Probably because you're more likely to have your disemboweling tools at home....

Than at a hotel...

Though my Eros BFE ad hasn't reeled in a customer for the two years it's been up, I've had ample opportunity to consider every angle in my role as the gigolo's "Maytag repairman".  It crosses my mind that she might have several reasons: security, cleanliness, smoke, animals, etc.

Most of these are neutralized to some degree at a hotel.

Then again, it might be your Shakespearian approach; you really should use spell-check.....

A lot of risks for you as well to have a lady over to your place; security being #1.  If the date doesn't go right, does she send someone over to your place to teach you a lesson?

Re: incall/outcall

all in all, only had one lady over the vast years ever bolt out the door, she came in was friendly, all was good,her bf called she was out the door, apparently he came home from work early and wanted her to be there.i was a surprised.other then that all the ladies thati have had do an outcall were b=very nice and i made them feel comfortable, being a bachelor i keep the place very tidy and clean.im not a fan of incall at all, and if i were a provider i would feel much more nervous walking into a hotel room with the threat of LE? end of this tale!!!