If you don't have at least a half a dozen to a dozen reviews, Have not been a presence on the message boards by posting on a regular basis, Do you really think one of the ladies is going to call you up to consent to an illegal activity?  Put some time in on the newbie board. Participate on your regional boards. Write some reviews. Maybe then maybe you'll be able to get a response when you post  I'm in town or I'm interested in a specific act. For a lot of us we would like to help we just need to get to know you a little bit better. For others you just piss  them off. just sayin