Lots of questions. Why the obsession?

One of the first things you need to learn is that honest answers on a message board are as rare as a quality GFE on backpage.
Get it?

You pays your money, you takes your chances.
Learn by experience, and reading. Asking countless questions won't help you much in the long run.

But I do screen in many different ways to ensure we are compatible before meeting. I have been very fortunate to have mostly met gents I would see again and again. Touch wood, may that always be the case.

however I have cut a date short and that was like 1 yr. into this world I had my first overnight.  We started out having a wonderful time, then came sleep time.  Due to the fact that I am a very light sleeper and I was not prepared with ear plugs I had to cut the date short.  However, I did reimburse him most of the donation that he gave me.  I just didn't feel right.  Thankfully, he was very understanding as to the situation.

Now I only do overnights if I have met the gent already.  Just saves us both and I prefer it that way.  I don't feel either of us should be made uncomfortable in anyway.

Yes I have once

This gent had good references and we had a lovely phone conversation prior to meeting as I require but the minute I walked into his house it was like a total switch. I promptly made a beeline for the door after his completely innapropriate and disgusting tirade when we entered his bedroom. I feel my reviews speak for themselves and I have respect for myself and others so treating me like dirt will only get you sweeping up my dust as I make a hasty exit