I've been seeing this phrase bandied about lately on girls' ads... I'm curious what you gents take it to mean.

Really sweet and cuddly?

Really, REALLY sweet and cuddly?

Or is it code for bareback FS, as some suggest?

Your thoughts, please!

Ultimate GFE...I would hope its just "ad talk" like "new and improved" which really just means the same product but differnt packaging...if its code for bbfs...yikes!!  Thats just not right.

BTW....its really hard to concentrate while staring at your pic....your girls are very distracting!!!

I would not think it to mean BB FS as that is just not very wise.

To me it means... there's no doubt she's into it like me, very playful, cuddly and smooches between rounds... and going past the time..  a little or a lot... leaving no doubt.

I've found a couple of ladies that have given me close to 2 hours for a one hour appt... now I'm not that cute, nor am I that good...

I think both of them had nothing else scheduled and made the most of it... and I really 'believe' they were into it big time ...  I fell in love with one, and then I got a little 'wiser' ... met the other and now I see her at least twice a week... she keeps me going the whole time and that to me, is the ultimate... which also has to do with chemistry, eh?    

I can't speak for others...
but I take it to mean another over-used advertising term meant to draw attention.

I've seen so many definitions of "GFE" alone that there doesn't seem to be a clear consensus. Like "GFE" providers who refuse kissing and BBBJ based on reviews.
Hey wait a minute...my last GF hated BJ and kissed like it was a chore. Maybe that really IS "GFE".

And...bareback FS?!? Are people really that absolutely stupid?
I guess usually when you ask that question...you already know the answer.

ME...
Tall, skinny 57 year old guy with curly, wavy, unruly, mostly brown hair, full beard, and slightly sunken hazel eyes. Slight pot belly, (bought and paid for) and legs that look like they belong on an upright piano. Nervous as hell meeting new friends, but warms up quickly, after a short period of time tripping over things that aren't there, and having my voice crack like a teenager in puberty.

GFE...
Doesn't give a fat frog's ass about any of the above. All she see's is a considerate, kind, clean gentleman with the apparent need to fall in love over and over and over, one evening at a time.

It means spending all your money, not having sex and flirting with your friends.

Honestly, it's just people trying take GFE to a new level.

I think it is a great way to rank the GFEness of a provider.  

100% GFE = DFK, DATY, and BBBJ!
100% GFE+ = all the above plus BBBJTC!
100% GFE++ = all the above plus CIM!
100% GFE+++ = all the above plus swallows!
100% GFE++++ = all the above plus Greek!

Someone once asked how to rate a GFE that gave everything in the plain vanilla  GFE, but also greek - that would be:

"GFE with the 4th plus added"

What they mean by ultimate is beyond me....

For me it does NOT mean BBFS!!! I guess the gents that have seen me could best describe what I mean by it. For me, I means I relax kick back and truly get into the role of the gent's GF.

For me, it's not about what I offer on my menu. It's about being sincere and genuine and just being myself.

Of course I few of my good friends have actually gotten a "Honey Do List"-LMAO! That's the GF a guy has been dating for at least 6 months

xoxo,

Steph

Although I'm a veteran here, I'm out of the loop on whether or not this phrasing is code for BBFS.

I've never asked for BBFS nor have I ever expected it, and wouldn't know what to do if I was with someone and it was available (except run, probably, because the women I like and respect on these boards would never offer it).

Number 1, it's too dangerous and Number 2, my sperm still swim, and I have enough kids with my wife at home.

Keep doing what you are doing and don't worry about the others.

And yes, you look f--king fabulous.

Here is what I look for in addition to the obvious physical attraction I have for the lady and her menu items:

When I determine I want to see a lady, I read every one of her reviews.  When I see a number of guys who make a comment like "she made me feel I was special" or "she made me feel like I was her long lost boy friend", or "she made me feel we had a special connection", etc., that to me is describing a lady who offers the ultimate GFE experience.

I have been very fortunate and have had that experience.

I just thinks means- really good or extra special- I don't take it to mean bareback f/s

I suppose there are as many definitions of "ultimate gfe" as there are people around here.

I have had the privilege over the years of knowing a few who claimed to be "ultimate gfe" and one who actually was.

It's an attitude, a presence, an air of sophistication and grace that is on display.
Like you are the only one in her life. Like you have meaning to her and that it all really means something.
If it only lasts for an hour or so, that's ok.
If it lasts for much longer that's even better.

Anyway, I know it when I see it, and I look forward to it.

Just my opinion...
B

And the way she makes you feel that sets apart those who are GFE types.....As Dbara states those who give 100% of their attention and focus to you during and between rounds without the clock being a noticeable issue......its thinking that the session is about half over when really time is up because somewhere in those magic moments time really did stand still......its wanting to do those things with her that you really can never afford but having those thoughts all the time.....its hearing in her voice when you call for the next appointment that note of excitement you hope is there because you can't wait until that hour arrives...its the way she touches you and that hint of reluctance you feel in her as she shows you to the door.......

But mostly its the kiss.....

you're a class act all the way! (In fact, I didn't know you used the phrase at all.)

I've been seeing it more from the un-reviewed, bargain-rate provides popping up.

kisss!

I don't spend much time comparing myself to other ladies (especially when it comes to what people "say" they offer, which as we know, can often be merely smoke and mirrors!)

Although I did just find out (through a hobbyist) that a lady in Maryland had adopted a few of my photos for her own.

Now what her clients are going to say when they show up and she's no Tabu, well, that's her problem! (giggle!)

YIKES is right!!

I'd like to use FDE.  

First Date Experience.

You know, the girl you meet and take out to dinner, dancing, drinks and all you ever got was a sweet steamy kiss, a sensual rub down and a slurpy BJ or HJ? Heh Heh Heh

I'll pass on the Hobbyist Russian Roulette Wheel!

didn't know she used the phrase at all.....????

She goes by MatureGFE

I just wanted to say what my Ultimate GFE is all about.

And thanks for saying the "class act" thingy...as YOU are such a class act yourself

xoxo,

Steph

I used it in most of my ads...both here and on EROS

and what a cute alias you have, lol! As I already said, I never felt Tabu was singling me out.

Nave A NICE Day,

Steph

she? That's what the post was about, unless you missed it being reiterared in 90% of the replies.... doh.

My definition would be a lady who provides a maximum GFE experience.  This should include lots of foreplay, teasing, gentle caressing, soft tender kisses, DFK w/ dualing tongues, gentle licks, etc. etc. etc.  

BBFS is only for those who should be playing Russian roulette.  No, not that kind of Russian between those lovely "girls".

Now, if I were to list some ladies who define "ultimate GFE" I might leave someone out and then I'd be on their sh*t list.  Therefore, no names.

Many hobbyists stated that it was indeed code used by hobbyists who seek the forbidden practice, while just as many more stated it wasn't.  I came away from that not knowing what was true, but certain that many hobbyists interpret ultra-GFE as meaning BBFS is on the table.  Ladies who use this phrase should be prepared for this to be requested.  

Note that it was phrase specific as either "Ultimate GFE" or "Ultra-GFE".  Stating that you were the ultimate companion (or something similar) on your website is not interpreted as such.  But be careful about including it in your ads...especially if you utilize CL.

I may be getting a little older, fatter and balder, but in my day a first date never ended quite that way.


So, my dear, wanna go to dinner Saturday night? Heh, heh, heh

Here is something taken from my BLOG about this very acronym.

It takes a special talent to be able to make an intimate connection with a stranger. I think that is what separates the true GFE from the rest of the group. The only problem is that most gentlemen don't have the time or the funds for more than the briefest encounters. It's a shame too because it is during the longer engagements that the souls begin to recognize each other. A GFE knows that it isn't all about the "in and out", although that is a really fun part of it. So we (you and I) try to find a balance and fit as much closeness as we can in the little time we have. It is a suspended moment in time where we are in love, but just for a brief moment. Just long enough to give us a glimpse of heaven before heading back to reality.

A Tabu impostor!!???  What was she thinking??  From what I hear, (from many in SF) there can be no comparison.

Heather

Read the above and you will start to know....this lady is a perfect example of the Ultimate GFE.....

Your pic is very hot as well.  It has been way too long since we have been together for some private time.  I aim to rectify that in the coming months.  Be safe.