Think I already replied, but didn't seem to register, so saying again, thanks, and for those who see this as too gooey for TER, the hell with them.
Best.
This may come across a bit off-the-wall, but I've had before what I'll be describing here, repeat cute/slim/teasy/fem gals filling my time in Tampa, so trying again. The reason for the restart is that my past gals there are pushing past mid-30s and beyond, and ashamedly for me age makes a difference. We all have our weaknesses. A little about me. I'm an older guy, slim, clean, establishment, widowed, full head of hair and other original equipment, and in no way threatening or sloppy. I usually can get it up OK, but no longer have a younger-guy's sensitivity of feel that makes ic and bj so volcanic, and very rarely finish by those routes, so as unusual as it sounds, those are off the menu. Hopefully that's a plus for some of you reading this. Doesn't mean I'm a member of the walking-dead, however, still love warm tease and sexy foreplay as much as the next guy. My past arrangements have been for a couple consecutive mid-week afternoons, usually noon - 6:00. These times aren't engraved in stone, my days there are free, so different scheduling possibly would work. The way we spend our time would include a couple hours out-and-about snacking, shopping, hotel pool, sports bar, etc, all of course in a cloud of PDA (no worries, nothing embarrassing, just quietly-sexy bf/gf stuff making me feel a totally-attended love-struck guy with you). Sandwiching both ends of this out-and-about time would be a couple hours of cozy getting acquainted, the TV playing whatever dumb shows play those times of day, us playing cuddle/kiss/fondle, you straddling with pussy rubs and giving hj with hot/tingly KY gel (great feeling stuff!), etc and so on. I'm anything but selfish in all this, am willing to be guided to whatever finger/oral play you most like, always is better to give than just to take. Anyway, I travel there at least three times each year (plan to continue doing so for as long as I remain vertical, lol), the next is in Sep, then probably again in Dec. My past arrangements have been to leave a thou flowers each trip, plus lay out a couple hun more for shopping, although some have opted that I leave those couple hun in flowers also. Anyone interested can PM me back. The only credentials are that you be youngish, thin, attractive and sexually confident, and have a happy disposition and a perky/firm bust (that latter never hurts, right?) I'm a pretty private guy, won't be asking for your personal life story or attention between visits, don't need that kind of nurturing. I'm also a pretty social and humorous guy, so don't worry about being shouldered with keeping up conversation. I generally communicate by phone or Messenger, both are private on my end, or PM here on TER, so whatever best works for you. I have RS2K and a solid escort reference there in Tampa (others not so solid so won't offer them). I expect to receive the usual number of criticizing replies to what I'm posting here, people like to heckle, but hopefully also to receive a number of positive contacts. Leaving ic and bj off the menu presumably will be pretty popular, mid-day hours on mid-week days often hit what otherwise would be non-productive open time, and I'm pretty regular so all adds up.
What's to heckle...you seem to know who you are and what you want, and you put it pretty clearly....have a blast Dude....
Yeah, sorry to say some folks here just can't refrain from piling on something like this, too gooey for them. Thanks for the good cheer, certain whomever I team with most certainly will be a blast. Already got a couple responses, lots of time to get more and sort them out.
Best back at you ...
Think I already replied, but didn't seem to register, so saying again, thanks, and for those who see this as too gooey for TER, the hell with them.
Best.
in their post getting posted; call it minor moderation if you want.
Strictly for what it's worth, this was the second of two similar posts this week...both in the "this is what I'm looking for is anyone interested" line. I haven't seen much of this in the past on this board (or others for that matter), and I have to say that I'm scratching my head and wondering why this doesn't seem to be a more common approach. It strikes me that this would save a lot of trial, error and disappointment in the process...
amen, has worked in the past, it'w what I'm trying to avoid.
Kylie in Tampa is great girl to hang with. Almost 200 reviews, has an incall location and lots of fun. I've seen her probably a dozen times. Nice girl.
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"Lasting friendships", love it! Email on its way.
A bit of an update on two fronts. First, one PM respondent suggests my original post wasn't adequately specific. I've since re-read, and believe the "thou flowers each trip, plus ... a couple hun more for shopping, although some have opted that I leave those couple hun in flowers" is pretty clear. If anyone finds this in any way vague, please PM, I'll repeat.
Second, another PM respondent suggests that we shuffle the order of things so that hotel time isn't split into periods before and after. So a workable re-shuffle would be as follows: (a) begin with restaurant or bar so as to become acquainted and satisfied with each other beforehand, with whispering-sweet-nothings and private tease/play under the table comfortably previewing the good things to come; (b) then do some quick shopping, although again, most have indicated they'd rather receive the additional two hun flowers instead; (c) then hit the hotel for the dreamy afternoon described in my original post, but now unbroken into a before and after, we now shower and settle-in only once (or could do so more than once anyway, yummy, lol) and proceed accordingly; and (d) conclude with restaurant or bar for a casual goodbye, again with whispering-sweet-nothings and private tease/play under the table, sending you home with a hearty laugh at my insatiable taste for high school romancing, and me back to the hotel absolutely panting. This re-shuffle actually sounds like an improvement to me, how about you?
BTW, I've gotten to the point of dropping the silly "Curious George" alias with a few PM respondents, although still plenty of time for others of you to make your interest known. Also, I now have locked in early Dec, so that adds for certain to the late-Sep trip already in place.
Another respondent PM suggested we change the time frame to earlier in the day so she could meet her daughter's 3:30 school bus. She thought 9:00-3:00; breakfast out, and then play right through lunch. Not really play through lunch, of course, but pick up food and drink after breakfast for later lunch in the room, more like eat and play through lunch. A 10:00 or 11:00 start might better ensure fresh sheets and extra bath towels, but the thought is a good one, I'm nothing if not flexible. I know all this is beginning to sound like a party planner thing, but hey, laying things out in advance usually makes for a better ending. Still lots of time till I'm there the last week in Sep, so those of you already PM'ing me, stay in contact, and others of you interested, drop me a line.
Hope you're not tiring of my posts, but another PM responder has asked a very interesting question: what can make these type visits fall apart? I've experienced this only three times, pretty rare, but in all cases jarring.
In one instance, I was the one to call off proceedings, the action between us had become just too platonic. We'd known each other for years through Mons and occasional hourlies, I'd been in her home and met her kids, and over time we'd talked about my grieving over my wife's early passing, her troubled divorces, our kids' trials and tribulations, etc, etc. Maybe that was the crux of the problem, we knew enough of each other's backgrounds that it took her eyes off the immediate job at hand. For example, over lunch that last visit she chose to sit across from me in the booth, so bye-bye to all that under-the-table fun stuff that should have been happening. Then when briefly strolling the mall, she was always a step ahead or behind, never inviting arm-in-arm, never copping secret feels and quietly inviting me to do the same, never rubbing up with those ever-loving breasts of hers, never delivering and inviting all sorts of other hidden sweet nothings. Then when arriving back in the room, 1 1/2 hours already passed, no sugary welcoming dfk come-on, no "we're finally here" slow undressing and groping tease, no building of the always-sexy atmosphere that would define the rest of a leisurely high-school romantic afternoon. Then to close the deal, no inviting me into showering with her to share all the goodies lurking there, a pretty basic thing, and final indication she'd taken her eyes off the job. So at that point I called things off, we prorated the flowers, and I drove her home. She was angry and defensive, I was disappointed, a total lose-lose, we never tried again.
The second instance where things fell apart again involved a gal I knew pretty well, we already had had a number of these type visits under our belts. She was a looker, had proven herself great at initiating come-on and action both out-and-about and back in the room. On top of all that, she was a delightful drinker, kept her solid cool while really dropping her inhibitions, in effect the more I provided the better she provided (me, I can baby a single beer for hours, lol). Turns out my last visit, however, that she had found the church, so no matter how good her intent or how many the drinks, the play just no longer felt right to her. She really needed the flowers, so sincerely tried, but just couldn't stay in the game. So after a brief period back in the room, and seeing I obviously wasn't happy, she faced reality and called us off. We parted on good terms, have talked since, she recently invited me down for another try, I'm wary but considering.
The third instance of a falling-out actually was comprised of many little instances, a gal I'd been seeing for many years who at some early point had gotten herself hung-up on pills (Xanax, etc). She needed the flowers, so with all sorts of urging and promises she'd keep attracting me back down there. She'd be of really honest intent, and would start each visit in top loving form, but inevitably the pills would show themselves in drools and pass-outs and even moments of violence, so rarely did we make it through even a first day. She remained a knock-out cutie throughout her 20's and very early 30's, but the pills clearly were showing their toll, so made it easier for me finally to smarten up and wean off.
Anyway, for what it's worth, the big determinants for making these visits work seem to be the gal sporting a pretty look (not heavy, maybe even petite), being youngish, happily initiating the kinds of come-on that keeps the mood constantly sexual exciting, and of course not bombing me with the effects of pills or worse. I'm too old a guy to be chasing a pretty young thing around the table, or walking a gal back into consciousness, both make me feel like a damn fool. On the other hand, I'm A-1 when it comes to responding, to a gal guiding my hands and heads (either or both heads, lol) to where she gets me believing she enjoys them to be, nothing more exciting than being enticed to provide back.
All in all, none of this sounds all that difficult, but then I'm just the guy, so what do I know?
My quest here is almost over. Any newbies still not heard from, drop me a line. About the only job left is to select from among those interested, then get on down there. It's interesting that many of the PMs to me have been about how to spruce up the surroundings, not change the play. The surroundings suggestion most most received is to stop by the grocery after initial coffee or lunch to pick up wine and snacks. A second is to have the hotel supply plenty of extra towels. The third is to get a room at least 3 stories up and facing no buildings so we can leave the shades open to let the outside in. I like all of these, will most certainly make them happen. Wish me luck, gonna be a great few days.
Don't understand your post. Did you mean it for another thread? What I've written all is legit, and gals who have responded seem understanding of the necking/touchy kind of afternoons these will be.
Your OP clearly states that you are "shopping" for a provider. Response was clearly and merely a suggestion. While said provider may tell you they understand what is expected, what you actually receive may be a different story.
Sorry, I misunderstood, and greatly appreciate your warning. I've been doing these type visits since my ED symptoms began about 10 years ago (still can get it up pretty well, just no climaxing other than when I do it to myself), and you're right, although most have been great, some have not. I talk about the not-so-greats in my second to last post to this thread regarding things that can go wrong, each cited actually occurred. I think I've had mostly good luck because I hit these gals with lots of communication beforehand, lots of explanations and questions and challenges to their responses, don't hound them, but go through enough writing (and ultimately calling) to gain some surety that we're in sync. Periods of silence during this beforehand back and forth are the biggest give-away, the biggest indicator that I'm pursuing the wrong girl. I make kind of a big deal about that. If communication becomes sparse beforehand, I comment on it, give it a few shoves, and if it doesn't pick up, I bow out. Anyway, thanks again for the warning. Back-channeling is the best protection us hobbyists have here, wouldn't go without it.
No problem and hope all goes well and have a great time! Let us know who you decide on and enjoy.