As I sit here in COLD, rainy North Carolina, I'm thinking of how much fun I had in sunny Tampa last week!

A big "Thank You" to the following gentlemen who made my visit so memorable:

My sexy chauffer 1rob, and my NC connection, thank you HUNNIE for picking me up at the airport and whisking me off in your big carriage, lol! We always have a blast when we see each other! Thanks for the Godivas...I'll have to keep them a secret from my personal trainer-LMAO!

Furnsam, so glad to meet you! You are such a special gentleman...thanks so much to the beautiful vintage earrings and pin! They are so beautiful Dinner was so much fun afterwards! I got to surprise "Swimmy" and meet "bigparts52" (who now on my radar)! Hope out paths cross again...

A special WOW to a UTR gent from Orlando who reads the board! I'm glad we FINALLY got to meet after trying for about a year, lol!

Mr Punk Rocker, aka "young blood"...oh my, what a sexy thang you are! Thanks for the custom made CD...love the songs, you ROCK!

Bobb3950, thanks for a great evening, and dinner at Ocean Prime was tres FAB, as were the Godiva truffles Miss you baby...

And to a real stand up gentleman who hopefully is on the road to a speedy recovery...Melboring! Our paths will cross another time. Hope you are feeling better, you sexy Italian man, you, lol!

THANK YOU gentlman for a great trip!!!

xoxo,

Steph

a great time, but, always to short.

See you again soon.

to thank me. I should be thanking you actually.
I learned a very valuable, yet expensive, lesson this past week.

There aren't many providers who, when the client falls ill with pneumonia so bad that it requires twice daily doctor visits to stay out of the hospital...and using an oxygen tank to breathe, would not only expect every single dime for a 5 hour booking.....but then call said client merely 11 minutes after they said it "should" be in the bank, to find out where it was.

The lesson I learned this past week was all about class and character. My conscious is clear because I chose not to argue and live up to my 'commitment' of an appointment. Money is fleeting...I'll get that back....but character is priceless.

Which brings me to MY thank you for the week...
Sindie!!!!
Sharing your entire weekend with me, when you found out what happened, is true class!!
Two days and nights that have me feeling much better, thank you very much!! Muah!
Now I just need to get healthier so that I may truly show her my appreciation!!  

to see you at dinner, Steph.  So glad you had a great time in Tampa.

Swim
xoxo

And back atcha, Homey! Glad you had a big time-Always special when you're around and NEVER a dull moment-but tons of laughs-Hurry Back! xxxx 1rob...OUT  

I never twisted your arm at all. If fact I asked you what you wanted to do and you told me and I thanked you. End of story.

You wrote me and said you would be there unless something "horrible" happened and I have the e-mail stating so. You never acted like you had a problem until now. I rearranged my trip to try and accomodate you and as I said was very disappointed you were unable to make the trip over to Tampa. In all of our phone conversations, you never once sounded like you felt this way at all. I waived any kind of desposit based on our e-mails. Normally a travelling lady would require one for such a long date.

And YES charater is priceless and writing what you did above goes directly to yours.

Sorry you feel slighted in any way but you really should reconsider blasting me like you did. I did nothing wrong to you at all and had no idea you harbored any feeling of ill will.

Hope you continue to improve health wise.

Steph

Sorry that I did not contribute to your fantastic time!

I think you have to have actually seen someone.
He didn't.
And he's not telling you the whole story.

Maybe you should pull you head out of your a%& long enough to find out the real story before sticking your nose into someone else's business.

But, that just wouldn't be you, now would it.

...and turn about is fair play my friend. Have a Happy St. Patrick’s Day, and may God bless you on that most sacred and festive day!  

you would have to understand GJ's sarcasm...which you obviously do not.

And YOU know the "whole story" Bobb? I didn't know you were listening in on speakerphone there, Sparky.
Or is it more accurate to say you know one side of the story....hmmmm?

Perhaps you should take your own advice, and find out the "real" story. Only problem with that is you'd have to pull your head out of someone else's a%& wouldn't you?

But, that just wouldn't be you, now would it?

how easily the feeble minded are led.

If you would just slow down and get the facts before opening your mouth, life would be so much easier.

If you don't think you are being used by some in your "circle of friends" as an "attack dog" voice on the boards, you are sadly mistaken.

You are probably the only one on these boards that doesn't know it.

If you REALLY want to know the truth, not what your "friends" tell you, take it off the boards and we can talk. It would be to your benefit.

Do you have the guts to hear the truth?

bobb3950, This is the sound of---------------->

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tj49V13Iv-4&feature=related#

Have a Happy St. Paddy's

My shout outs were nothing but nice. Melboring chose to get ugly about being unhappy with something he NEVER shared with me. That's on HIM. YOU chose to get in on the digs at me and that's on YOU! You seem to be doing alot of that now that our mod Sly doesn't monitor posts ahnymore.

It was his choice to honor what he saifd he would do in WRITING to me. I NEVER pressured him and he finally made up his mind on Friday afternoon that he couldn't make the drive. I asked him how he wanted to handle it and HE told me what he was going to do. I thanked him for doing so...END OF STORY!

This shouldn't even be discussed on this board. Had I known he was upset WHY would I say anything to him at all on the board about being a stand up guy? He NEVER once indicated any disatisfaction whatsoever until today and even wanted to reshedule the next time I was in FL "Something" must have changed over the weekend that I wasn't privy to.

Considering what he said to me on the board, I was NOTHING but professional to him in my response.

My thread was meant as a thank you to the nice gents that I saw on my visit to Tampa, and also to Melboring. For YOU to use it at a chance to get your petty little digs in is, well, so YOU!

Steph

And we must get together privately again when I'm in Tampa!

xoxo,

Steph

FOOD FIGHT!!!!!

Thanks HUNNIE...see you soon!

xoxo,

Steph

Did you really call him 11 minutes later because the money wasn't in your checking accout out yet. That's shitty, I don't care who you are.

I've also heard you've had some problems with Sindei. I guess now we all now who the lady is in the feud.

Can't believe you demanded all the money for a 5 hour session and then didn't even want to take what you had quoted him.

I'm with Melboring on this one.

Like you said Melboring:   "There aren't many providers who, when a client falls ill.....would not only expect every single dime for a 5 hour booking....but then call said client merely 11 minutes after they said it "should" be in the bank, to find out where it was"
......I don't think anyone would have condemned you for not paying for a service you didn't receive.

Baby girl, your sooo right! You are the “sweetest” person on this board, you would ….

…..never ever think of getting any digs in, especially toward Melboring*, that just isn’t your nature, and I’m sure that is why he felt the need to respond.  Believe me you, providers & hobbyist alike here in Florida have the utmost respect of your “business model”, never no shenanigans  or devious thoughts ever by you, your boyfriend, or ‘the others’ around you.

No digs by me either, sweetie, just giving Mel a shout out for his mini review. Hobbyist are always interested in provider mini reviews, reviews, personalities, YMMV’s, it always helps us make an educated decision of who to spend and invest time with. This is what this board & The Erotic Review is all about.

Now hun, you go out & have a ‘Super’ St. Patrick’s Day, ya’ll hear now!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Vpe98B-IAM#

*Melboring...WTF, what were you thinking when you came up w/that handle, not very sexy for the ladies, hmmm, well, come to think of it, maybe it's a ploy, they think your kinda vanilla, but you are a wild animal, hmmmm, not bad, not bad at all....

I NEVER demanded any money from Melboring. You have no idea what you are talking about.

This was supposed to be a nice thread and YOU and others have turned into something else entirely.

Any interested parties that want to see the e-mail from Melboring to me feel free to e-mail me. This is total BS.

Steph



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I was nothing but nice to Melboring. He chose to show the board what he's all about.

I NEVER ASKED HIM FOR ANY MONEY. HE WROTE ME AND SAID WHAT HE WAS GOING TO DO IF HE COULDN'T MAKE THE DATE.

I asked him when he cancelled how he wanted to handle it and he told me. I thanked him. I got a VM from him Thurs night saying he was still planning to come over to Tampa. He told me FRIDAY the day of the date he couldn't come over. I wrote him three days before I ever heard anything from him asking him if he thought I would be able to make the drive considering how he felt. I heard NOTHING back until Thursnight and he said he was planning on being there.

Read what I wrote to him in my original post and please do it when you are sober. I never "called him out". You stuck your nose in my business and you don't know SQUAT about what happened. E=mail me and I'll send you his e-mail to me...minus the part where he's bashing a well respected Orlando provider.

Melboring should be ashamed of himself for the LIE he put on my thread. If he was the gentleman I mustakenly gave him credit for being he would have written me personally.

Today on my thread was the first I knew of him having any bad feelings. He was just fine on the phone Friday when we spoke. I did NOTHING WRONG TO THIS GUY, but he can't say the same.

Steph

Steph

...that's an A-List of Gentleman if I have ever seen one.  Good for you, and I second the nomination!

Before posting?

Thank you Toni. Anyone that knows me will see through what he said. I never demanded anything from him at all. I'm just about ready to post his e-mail to me right on the board.

And I got your sarcasm, Toni, lol! And yours was funny!!!

xoxo,

Steph

I’m never “sarcastic”, how dare you!

I’m only trying to sort this out, very confusing indeed. It sounds like a case of “she said, he said” & this shouldn’t be on the board.

I’m still a very positive kinda of guy though, & do wish ya a Happy St. Paddy’s day!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dlPjxz4LGak#

I'm in some good company, but yours was the best!

that an email to confirm an appointment is considered a contract.

Did you really call him 11 minutes later because the money wasn't in your checking account ?

Unbelievable

which many of us has come to know. Yeah so what, I am using an alias. What you did to Melboring shows your true colors, regardless if he was fine with it Friday. He's a nice gentleman for not asking for his money back however, a classy lady would refund the deposit if no services was exchanged especially from a well liked gentlemen an especially if he feel ill like he did. A real "stand up" man, Melboring I would take offense to that comment also. CallowGFE, you should be ashamed. Also, a private message thanking these gentlemen would have been just as good.

There was NO deposit to refund. I asked him for NOTHING! He wrote me an e-mail saying if he couldn't make the date he would pay me anyway. I NEVER gave him any amount that I expected. HE told me what he was going to give me. This was his decesion...PERIOD!

Do you even know what I meant when I said he was a real stand up gent? Apparently not. That means I thought(past tense now) he was a true gentleman in every way. MELBORING chose this public board as a place to blast me when I did NOTHING to him. Any ill feelings on his part were not made known to me in any communication between us. He named the amount and I thanked him for it.

And I could care less if YOU think I should have PMd these gents. I'm not the first to do Hobbyest Monday.

And Melboring has shown HIS colors by doing what he did today.

Steph

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the same thing happened to me with the same "provider" (I just couldn't say lady)...I was more fortunate on 2 counts.... one..I only had a Badass case of the flu, not pneumonia...and two...it didn't cost me anything but the amount of time that I sat and listened to some of the most unbelievable stable boy language I think I've ever heard come out of a female mouth!  I can only imagine what you heard on call one, and 11 minutes later, but I'm sure it wasn't pretty!!!

I sent Bobb a sincere PM last night and he response was the nastiest most hateful thing I have ever read! I know we aren't all going to see eye to eye, that is just the norm. But damn...that is NO way to treat a lady.

So Bobb regardless of what you may think of me, I just don't give a rats ass anymore. You sir are nothing but a PRICK! While I am at it I would have to agree and say that You and Steph are PERFECT for eachother, you both are nasty and vidictive as hell!

The next time you insult me and call a BITCH, I would think twice! You are finally getting what you have deserved for a long time! ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!!!

GROW THE HELL UP!!!

Sindie

Yes. I did.   I don't know why he paid you.  Did you threaten him?

...in fact I am not sure what you are talking about.  I was just merely commenting that it was a great list of gentlemen you nominated for Hobbiest Monday.  

I am sorry to see the board like this and hope everything can be resolved and return to the fun-loving Florida Board that everyone has grown to love nationally.  

OK kids.....it's time for this to end and fade off the board like so many other drama sessions in the past.
Seriously.

I had an exchange with Stephanie that did not go well. I have an opinion and she has one. We will not agree....and it's over.
For the record, NO ONE had any effect on my opinion. I felt exactly how I felt on Friday when the disaster was over and I thought it was behind me. I only brought it up because I think it was crass to mention me.
I don't think either one of our lives will be changed forever because we don't care for each other. No biggee.

Everyone will form their own opinions and they are entitled to them.
To those who have sent me some very nice and informative PMs....I thank you all and will respond asap. To those very few (2) who sent some not so nice PMs and speak of what you do not know...I will respond to you as well.

Now let's move on and get back to the business of 'giving the business' to those we choose.

Happy St. Patty's day!

I usually stay away from drama but somethings are just not right here and I have to say what is on my mind.

First and foremost, NO ONE deserves to be treated the way she was and that being Sindie.  I agree we all have our differences, but to be called a bitch and to be told that you and your Orlando boys to eat Sh** and die is beyond childish and a threat. NO ONE knows her more than I do and she is no way near that nor deserves to be treated that way.  I am absolutely mortified at the behaviors and extent people will go through. Sadly, I have fallen victim too and have heard too many horror stories of women and guys just being flat out nasty and vindictive for no reason.  Oh wait, for the ladies, it appears to be greed…..now the guys, well to me that is just childish and immature on both parts..

My opinion only….Ex. If a guy sets up an appt. and says days in advance he is not well, then be done with it. Hell, there are too many NCNS these days to not be thankful that a man, a true gentleman, gave plenty of notice.  But to say “well you better show up as I can be a vindictive bitch”..Let’s see that constitutes a threat/blackmail and is NOT right.  Especially since the guy knows she has personal information on him to use, possibly, against him.  My opinion is Melboring did what he wanted to do and needed to do under the circumstance that he explained.  If I was in his shoes I would have said hell no, take me down and you will go with me.  However, I do understand his predicament.  

Another opinion, what I don’t understand though is if a guy does visit with a lady and she calls him names, is rude, etc. and he puts up a review stating all this…how is it then that he receives a few phone calls at home and on cell (wonder how the other guys got his number) and threatens him to change the review.  I thought reviews were based on a guys opinion…Sadly I have heard of this happening and it is just another form of blackmail/threat/harassment. This type of behavior just has to stop from ANYBODY who does it, participates in it or is thinking about it….

Why can’t everyone just act like adults and give these men the service that they deserve without all the childish drama!!!!!!!!!!  Now, let’s all enjoy ourselves in this wonderful, FUN, I said fun, hobby…………..

Me thinks it's time for the lot of them to go back to that trailer park in the hills, and live miserably ever after!   But ya better load up and get movin soon. My truck's a revvin', and I'm about to start my rounds, pickin' up the trash!

You two have a great day now!

You had been bitten by a spider and you NEVER even said anything about not being able to make our date. You never said squat about wanting to cancel. If you had I would have understood. You were there becauae you wanted to be you were NOT pressured in any way to see me.

And PLEEEZE with the lies about my language. You sat there for more than an hour bitching about your wife and daughter. I'll NEVER forget this classy line out of your mouth..."Steph I could f*ck you right in front of her (wife) on the kitchen table and she wouldn't care." I listened and never said a word to you about all the things you said about your family.

I was wondering when you would rear your head to be included in the "pile on" of lies.

I have left you alone on the board and I suggest you do the same.

Steph

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impression on anyone here who MIGHT have wanted to see you at one time!!!

Happy St Patty's Day  

but after reading this thread, I would have no desire to book with or even speak with "Steph".

That last nasty comment was completely uncalled for, and I could care less about it's voracity, some lines just should not be crossed on a public board.

Even if every word that "MatureGFE" said here is true, she has still proven herself to be quite capable of betraying confindences to further her interests.  I have no desire to associate with anyone willing to a hobbyists words spoken in confidence out for the world to see.

Steph, shame on you. Any credibility you might have had was lost with that single statement.

Whether it was a spider bite or the flu folks have their reasons. You my lady have just expressed no class to make mention of this guys personal life for all to see is despicable.

Whatever happened to discretion? I hope other gentlemen show no interest in seeing you.

You can take your bribed reviews and hit the road back to Carolina. Have a safe trip hunny.

I can't tell you how many providers I have talked myself out of seeing because of all the info you have to provide. Some guys have a lot to lose. Did this guy lose his marriage?

however, it was about time it was all brought out in the open so others can be aware and make a decision on their own.

I for one, would never compromise the friends I meet. I just don't have the heart to do that. However, screening is critical and shall never be compromised on both parts.. But I do strongly suggest to check out the lady you wish to visit through all the different means that are out there for you guys.... This should give you the confidence that you need. Just ask the popular guys on this board, I am sure there are different boards to go to to see how us girls are talked about...

Have a wonderful day....