I have used an agency and never again. Now I KNOW that you are a wise man in this hobby.
Personally, I love great conversation, DFK and DATY--they are my favorite things and deal breakers if they aren't on the menu (great conversation isn't a menu item, but if she and I don't click mentally [intellectual stimulation makes for even greater physical gratification], then I likely won't return for a second visit).
I'm wondering what the guys and ladies enjoy most.
I mean we all enjoy it but if a lady prefers not to, are we going to let that spoil our time? I say no!
Dealbreakers for me are not speaking conversational english, no BBBJ and no DFK.
I agree on the English-speaking requirement, but I have to confess I'm partial to American women.
As for DATY, I just really enjoy it. I want her to enjoy it. I don't want her to fake it. If she doesn't like it/want it, I want her to tell me, but honestly, I probably wouldn't see her/see her again.
Just my preference.
I almost forgot:
Raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens
Bright copper kettles and warm woolen mittens
Brown paper packages tied up with strings
These are a few of my favorite things
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It starts with the first communication with her. "I'd love to see you! Can I get back to you about schedule?" beats the hell out of "Hmmm.....Let me see what my schedule looks like." (this assumes, of course, that I've given satisfactory screening information).
Worshipping her body---roaming my hands over her entire body and making mental notes of her erogenous zones. Then going back to revisit those.
I don't need dirty talk in emails before we meet, but a lady's authentic, spontaneous "game" talk while we're playing is a sure way for me to reach my erectus maximus....I won't have enough skin left to blink my eyes, LOL.
Guiding me to exactly what & where turns her on.
When she tells me exactly where she wants me to finish. Of course, I have my favorite "finishing spots", and I only hope they're the same.
She just laid there - Yep , read one of my reviews ..............
Calling / texting your next appointment right in front of me - Yep , had that happen .
No BBBJ - dealbreaker .
No DATY - dealbreaker . This one makes me laugh , that I actually ENJOY pleasing her and I am fucking paying for that !!!
Gotta tell me , guide me , physically or verbally , to what her erogeonous zones are - LOVE that !
Damn it , I am paying for that too .....Damn it !!!! ![]()
Gotta tease me thru a few e mails and when the door opens - this ensures I will have a hard on that closely resembles a 2 inch galvanized pipe . If your not smiling and making eye contact while rubbing my dick in anticipation of his grand entrance .......... then I won't be seeing you again - dealbreaker .
I had a few that dressed way too " trampy " . That taught me to ALWAYS state a clothing preference and that problem was solved .
TITS - I am 100 % a bolt on , tit man , just a guy being a guy ...........I never knew that the hard ones were simply no fun to play with !!!! So now , there is no second visit , UNLESS they are the soft kind , where it is installed UNDER the muscle - money well spent ladies !!! Is that wrong ??? ![]()
NOT being vocal - dealbreaker . Yep, already had " silence of the lambs " . Moan , yell " fuck me harder big boy " . I am damn sure going to guide you where I want you , and expect the same from you so we both can enjoy it . Oh yeah , I paying for BOTH of us to enjoy ![]()
STRANGEST one .......Had it my whole life .........TATTOO's !!!!!!!!!!! Just mentally for me - you have quite simply the most GEORGEOUS body , piece of art , break the mold , I want your friggin BODY !!!!!!!!! Damn it , I gotta have that NOOOWWWW , kinda hard body !!!! Then you go and throw some graffitti all over it ........................WHY ?????
These are a few of my favorite things .................
I have two- at the very least there should be LFK but I prefer DFK & absolutely should be BBBJ. If they are not on the menu, then I am not there.
Almost forgot- INDEPENDENT!! Have never used an agency & don't intend to...EVER!
I have used an agency and never again. Now I KNOW that you are a wise man in this hobby.
DFK and DATY and BBBJ and conversation and it would be a deal breaker for me
I can't help it...
I really like a nice back rub, BBBJ and doggie with a woman who has hair long enough to hold onto. Intelligent conversation, clean place... women over 30 years old. Over 40 is fine too.
I don't care for DATY and rarely do that with a provider. DFK if she iactually good at it, but sloppy deep tongue probes do nothing for me.
Sorry, couldn't resist.
Favs are 69. Love it! CG and reverse CG. And seconds.(if able)
Can't think of any dealbreakes, at this time.
My very first thing I mention is that I am very affectionate and demand the same attention from you. Yes, I am a lady into good old hot makeout and will not see a man who is not. Kissing is an all important part of mutual enjoyment for me and every gentlemen I see or I just pass them by.
Some men do want to be serviced and that's fine but just not my way of doing things. That same service is offered but as a build up. No 15 or 30 minute in and out could ever work with me and actually an hour seems to be a rush.
Kisses Haley
emails while we are setting up the date. Once I arrive (or she arrives if I'm hosting) then she needs to pay 110% attention to me; no texting, calls, etc. Good conversation, lots of foreplay including being a good kisser with a minimum of LFK but preferably DFK. DATY is a plus. Excellent oral skills among other bedroom attributes. Another nice plus is a warm washcloth to clean me up.
Nice work by all. I don't post often but read the different threads and theme days almost daily. There were some great threads yesterday and what makes this board the best around.
Okay....my deal breakers.
1. No GFE - Why go through it if you're not going to be all in? I guess that covers DFK, DATY & BBBJ's, right?
2. Don't dress like a skank. I can go to a strip club if I want to see that....not that there's anything wrong with that either. Dress comfortably, yet sexy. I picked you because I think you're hot and through research know a little about what to expect. It's a mental and emotional connection connection for me as well. We're going to get naked.....I want to talk to you and both feel comfortable.
3. Flirty emails and a phone call are always nice. I like to have a little prep time and get a feel for whom I meet. You can tell a lot about a person by the way the write.
4. Def put the phone down and focus on us for the time we're together. Have the same conversation with my kids. It will be there when you walk out of the room.
5. Effort and connection. If there's they both don't exsist, I wish you well. It happens on both ends. I've felt like writting apology letters a couple of times and a few where the lady wasn't up to the task. Mayby we just weren't meant to meet.
Thanks about it....Have a great day!
That's pretty much it.
Important is that the lady shows good personal care which contributes to her beauty. I anticpate when the door opens to see the lady attired in her attractive tantalizing sexy apparel.After the first glance let the welcome be sealed with kissing that soon includes deep kissing. Flirtig is fun especially in making the appoint, etc. This is a great turn on and sets the stage for the party. Good conversation - sexy talk included, pleasantness, thoughtfulness. etc. contribues much. Some say the journey is the destination, but I say, the better the journey the better the destination.Great foreplay is a great part of the visit. Variety in the journey, inovation, and foreplay makes it good for th cumming(s). Let things flow so that as the passion rises its cums to the time to make it to at least the first destination Then the cummings) is at its best for that visit.
I love DFK. Pretty much my only "dealbreaker"
I've known Sexy Toni for almost eight years...our many rendezvous' together always start off with catching up on what we've both been doing, then get's into the good stuff that should only be talked about in reviews. She was the first provider I ever saw...talk about hitting hitting a grand slam in your first AB....and that was in NY, over a thousand miles from her home base.
Then, there was Alyssa, who was the latest lady I saw, just before Thanksgiving. She dazzled just as much...and she was just as far from her home base.
Favorite thing: Ladies that are glad to see you, regardless of acronyms and other BS. Deal Breakers...lack of GFE. No lady I've met from Florida has ever failed in that regard...
include DFK (a must), BBBJ, dirty talk (love it), and DATY with a little ass worship thrown in for grins!!! lol