Clean, not too much pet dander, and comfortable is what is important.

Residential:
Anything that doesn't have a guard gate where you have to show ID or are on camera is preferred.  House or condo is fine, although I am wondering if the lady would want a congo line of old, fat guys leading to her door for the neighbors to see.

Hotels are great, but not the kind where you need a key to work the elevator or security eye-fucks you as walk past.

Depends where I'm located whether incall or outcall.

I have noticed so many ladies offer incall and wonder how many men are more comfortable visiting a lady at her place. Being without such a location to offer does limit who will come to visit but wondering how much. Change can be good at times so outside opinions will make anyone make better choices. Thank you so much for any and all your info

Here's the question : what type of location are you most comfortable with ?

A hotel room a lady has picked out and what type is best

A home in a residential neighborhood

An apartment or condo

Kisses Haley

Since I am married, like many of the men here, I only visit ladies that offer incall unless I'm traveling somewhere. I would say a 3 star or higher hotel only. Some ladies offer incall at their home which I don't really think is a good idea unless you are a regular. Some ladies rent a corporate apartment my the month that they use for "work". These are usually higher end apartments and allow the ladies to change locations every few months.

No matter what you choose, as long as it's upscale, clean, and convenient, that's what counts.

I ONLY do incalls. Too much chance of a "cash & dash" on the outcall thing. Its nice for the provider to have an apartment or condo. Hotels are great as long as they are upscale.. When you pull into a "dive" hotel, you usually get "dive" service...

I'm divorced, but I still won't use my home to entertain. I wish to keep at least that private. Also, I prefer not to rent a hotel room to use as an outcall location when I'm in the Tampa or Orlando areas since I would only need it for a few hours at most. The only time I would use outcall is if I'm traveling.

As for the type of incall location, I have no preference. As long as it's in a nice part of town and clean, I'm happy.

I echo the comments from those that want/need incall (I'm also married and can't host at home, and it's easier for me to let the lady make the arrangements, unless I am on the road, which is rare, in which case I can host at my hotel).

That said, when playing locally, it's easier to coordinate when she has a permanent incall but hotels are fine as well.

In an upscale hotel, there might be an opportunity to meet for drinks beforehand.

I have a review describing the intellectual foreplay involved with that scenario.  It was one of my best dates ever and she's one of my ATFs.

While not married, I cannot host at home.  Even so, I prefer incall, as I would rather the provider feel more at ease with me, esp if it's a first date, and I think providers feel more comfortable in their own surroundings.  It really doesn't matter whether it is their home, or an apt/condo they have rented just to do incalls.  I have been to both.  For touring ladies, I have no problem going to their hotel room, have done that many times.  

I don't travel much, but when I have been out of town, I have done some outcalls to my hotel room, no problem.

Swim

I travel from Ocala so in-call is a must.  Hotels sometimes seem too business like, private homes I worry about what the neighbors think- I think one was outside with a camera once...yikes.
My preference is a nice condo or apartment. Clean, safe, feels like home but exudes sensuality.
Maybe we'll experience one some day.....

I'm married also, however my wife and play together.  Manytimes we travel to outlying areas to get the privacy necessary to play...(get away from the kids), but prefer outcall.  We have on occasion, had providers to our home when the circumstances are right, but only the ones we have gotten to know and consider friends.

I do this thing differently, as I'm not married and don't play when dating. It's more of an event since I have to travel anyway. Occasionally the trust is enough that we can meet at my house as well. Easier to have naked fun in the pool there (three hotel chains have asked that I not return for this reason....lmao)

It's usually multiple hours so I prefer to get a nice place and take care of everything. This way the lady doesn't have to worry about cleaning up after (chocolate syrup and rose petals can make one hell of a mess...lol). I'll sometimes have lots of water, wine, candles, flowers, snacks, or anything else the gal likes.
Room service is also available if a whim or craving hits.
Then...all she has to do is show up....have a drink and relax. She can leave whenever she wants....which also removes the stress of having to guess "signals" if she might not mind if you stay when you go to her place.

Overall, for several reasons, outcall is best for me.

Just sayin'

much for work anymore.  When visiting a lady, I prefer a hotel (indoor hallways prefered) or condo situation because the lady (hopefully) changes her location so as not to arose the curiostity of neighbors which are more likely in a residential setting.

2cups has made valid points, i only see girls at incall and im not married

I usually hobby when away on business and prefer outcall to my hotel.

Even though I've done outcall, It was only once.

I prefer incall and I don't really care what type of location it is. Just as long as the area is safe and her incall is clean, safe and comfortable.

sometimes incall is tough with family around. I have done outcall with known or reputable providers.  Must be clean, safe area.  Hotel, apartment/condo, or residence.

I prefer incall.  As far as location, as long as it is safe, clean, and somewhat discreet, I am fine with it.

Incall to me usually means high volume and I'm not into that.
But, when I do an incall I prefer a high class hotel not a dive. A residence is also ok, but feels kinda like everyone is watching!

and outcall when I am travelling and have a hotel room.  But here at home I most frequently see touring ladies so it's still a hotel room, only visited in her apartment a few times.

I don'thave just one answer here.  It depends on the situation.

When I first met you, I did not feel comfortable with the hotels of your choise (these were advertised as adult hotels and having lived in the AOE for some considerable of time before then, and having assisting several friends pulling their SO out of them as a inderdiction, my safety was a concern, but things can look different in daylight than after the bewitching hour.

That being said, I have also meet in private homes.  That being said, I could not imagine what would go on in a providers head, inviting a complete stranger into their home (unless it was something specificly aquired as their workshop space.  And I can not even think of all the extra work keeping my personnel space looking like an article for Home and Garden, 24/7.

Then there are the different type of hotels/motels today.  The newer ones have a central entrance at the front desk and I always feel like the clerk is thinking, "there is another poor a--hole who can't get any nookie at home".  Once past the portal, the rooms are high standard and most have more than a dest chair other than the bed, to get aquinted on.  If I recognize that our meeting is in one of these, I attempt to dress as a salesman and carry a computer case into the room to look like I am about to present a power-point demostration and I feel way over dressed when the provider is wearing next to nothing.

There are the other type of hotels where each room has an outside enterance.  My visits here have been the type where the provider parks elsewhere on the lot, leaving here space in front of the door open.  Usually there is a peek through the blinds and I don't have to even knock as the door is opened for me.  Unfortunately, these are older rooms, bearly having space for a bed, her clothing is hanging on an open rack for all to view and the bathroom shelves are all fillen the the things she used to make herself presentable, with nothing leftover for me to place my computer bag on to pull out my toothpaste, mouthwash and toothbrush.  Cold drinks have to be run for as there are no mini-frigs.

I myself am MOT inclinded to offer my home for a first visit for the same reasons that a provider would not offer hers for a first visit.  However, I would not have those same feelings if we have been meeting for over a periodof time, but then again, I am a single guy without roommates or other complications other than being accused of not being completely housebroken.

So I guess to answer you question, for first meetings, a reasonable businessman's hotel for evening meetings (I would never have met you if our appoints have been at those same hotels after dark).  If you are asking for specifices, I like La Quinta (and they have a rewards program).  There is an older but well maintained motel in Winter Park that I like and several high rises between Altamonte Springs and Maitland that seem ok but I have never used.  There is an Older highrise at Crain's Roust that is well know to be filled all the time with out of town agency girls that I would not use, no matter how nice the rooms are.  There are several on SR50 near the university and then again 0n SR436 outside the airport.  The few older motels nearnear SR435&17/92 were well know to support the "dancers" at the audlt clubs that were in the area but the one near the library is satisfactory.  Stay off the Trail between Sandlake and Colonial.

Note to mods:  I have tried either recommend specific chains or areas of the area I knew five years ago.  I realize that things change and I will be happy do make any corrections here if needed.

'rock'

Finding an incall that is safe for all concerned is no laughing matter. Strangers is right, so bringing someone to my home would never work. Living in a nice neighborhood and understanding the safety of the children around me make me respect other peoples right to this and would never go somewhere just to put other people in this same situation. It has to be more than the almighty dollar.

I'm so glad we had a chance to meet ...it seems so long ago yet only a few years. Your doggie was very memorable and glad you shared such a nice time.

Going back to my no-tell motel which is adults only with no neighbors looking out the windows may not be something everyone is comfortable with. I am an has worked for years without LE breathing down anyone's neck and no neighbor taking a picture of your number plate.

I am working hard to find that special location that keeps me feeling good about myself without encroaching on the safety of those around me....It's cumming soon and hope you will join me in my new place once it is found

TER mail only works for VIP here and don't know if you are

PS : I adopted a little 6 lb dog myself 3 years ago who is the joy of my life. He's got problems already since he's a rescue dog and over 13 but oh the love.

Kisses Haley

LAID  I LOVE the anticipation either way...it's EXCITING meeting a new lady !!

I haven't been back to O-town since that week, oh so long ago.  I don't think I could produce the same results if I did.

Rest assured, if I ever get back, your on my short list.

If you're at athe same e-mail, I'll post you an update.

And I'm glad I was helpful.  Does that mean I get a discount when I get back to town (lol)?

'rock'

I only do incalls.  I have nosy neighbors.