FWIW, our previous mod always said that this is our board, for our benefit. I had a similar issue with a lady who was well reviewed and respected on the board. It wasn't actually a NCNS but after several emails, references given by other ladies (I know they did-I was cc'd by a few), a date set, and me really looking forward to it, there was suddenly no communication day before, day of, or even afterward for a period of time. It wasn't till I was urged my our previous mod to 'out' her on this board, did she admit her mistake via PM and publicly on this board. We made up with no hard feelings and it was soon forgotten about.
I'd say that if you don't hear from her, perhaps you could bring it up and let others know, but as a word of caution, I'd suggest to stick to facts as opposed to exaggerating things because you're PO'd at the moment. As was already said, you may hear from some white knights but sometimes that goes with the turf.
I haven't been active on the board for quit a while so perhaps the current mod and/or frequent posting hobbyists don't agree with me, but until I'm told otherwise, I'd go with the first sentence of this post.
a-clouds
Should one write a review for a well reviewed provider who no shows after having you drive to a location and then will not pick up or return your calls leaving you driving around in an unfamiliar area of town?
for a session that never happened. The most you can do is post it on your local board, and wait for the fireworks.
right into the toilet. And you don't get to enjoy the ensuing trainwreck.
It gives her a chance to respond and puts her on notice that we do talk about these things.
I once submitted an unfavorable review for an otherwise well-liked provider. I wasn't mean or anything; I simply was honest and reviewed the less than stellar session I had with this provider. Well, my review was denied. It was never posted. Their (TER's) reason? It was "inconsistent". That's right. That was TER's reason. I didn't change it, so my unfavorable review remains unposted. On another occasion, I tried to post a review for a provider who pretty much left me stranded, much like the original poster's situation, and no, TER won't post "reviews" when the actual incident didn't happen. They should allow reviews for these kinds of situations because providers can be as flaky as hobbyists. I bet providers can "blacklist" a no-show client without a problem.
Food for thought.
avoid detection!
to contact the lady since? Providers are real people who sometimes have emergencies they have to deal with. If she doesn't give you any legitimate reason, then you need to let the rest of us know about the NCNS by posting on the Florida board.
I had the same problem I wrote a review and I didn't see the thing in the provider as the other reviews. I think TER should look into it more and see things can change with a provider like age or if they go from GFE to get it over with.
Post the information on the board, that is the only way that you can alert others. Since there was no actual session, a review can't be submitted.
Have you tried communicating with the provider, via e-mail or phone, since the incident occurred? Perhaps there's a logical explanation.
and see if there is an explanation. If you get no response, or something really off the wall...post it here. No date = No review. We had this happen about a year ago, where a very popular provider NCNS, and he could not get a hold of her to talk about it. Turns out, his mentioning it on the board worked out for the best, as a hobbyist who knew her pointed out the personal problem she was having, and why she disappeared for a while. He had his explanation, she had her name cleared, and they all lived happily ever after.
Just like the guys, we girls have similar issues. That's why everyone should communicate with each via email/phone 24 hours before a date.
We all have emergencies and like Paris said something may have happened to her that she had to take care of a situation.
My values are treat others how you'd like to be treated.
FWIW, our previous mod always said that this is our board, for our benefit. I had a similar issue with a lady who was well reviewed and respected on the board. It wasn't actually a NCNS but after several emails, references given by other ladies (I know they did-I was cc'd by a few), a date set, and me really looking forward to it, there was suddenly no communication day before, day of, or even afterward for a period of time. It wasn't till I was urged my our previous mod to 'out' her on this board, did she admit her mistake via PM and publicly on this board. We made up with no hard feelings and it was soon forgotten about.
I'd say that if you don't hear from her, perhaps you could bring it up and let others know, but as a word of caution, I'd suggest to stick to facts as opposed to exaggerating things because you're PO'd at the moment. As was already said, you may hear from some white knights but sometimes that goes with the turf.
I haven't been active on the board for quit a while so perhaps the current mod and/or frequent posting hobbyists don't agree with me, but until I'm told otherwise, I'd go with the first sentence of this post.
a-clouds
I got a call yesterday afternoon from a gentleman who wanted an appointment for 10am this morning. We chatted for a bit and I asked him to give me a confirmation call this morning around 8am and then we would finalize the plans and have our meeting.
Well, no call, nothing. If we posted this everytime it happened; the board would be innundated.
For us, IT HAPPENS ALL THE TIME!
That's why I always ask for the confirmation call one or two hours ahead of the appointment before I give out any info as to my incall location.
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