass.  We are here to lend support.  Stay safe.

Life is not fair.....but it is still good......you are in our thoughts....be safe

So Sorry this happe to you,what loser ,jealous person would do that,makes me angry

Hmmm Why not post a partial email address and name here, on Craigslist and backpage as a warning to him that complete information may be posted if he continues.  It would also be a warning to other ladies as to who to avoid.

Karma! ...

it is a CIVVIE who is causing the problem.  So outing him here would not help much, now would it.

.... is handling it the correct & professional way. She's a pro, she knows!

Tabu,
I do not think I have ever read anything negative about you, or from you. I think if most people had 1/2 the class and character you possess that there would be no-one causing these types of problems. I'm cheering for you.
This is probably not the post for this statement, but given the way I was "raised", I had a very narrow view of providers, but then I met one and got to really know her and came to the realization that you ladies have much better character and personalities than most people I know. I have never had a bad experience and have learned more about life and living from you ladies than everyone else combined and I just want to say thanks, and to not let someone's narrow minded actions get you down.

not find a mention of a "he"; just a civie friend.  It could be a female who is just pissed at her for whatever reason.

The village is behind you. One bad apple aint spoiling this fun!

this is not a hobbyist situation, so no one else is at risk of his behaving spitefully. I prefer not to go into too much detail, suffice it to say it's someone who imagines a grudge against me, and is blindly striking out.

In some ways I see a silver lining-- it's forcing me to more discreet with my own image (sadly) than I thought I'd ever have to... but since you never know what can happen, maybe it's a good thing.

To conclude, I SO appreciate all the kind words and thoughts coming my way from so many of you. I've rally been touched that I have so many friends, virtual and otherwise.

Thank you.

....then ban their ass. They see ALL from behind the curtain!

a classy lady.  (We met briefly at Haya's party in Ft L when I brought Sabrina) if that helps how I know you.  I feel so bad that something like this has happened to you.  I hate it when any of you lovely ladies have a problem like this.

But, as you said, maybe there is some good to come out of it.  You have become more discrete on your website, as far as your pics go.  That is too bad for us, because you are a pretty lady, so seeing your face blurred is a real bummer.  However, we do understand.

Take care,
Swim
xoxo