Over the last eight years in the Bay area I've done the strip joint thing with several girlfriends. I'd never take them to the Mons. No privacy (shoulder to shoulder lap dances next to strangers), and too many guys who got drunk elsewhere and can't tell the difference between the dancers and your date. Or more likely they don't care. It's fun with friends, but the atmosphere lacks the intimacy and sense of security that the ladies I know were seeking. We found Deja Vu out on Adamo to be the best. During a couch dance in back the dancer invited my girl to disrobe as well. If you really want to push the envelope, try one of the on premise swingers clubs like Club Elite in Port Richey. There's another on Adamo just east of the strip clubs. It opened where the Pleasure Palace used to be but I can't think of the name off hand.