Guess it depends on how it got stretched out? I'm confused too!

Well, Elle, As one who's seen a no. of milfs in my time

and ''gilfs'' too-smile-I think you coined a new word-its the lady and not the terminology

MILF -> A mother that I would like to Fuck...means you have a baby at some point in your life and you are a mot mom
Best example I can give you is if you are a guy and you see this hot 30 or 40 - something you old walking around the store and she is hot and you look at her and say to yourself...wow I want that...but you know she is Mom because either hr shopping car has a ton juice boxes and lunchables or she has her kid with her. That is the best way to describe a MILF

GILF -> A grandmother I would like to Fuck...means you have had a baby and now your baby has a baby...you are still looking hot and guys would love to be with you.

Two more to add...

Cougar -> An older woman that looks amazing...hot body, great looking face and loves to be with younger guys

Past Her Prime -> This is the older woman that still wears clothes that reveal too much and she need to cover up more.  She thinks she is hot and she is about 20 years older than she acts and dresses.  She wishes she was a cougar or a MILF, but is just past her primes and needs to hang it up

For you Elle...if you have had a baby then you are a One Hot Ass MILF.
If you have never had a child...then you are just Friggin Hot.

I hope this helps.

Milf schmilf!

The term itself is vague and can describe a multitude of descriptions. It really does not turn me on but it gives me a starting point when considering if it is a mom that I truly would like to fuck.
Number one the provider is admitting she is a "mom". But the similarities go out the window and general hunting rules apply for me. Pic, is she hit. Reviews, appearance and performance. The fact she has had a baby doesn't always mean her pussy isn't tight, a provider or civvie woman for whatever thats worth can have a LOT of miles on that sweet thing and be more worn out than than a woman that is childless!
I must say that I have had some very intense, pleasurable sex with preggos!
With MILFs, ymmv really does apply. Eom

The point is ILF! All I have seen and read of you brings this point home to me. Anyone who really thinks a vagina can't bounce back from giving birth, needs an education. Better yet....steer clear and leave it to me! Whatever you are Elle, whatever you call yourself, ILFU.

but that does not make you a milf, some one has  to want to see you to make you a milf.  For many you will be a milf but not for all. My .02

I prefer an older gentleman so I'm not a cougar. I've never had children so I'm not a MILF. I'm not even close to grandmother so definitely not a GILF.

What if ----- we didn't have labels? Elle would be the same hot blonde we all love to watch and I could be a hot red head who looks really good for her age?

xo LL

... and speaking as a "Stiffler's Mom", it should attract  a few people if they know what is best for them