an "experience" and lasts for one hour, two hours, maybe three or maybe even overnight.  The "experience" can be repeated but it should not be interpreted as having a true "girlfriend."

You want a real girlfriend?  Go to match.com or other dating sites or find one on your own.  The GFE can give you a "taste" of what a girlfriend can be like but not the "full meal."

And I would also add that a GFE doesn't mean you are available all the time or at anyones beck and call.


Kisses

Elle

I have heard stories from gentlemen about e-mails and phone conversations they have with other ladies and wonder where they find all the time. Sometimes a lady can be her own enemy. Making a fantasy so the gentleman will call back to see you is a double edge sword. Making a man feel this is what is accepted doesn't take all that much. I have read in reviews how much a lady seems like a friend because she always finds time to converse in one way or the other. This has nothing to do with the GFE experience as far as i'm concerned. Every lady is busy with life in general. I guess some ladies just know how to play the field both ways better than others at times.

Kisses Haley

Your time is your time

You are not wrong to feel this way. The expereince is for a set time and once it's over...it's over. You girls give us the "new" GFE. You know when you first start dating and you can't keep your hands off of each other. It's non stop sex for a few months with lots of oral and sweet talk. Their on their best behavior for a little while, and then suddently one day it's BAMM...and that sweet little nymph you were dating becomes pyscho GF.
Please don't give me the GFE that comes with having a real girlfriend! I'll take your best attitude for a few hours and walk away very happy.

read any review board and these guys have these elaborate descriptions of who  is GFE. Does she scratch my ass, does she fart bubbles....

it's a useless a term

OK who is getting posessive of you?

Now that we got that out in the open, on to your question. GFE to me stands for me getting to "Experience" what it would be like if this girl was my girlfriend for the hour, 90 min, night, weekend or whatever the arrangement. The "Experience" includes affection, intimacy, conversation, etc.  A friendship can develop but it is just that a friendship. Many people are not capable of handling a friendship when sex is involved so choose wisely.

I could see where the money is good and you may actually like the client's company. However, if he is starting to become a little too attached or starting to infringe on your personal time. It is the provider's obligation to put a stop to it. Cut the dude off or cut down on seeing him to once every two weeks. One thing I don't recomend is to have a talk to him about boundries. You set them for yourself and don't have to explain them to anyone.

Usually, these things don't end on a good note when people start to become posessive or obsessive. I say fix the problem now before it gets worse.

This in my mind is the most difficult thing the ladies here are faced with day in and day out.  

I am as old as dirt so I am not looking for a relationship as most of the ladies I see are young enough to be my daughter or grand daughter.  Perhaps because of that difference in age, it takes some of the potential tension out of the appointments.  

I have been very fortunate and have had a few ladies that when I left from seeing them I felt I had a GFE.  All but two of those (both touring ladies) I saw more than once.  I felt the GFE part obviously got better with each visit (which is probably why I tend to repeat as much as I do).  

I have also had other ladies that when I left I felt I had a very nice time, felt I got my money's worth, but it was strictly a business transaction.    

I have even had a couple experiences that were so disappointing that when I left I asked myself "What in the hell am I doing?"

The difference between the GFE ladies and the business only ladies (I wont even talk about the disappointing ladies) was that the GFE ladies made me feel that they enjoyed my being there.  It is as simple as that.  Note, I didn't say they enjoyed me being there.  I said they made me feel they enjoyed me being there.  

As far as the outside relationship part Sindie asked about, I can see how that could be a tough one for the lady to keep under control.  

I have had a few ladies that I conversed with often via email, IM, or phone.  I was very aware of their time and always tried to respect how precious their time is to them.  In almost all cases like that, I tried to always leave it up to the lady as to if or how often we communcated with one another.

I am afraid this is one that does not have an easy answer because each person has a different personality and has to be dealt with individually.  There may be some guys you could choose to talk with daily and be very comfortable with them.  Then, there could be others who if you talked with them once a week would make you feel they were taking advantage of you.

Sounds like you might have a stalker.