It's not always that easy to tell exactly what personalities will work and which won't. Pictures are the icing on the cake but the filling might not be as sweet. Maybe there's a real lack of chemistry that would make you feel your enjoyment would not be there

Have you ever arrived to a ladies place or her to yours and you were totally turned off but she looks exactly what you expected ?  Has the moments after you sit and chat felt like pulling teeth. Has there been a time when there was absolutely no chemistry .

Did you go through the session and how did it work out.

Would this out come make you not do the same thing if it happened again

Did you apologize and make an excuse and give her some or all of her donation


Kisses Haley

For the past several years, all of the ladies I've met with I had previously at least spoken with at M&G's.  The last time I tried to meet with a provider whom I had only exchanged e-mails and phone calls with (last month in NYC), she cancelled an hour before we were scheduled to meet, by e-mail and text.  I didn't see this until I had arrived near her location, thus leaving me no Plan B alternative.  Well, not quite...when I got home, I had an e-mail from a friend from San Diego (whom I had originally met at a Vegas M&G, and at subsequent ones at Foxwoods and NYC) to confirm meeting in the City the following week, and letting me know she would be arriving in Vegas the following evening, and hoping I was going to be there as well.  After the NYC disappointment, I decided WTF, Vegas?  Why not, it's one of my favorite places.  A couple of hours later, flight and hotel reservations were set, I got last minute invites to two M&G's in Sin City w/o any difficulties, and I had a blast there.  And, yes, I did meet with my friend from SD, twice, and then again in NYC the following week.

Going forward, the ladies I've met at M&G's always have preference.  I've never had a problem with any of them...

some ladies that I meet that  I just didn't click with.  I went through with the session and never saw them again.

but usually that is because I have met them at a M&G or at least had a fairly lengthy email/PM back-and-forth exchange to establish some sort of relationship.

Even if I didn't click, of course I would leave the full donation.

do whatever is necessary to make it
to the next meet and greet HERE in S. Florida.

I have had a few where it was slam, bam thank you ma'am and outta there since there was not the chemistry I had hoped for.   Once a B&S but I took care of business and asked if she had somewere to go.... please?  Another time she didn't speak very good English so I scooted right after.  I've never had to turn around and leave before the fun began so I consider myself lucky with that.

These are the exceptions though rather than the rule.  For the most part I've had good times and nice conversation afterwards, sometimes if I'm able, a second pop.  and

I had to really stop and think about the last time I had ever had a situation where I wanted to leave because the lady was not what I was looking for......  I honestly would say that it has only happened once or twice in the close to 20 years I have been involved in the hobby.......  Yes 20 years LOL...  I was only 18 when I started  (Have to be legal age GRIN)!  I do have some south florida property for sail too, lots of water!  

Anyway the few times it has occured once quite honestly was my fault for making the date to begin with.  The reviews prior were truthful and I did not listen.....  The other was with a lady that was not as fresh as I would normally visit.  

I think the reason my results have been almost perfect have to do with my research and the wonderful ladies who I have been able to pick from as friends.  Much like another gentleman posted in this thread there is normally some emailing and some talk on the phone before I meet a new friend for the first time...  So not many bad experiences for me..

city with a lack of independent ladies so I would use an agency.  The booker said I should see this new girl who "had been well thought of by some of her regular guys with repeat dates" and "I'm sure you will have a great time."  Well, it was 2 hours mostly me trying to get her to relax enough so that I could teach  her about the biz and how to please a guy a little more than twice her age.  No, I did not see her again.

I think some ladies out there underestimate the initial impression made on the phone. Yes I realize they may get several dead end calls a day but when I get a mechanical response it's a big warning flag. A warm friendly voice on the other end is a deal breaker if I'm dealing with someone I haven't met, which is rare. That's what's great about M&G's.