When you email a provider that only has email access but never hear back. If you only want email for the first contact then please show us a little courtesy and CHECK YOUR DAMN EMAIL MORE THAN ONCE A MONTH!
If you do give a phone for contact and have voice mail please show a little courtesy and RETURN THE DAMN CALL!
I had both of these situations happen last night and still haven't heard back from any but one and she had been visiting previous and is now back in her home state. She was raised properly and was decent enough to show enough courtesy to respond. I will definately see her when we are in the same city.
The rest can kiss my yes indeed!

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I assume your email message properly introduces yourself and gives a glimpse into who the provider will be spending her time with.

I typically give a greeting, a physical description of myself and a brief outline of my experiences in the hobby, who I've seen in the past that the provider might know, my TER handle, my white list references, etc. I keep it light and friendly, and it hasn't failed me yet. Some guys wait for a response before giving up a lot of details about themselves, but I like being totally upfront.

The "Hey Babe, let's fuck" message is usually ignored.

Phone messages are different. Some providers listen very carefully to their messages, and won't respond if the voice on the other end sounds suspicious (?) or if the language is too explicit, or they just aren't seeing anyone else that day....As independent businesswomen they are in control. Agencies will usually always respond to phone messages, but not always as quickly as you might like.

You should give a lady more than a three hour notice! Perhaps you need to go back to the NEWBIE BOARD and do your "home work"!


Sindie

While I was writing my post Sindie was writing hers. I didn't mean to intrude on a spat.

responded to you withing hours of receiving your email yet, you wanted last minute, and I was not available....I did try to accomadate another day for you, however, that didn't work for other reasons.....

I think it would be helpful for you to pm the ladies on TER....Perhaps they check their pms....

I know when I am traveling with a gentleman, I usually do not post like I do when I am home, and depending on what we are doing, I usually don't respond to many, if any emails until after our time together....

I wish you luck...

LUV & LIX

Eve

I couldn't have said it better myself! Thanks, wilco69....You sound like a true gentleman
xxx
Jinni

Actually Eve you weren't one I was refering to. You did respond and it was a bummer we couldn't hook up. The night I'm refering to I think was a different one than the one we tried for.

...of time & courtesy to return emails or phone calls in any service related business, Esp. @ night, what planet are you from MR. Self- Important. Now spank that boner, roll over & go to sleep.

Interesting...One response to this gripe was posted for about 2 min then dissappeared. I don't know if she did it or if TER did it.
  She lambasted me for not giving her enough notice, which is understandable, however this post wasn't really about whether or not there was time to hook up or not it was more about a quick note that night or even the next day at least acknowleging the fact that I had tried to contact her.
   I have never critized a lady that couldn't meet my schedule, which is very screwy at times as I don't always know until the last minute if I can partake, I only ask that if they use email only then it should be checked and responded to regularly.
   In business if you totally ignore potential customers than eventually they will go elsewhere and snide comments about them don't help either.
Good Day to all and have a safe Labor Day Weekend.

So now we're at 48 hrs and still no response except here by one lady that was a target of my gripe and the only thing she could do was bitch at me. I will admit that in the case of Eve she did respond when I had emailed her and I had forgotten so she is not one of those I was gripping about.
  It also has nothing to with me thinking I am more important than the providers, however they are the ones providing the service and when you are in a service business it doesn't pay to ignore or insult potential customers.
  I suppose you are one of those that has a regular job and you always have plenty of notice when you're going to do something. I unfortunately do not always have that option as my schedule regularly changes with very little notice. That is one reason I don't like to plan to far ahead because I respect the ladies time and feel bad if they schedule with me and I have to cancel.

not in 24 hrs dipshit. now spank that boner w/your VS panties.

They are in Florida, and I am in JOISEY.


Thank you
2009 = 27

Twuk, you are an experienced hobbyist with a number of reviews and have obviously traveled all over the country with your hobbying.

I think your post points out how regional differences can influence how appointments are made in various cites.  

In certain areas of the country with a very strong agency presence (Atlanta and Philly come to mind), it is not only easy but is also the general practice that one can make a call and set up an appointment an hour or two after the call.

Here in Central Florida, we do not have that strong agency presence and almost all the ladies are very conscientious about their screening.  It is not uncommon for just the screening to take 24 hours or more as the ladies have to wait for the references to get back to them.

There is a lady here in Central Florida I have wanted to see for over a year but she is literally booked out a couple months in advance so I have not been able to see her yet (and we both live here!).

Obviously, in any city you will be able to find ladies who will see you on very short notice.  I think though in Central Florida you will probably be hard pressed to see any of the most popular ladies on just a couple hours notice.  

Finally, I can understand if you emailed a lady asking for a certain time and she did not get to see her email until after that time had come, she would not bother to reply to your email, especially if she had never communicated with you before.

Just my thoughts...but if your schedule is so sporadic, why don't you email the lady you may want to see the next time you are in the area and explain that you want to get all the reference info out of the way so that she will feel more comfortable in accommodating you the next time. Just because your schedule is sporadic and last minute doesn't mean you have to be. Provider or Hobbyist, it doesn't matter, we are all human and deserve respect and consideration. Life is too short to piss everybody off, especially ladies as with such inward and outward beauty as these.
Those are my deep thoughts for today.

Your appetite is leaning more to McDonalds vs. Ruth Chris!

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Thank you
2009 = 27

great review!  Good Luck TDr.

Why does everyone assume this has anything to do with screening, short notice or anything other than what I wrote?
Perhaps I was wrong in even mentioning the particular night that prompted me to post as it's a problem I've seen in the past.
The point was if a lady is going to use email only for her contact than it is she that should be keeping up with it not I. ONe of the woman that I had emailed and couldn't find time in her bust schedule to respond with a variety of possible responses about references or availabilty, etc, etc found time to respond to this post and no it wasn't Eve. It would seem that if she had time to do this than she would've had time to send me a quick "sorry I missed you" or a "not interested" or maybe even a "go screw yourself" but I heard nothing from her until her response to my original post. Now it would seem to me that if she had time to respond here she had time to send me a note with some sort of response even if it was the next day. And please don't give me any of that crap about all the emails they get, If they can respond here thathey can respond there!

caused your point to get lost in the manure.

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First, I have no dog in this fight as I don't know you and don't know who the two or five or however many ladies are that you are complaining about with your post.

You have stated your feelings on this issue and everyone can tell you are very passionate about them.  

However, about a dozen others have also expressed their feelings, most of which differ from yours.  

Have you ever noticed that most people don't talk about politics or religion with those who don't think the same way they do?  

The reason is that experienced people have come to realize there is absolutely nothing someone can say that is going to convince someone else to change the way they believe.

This is the same case here. Look at it this way, you have now discovered two or five or however many ladies you are talking about who have worked their way off your want to see list.  That is the nice thing about the ladies in Central Florida, there are a LOT of outstanding ladies and just not enough time or funds to see them all.

Unfortunately, there is nothing that you or I can say here on this board that is going to cause a lady to change how she handles her business.  We can see that by looking at how many times we see posts on NCNS, poor hygiene, etc. yet they continuously keep happening.  The same ladies who NCNS continue to do so.  The same guys who need to take better care of their hygiene still need to do it.

It is time to find a new girl who you find attractive, see and enjoy her, and move forward.

And I will, as usual, post in my own unique way....

Twuck...you've made how you "feel and think" clear. Really...we get it! Just like last time you were bitching around here about panties and stockings...or some such nonsense.

It didn't work out the way YOU think it should have. Fine. Now get the fuck over it and move on.
Seriously. When you become a provider...then you can run your 'business' any way you want to.
Now STFU and have a nice weekend!

Just sayin'

I nearly spewed my water, all over the keyboard, reading this. I can't believe that you, of all people, have the audacity to wag your finger at us ladies!

Shall we go back to last week? If you recall, you contacted me, via pm, inquiring my availability for that night. I advised you that I was booked. You asked me how late I start dates and I told you. Later that night, I checked my messages on TER and responded to you again. You came right back with a response asking me to make an exception and come see you, after my normal stop time. After I declined, you then wanted to see me the following day. We discussed meeting the next day around 1pm or thereafter and I told you to confirm with me the next day. Guess who never called or e-mailed me? YOU! I didn't hear anything from you until a few days later, when you left me a voice mail in the evening wanted an appointment that night. Did I return your voice mail, hell no. If you don't have enough common courtesy to follow through, then neither do I.

Furthermore, I'm going to give you some "free" advice that you might find beneficial in the future. I can only speak for myself, although I'm pretty sure that the other ladies would agree. When you're in town and desiring the companionship of one of us lovely ladies, you might want to reconsider staying in a questionable area of town where street walkers are prominent. Our families and the fine gentlemen, who relish our companionship, would like to see us make it home safely.

Best wishes,
Paris

You've just earned yourself a one-way ticket to CL.

Again, Congratulations!

Have a good weekend.
Paris

example, it is customary to return e-mails within 24-36 hours; not necessarily the same evening.  Some ladies do not adhere to this timeframe.

Regarding phone messages--many providers will not return a call if more than 2 hours after you called unless you gave specific instructions regarding it is OK to call anytime.  Ladies don't want to interupt your private life.  

For example, if you called her at 7 pm and she had a 2-hr. date that began then, she probably didn't check her VM until at least 9:15.  If you didn't say call me anytime, then she deleted your message.

Well Paris, I do remember us chatting about the evening meeting. I am not remembering that I was supposed to contact you the next day, not saying I wasn't supposed to just saying I was probably distracted by a shiny object or something, so I apologize about that and I do mean it. I don't like to waste your time either.
    As for where I stay in Orlando I am limited because of the truck. I have actually never seen a street walker on that part of OBT, I have seen them farther north but alas I am not there every day either.
Well as raven said this is becoming pointless so this will be my last response to this post.
Hope everyone has a safe labor day weekend.

Paris,   Congratulations! How dare this jerk act innapropriately with you and then try to spin it as though you did something wrong. I applaud you for setting the record straight. Your admirers and locals appreciate the classy, intelligent, and sophisticated woman you are.
Bravo!

You tell me Sindie!! Some men need to understand that we don't wait by the phone or computer to hear from them, we have lives....also, quality providers need time to screen a date and prepare ourselves, so we can give 100% to our dates...Another thing gentlemen should be aware of, is that many of us use hotels for incalls, so we need to book a room and work around check-in and check-out times...

.....Go drive back up North & wear your VS panties on your head please, & don't let your truck door Slam you in the ass! Go back up North for your 'Mano Snowballs' that you crave for. It's getting close too winter.

Don't let your TWUK door slam you in the ass!!!  LOL  Seriously....he has started some of the most ridiculous threads ever!  He needs more "snowballs"  LMAO  

Re: Here's my gripe about certain providers...

Just a few hours up 95....
xxx
Jinni

So true!

Your last response was interesting.
Because you didn't like my post you are going to what, have me black balled or something?
Very interesting the open and free dialogue found here.

My post mentioned NOTHING about blacklisting you. Why would I? I said, "you've earned yourself a ticket to CL." You've earned that ticket ALL by yourself, by coming on this board wagging your finger at us ladies because you're unhappy with how we handle our business. When in all reality, just like in my case, you were the one that failed to confirm or cancel...not ME!

Not only do gentlemen lurk on this board, so do providers. Which means, when they read this thread...the're making a mental note of your behavior and handle. Then, when you decide to contact them...all of the sudden they're conveniently booked!

Nobody has to blacklist you, you're doing a great job all by yourself.

I have no further response!

Paris