I have memberships to all three mentioned. I use all of them and like them. I wouldn't require a guy to have a membership with any of the screening services to see me. If you have a few recent provider references that would work as well. I think the advantage of using the services is the speed of verifying a client. If you wanted to see someone on short notice, your odds would be greatly increased by using a screening service versus not using them. The screening services and whitelist referrals make seeing a client easy for me.

For the ladies -  Do you have a preferred verification service?  Would you rather verify a hobbyist through date-check, preferred411, or TER white list?  Or some other service?

While it would be nice to be able to join all of those services, I'd rather spend my money on other things....

TIA,
b_sheep

I like date-check and preferred411.  I am also okay with 2 references.  And since I don't know what the TER white list is, I can't comment on that one.   *smiles*

Hugs,   Tarah  xoxo

......Have always felt very comfortable with datecheck. Torre

Hi B_sheep~

Personally, I think it's only necessary to be a member of one verification site.....in addition to being a member here. Between P411 and Date-Check, I tend to gravitate toward Date-Check.

Paris Bouvier

national scope.

Any one is is good,let's get these good men screened.Important thing is to have 3 ok's or moore from well reviewed established providers with websites & revies on TER TBD.My favorite date check.

As a "newbie" to the hobby world I was just thinking of asking the same question, all of them claim to be the most reliable so thank you ladies for giving us the 411, sounds like DateCheck's the way to go

Yes...

I prefer my new friends to be apart of either Date-check, P411 or RS2K verification services for
faster verification.... but it's not mandatory.

Otherwise it maybe more work for us ladies if your not a member these days.

I am a member of all 3 verification services and love them all.

my 2 cents...