I only am engaged in the hobby a few times a year, so I have little opportunity to really get a good connection with a provider so they remember me. I also never do the short 1 hour encounters they just don't do anything for me. I prefer longer 4+ hr sometimes in public but normally have a 2 hr private session.
So when I see: "Money discussed in email or phone call" posted on an ad contacts (which I get) but then see: "For longer encounters contact me" on the ad: How do I ask about the longer public dinner date to get the info I need to make a decision.
ex. If I am interested in someone who's donation is $500 /hr and I want to take her to a hockey game that lasts 5 hrs and after I'd like a couple of hours of private time should I count on $3500+ if she does not clearly state an amount for "dinner date donation of 4+ hr or 8+"? Should I ask? How to bring it up? Does it matter that nearly all of it is at a hockey game? What if all of it was at a hockey game no private time, should I mention that or does it even matter? Many do but many do not talk about 8 hr dates because I am sure a private session that long (if that was what the guy wanted would be .. well.... different than going to something like a game). Just wanted to ask.
Your experienced in knowing what not to say so i'm sure you'll get an answer. Let your public time be known in your email so she can decide if this is something she is interested in doing. When a lady says " for longer encounters contact me " that is exactly what she wants ..... Communication
in a longer engagement. However, in my experience, if a lady doesn't have a rate listed on her site for a longer engagement, she probably doesn't do many of them, and therefore may not be your best choice initially. With such ladies, I'd recommend seeing them for a time listed on their site, and then gauge if you'd enjoy each other's company on your hockey date.
Even if the longer engagements rates are not listed you can still ask politely and properly.. Nothing ventured nothing gained.. Like you I like longer engagements as the one hour deal does nothing for me. I have inquired about longer engagements than what was listed and often they were very willing but as Sarah said, not something they are asked about very often so they don't mention it... Again, nothing ventured , nothing gained.. Good luck..
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