I just signed up for Preferred 411.  Do providers still do further background even though they have done verifications?

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considered a newbie, and therefore, more screening is necessary for most providers. After you receive some okays, you should be good to go.  Have fun and play safe.

the fact that someone at P411 did some checking on you is helpful, yes.  and it's EASIER to check references once you have a few (or more) okays, certainly.  but every lady screens her own way, to her own satisfaction, using whatever tools she deems necessary.  there is no "free ride".

bear with us, please.  it's all about helping us to feel comfortable with you.  the more comfy we are, the more we can relax, have a good time, and show YOU a good time.  and that's really the objective, no?  

 
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Screening is always unique to each provider and her comfort level.

P411 is great if you get frequent AND RECENT OK's from ladies who are established and have given several OK's.  I would more likely trust an OK from the past 1-2 months from a lady who is active and has given many OK's than a 6 month old OK from a lady who has given 3 OK's.  Even then I might send out a polite email to the lady and ask if she would see the gentleman again.

If you don't hobby often, chances are I would personally want to reach out to the more recent ladies you had seen just to see if you are a safe date and if they would see you again.  You would be amazed at how many ladies would OK a guy and not want to see the guy again for whatever reason.  That whatever reason matters to me!

Again, it's the provider's comfort level.  Some check references, some don't even ask for them.  Each lady is different