A properly executed Tease and Denial session should be considered an art form! It is a simple premise really but can take you to magnificent new heights of ecstasy. Gasp! I play special, well thought out T & D games and if you google it or scroll through reviews, there consistant mentions of T & D being something I do very very well.
Paris made some interesting (and accurate!) observations. Great post.
I am always looking to learn more, to expand my horizons when it comes to T & D. Anyone have insight to share or a website to suggest, I'd be interested to learn more. I am esp interested in that which is sensually creative as I don't really see that much of this on the net. Again, great post.
Posted By: Paris-Bouvier
The erotic art of Tease and Denial, blending teasing with orgasm denial can be extremely satisfying and stimulating. This practice is electrifying and doesn't necessarily dictate a dominatrix situation. Rather, it can be easily incorporated into a sensual encounter flawlessly. Tease and denial is a rousing method, integrated to maintain arousal for a male or female counterpart...without immediate orgasmic relief.
Two words: Power and control. In the sphere of harmless enjoyment, nothing approaches the rush of power you luxuriate in...while sexually frustrating a partner. Nothing contrasts the control you have when you create a sense of sexual desperation, and then, at your whim, delay gratification of that desire.
The submissive counterpart will love it as well. Here you're demonstrating a keen interest and focus on them and on their sexuality. Your confidence shows and grows right before their eyes. They can spiral into desperation as each new activity brings them closer and closer to over-stimulation. You are playing them like a puppet, and they are helpless to resist. If you find any excitement in power and control, even for just a little while, you will adore and revel in your power of tease and denial.
Perhaps the most interesting thing about tease and denial is that it clearly exists as a male and female fantasy. It is interesting that some men and women get aroused to the point of orgasm by fantasizing about not being allowed to orgasm.
Do you enjoy tease and denial? If so, do you prefer to dish it out, be on the receiving end or dabble in both scenarios?
Paris
