First off, I am retired Navy.  I been around a bit over the years and jumped off the turnip truck a long time ago.  OK, I admit it.  Usually I just log on here (pretty much every day) and just see what’s going on.  Today for whatever reason, I decided to speak up and add some comments from the viewpoint of a mature male and occasional hobbyist.  I live west of Orlando near the coast so it takes a little planning but I do come to the Orlando area about once a quarter for a business meeting and often try to hook up with a nice lady for a couple hours.  Sometimes I can’t swing it because now and then I’m not traveling alone if you know what I mean.  I have submitted a few reviews and I am a member of the two most popular verification services as well as TER.  

I have met some wonderful women over the last few years here in Florida and have accumulated some great memories.  I continue my hobby today with great enthusiasm even though not as frequent as I would like - - - if I were closer the the action.

1) I do not hook up with any lady that does not have a track record.  It’s part of my screening if you will.  Now, she doesn’t need dozens of reviews but I would like a few so I can have some confidence that meeting her would be safe.

2) I do not ever hook up with any traveling lady.  Now many visiting ladies are gorgeous creatures, but I don’t desire to stand in line.  I can’t help thinking that these creatures have a half dozen or more men lined up for each day they are here in the area and that just turns me off, whether it is fact or not.

3) I do not ever attempt a hook up with any of the often very beautiful young ladies (18-25) that have an ad on BP and maybe even a review on TER.  They look soooooo good, but if you monitor TER reviews like I do, you will find that almost without exception these lovely creatures, if they have a review, will have a terrible one.  (Why is that?)  I cannot help but think that most of them are little more that crack HO’s and druggies with likely a male manager (sic) in the background that is living off them and their need for drugs.  Sad – so very Sad.  

4) The remaining ladies that have a few good reviews are my hero’s and many I could say are indeed my “princess” in waiting.  Most of the good ones are at least over 30, many are 40+, or even 50+ in some cases.  

A) They know what GFE really means.  

B) They enjoy kissing and foreplay.

C) They know how to maintain and present a clean fragrant ya-ya.  (Sorry, but if she isn’t “fresh” she will never see me again nor will she get a review)  

D) They know how important DATY can be to an experienced male if she can even pretend to enjoy his efforts to please her.  For many guys, this is the key to a good session.

E) They know how to give a really good BBBJ.

F) They know what BBBJCIM means and how important it can be to an older guy in particular.  

G) The only other biggie for me is that she has a pleasant attitude, a quick smile, and is located in apparently clean surroundings.

Am I asking for too much?  I don't think so.  What do you think.

I started in strip clubs and then sites like BP and CL. It wasn't until recently a couple years ago I even heard about sites like TER. The difference is night and day for the ladies as well. We want a quality companion as much as you do. Ladies with websites, reviews and a general professional presence are your best bet. You want a professional! I have to say my age works against me. I believe that gentlemen that are looking for a real experience and not a "crack ho" or some "drug addicted street walker with a pimp" are reluctant to meet a lady in her 20's. It can be hard to get started, however. I have seen many gentlemen on TER, many of them repeats, but most do not review. I suppose i WILL be 40 before I have the dozens of reviews that some require. haha.

I personally don't tour so I can't tell you if your hypothesis is correct. I likely will never find out. I have no reason to tour.

The bottom line is that you want a date and not an awkward "service." Even though a brand new provider may deliver just that...without reviews, you're taking a risk. You have every right to be stringent. No, you're not asking for too much.

xoxo

Happy holidays to all -- long live the Florida board and the beautiful Florida women!

Interesting perspective. I was wondering if touring providers had to entertain more because of the added costs of travel. I suppose with a little pre planning, that doesn't have to be the case. It's what kept me from touring to be honest.

Interesting response.  I do believe that Fuzz's perception about touring providers is the norm.  Guys that don't mind being the fourth that day are more likely to be interested in touring providers.  As I read your post, Kelly, you don't tour to make extra income -- you tour because it is less risky for you to provide in areas away from home.  So my question, then, is are your circumstances unique?  Is Fuzz's implication that touring providers see more clients in a day than they would ever see at home an accurate one?

Thanks for a great response and I hope several different perspectives reply.  I am with Fuzz -- there are a ton of gorgeous touring providers, but I always seem to be asking how early they make their first appointment -- LOL!  I have no desire at all to be fourth that day...for several reasons...

I'm freed from my litany of responsibilities at home. That allows me to be relaxed, focused and accommodating.

So sometimes it can be just the opposite of what you're imagining!

kisses,

Tabu

I never ever see women under 30 and I'm not a tatt man. But for FD I'd make the exception.  Gladly. WOW.

Well I am a truly low volume provider. I've never seen more than 3 clients a day 3 days a week because I have several other lucrative endeavors. What makes you think that you're not the 10th person I'm seeing just because I'm not touring, however? I think this is an illusion. This is something you say to yourself to keep the heebie jeebies away. Most providers have their schedules booked one after the other whether they tour or not. Guys, you know what this is. Stop pretending you're the first one to touch us! Really. Aren't we all adults here.

Everything you say makes sense.  For you.  And if that works then great.  For me it is a little different.  I like the slim toned tight body type that not many 30 40 or 50 can provide.  And in all honesty if at that age they have that look I can not afford them.  I will TOFTT, I will wade through some bad ones for a great one.  I do realize that at that age they will most likely move on with life.  I have been around for quite a while and have seen some of the "mature set" use the same pictures since my first day.  Bottem line is what is working for you, keep doing it.  What works for me I will keep doing. For what it is worth I have three peats with 3 of my favorites. I just fell off the list.  1 is missing in action.  1 only does outcall at this time and that does not work for me. so I am looking again.

Again, perception is the issue.  Interesting that you used the number 3 as your outside norm.  That probably means on a normal day you see one or two clients -- easy for me to deal with.  My perception, though, is that touring women have to see more.  My experience with "low volume" ladies is that they are NOT stacked up during the normal day in their hometown.  (I know, we have killed the entire TER board with "what is low volume threads" and I certianly don't mean to start a new one.)

Thanks for the response.

Of course they have to first cover their travel costs!  And remember, they are not going to stay in a flea bag hotel.  I have traveled enough to know that their overhead must be huge.  Surely they need to meet with several men just to cover expenses.  Imagine the ones that travel cross country for their trysts.

Now - are there exceptions - of course - probably countless exceptions, but how is a potential client to locate those?

My objections to traveling ladies may be more perception than reality, I understand that, but it is, what it is.  There are certainly no absolutes in this business.

When I'm home I don't see many clients at all...maybe 3 a week TOPS. When I'm touring I mostly have my regulars who book multi hours, dinner dates, and over nights. My assistant will throw up an ad every now and then to inquire a couple of new clients.

My door has never and will never be a revolving door.

I don't get many reviews because I am always seeing my repeats. However if you research the ladies who always get lots of new reviews every week and their scores are all over the charts, that would be a clue as to having that sort of revolving door.

Consistency is KEY when researching reviews. If she gets average scores and then a group of 10's row and then back to a  handful or 7-8's it should throw up a flag IMO


Happy Hobbying,

Gabby xoxo

Dont you just love the dimwits who live with their illusions

You are of course correct in most of your comments.  There are no absolutes and every situation is different.  Thanks for your thoughts.

I can only speak for myself, but last year I did not tour often.  I enjoy being at home with my few select guests that I entertain.  When I tour I have had the pleasure of simply being able to contact my local gents and my time gets spoken for fast.  And I am very greatful for that.  I love my regulars.  If you take a look at a ladies review page, it will give you a general idea of whether or not she has a revolving door.  I don't and never will.  I take pride in that.  And I will never be one to run door buster deals just to get more traffic.  I'm not that desperate.  And I thank my stars for that everyday.  I prefer quality over quantity. I'm not for everybody and that just fine with me.

Great conversations lately.

Have a great holiday season to you,

Sweet French kisses

Your angel,

Elle Vegas

Being that I prefer to play out of town from where I live and I travel often for my day career, I guess you would consider me a "touring" lady. However, I neither have a revolving door nor an unmanageable overhead as you surmised. So I gently remind  you that there ARE always exceptions to situations and I believe my various site reviews speak for themselves. You may ust be missing out on a great experience if you assume things.
Be Well
Marie

Thanks for you comments EV.  Anyone that monitors this board respects your thoughts and knows you are a quality, classy lady.  Of course there are no absolutes ( I keep saying this over and over) and I am quick to admit that a lot of this is certainly perception.  Just saying.

No assumptions necessary Marie.  I say again that there are no absolutes for there always exceptions.  You are certainly an exception in my book.  As I said of EV earlier, you also are well known on these boards and in this general area of Florida.  Your known to be a very desirable provider - a quality and classy lady.  I do not consider you to be the classic touring lady by any means and would not hesitate for a minute to meet up with you if we crossed through each each others radar.

I have NEVER had to see more than 2 guys a day on a tour, and now I only see 2 a WEEK at home, so his premise is very flawed. I know women who see 3-4 guys in a day, and never leave their damn house lol. Women who tour only for bulk clients because they need money...maybe so, but many women will only tour a city they actually want to visit and finance that trip with providing. If a provider is getting 10 new reviews a week, that is more of an indicator of volume, because less than 10 percent of guys post reviews.

I don't think I have ever had 10 reviews in the same month, much less a damn week. A woman charging over 500 in an area where the market says 3,  is not going to be high volume...there just are not that many guys willing to pay that. I am not saying a girl at a low rate can't also be low volume, but it is usually PERCEIVED that she would have a better chance of getting more clients.

I run an agency and charge 200-300 for the girls, and they might see 8 a week. I see not even half that at the rate I have for my local area, so it makes sense.

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News Flash...hookers LIE! If you make this much of a stink about her volume, you can bet your ass someone is going to say you are the first guy and you'll be the third just because. She may even leave a prize for you in there bwahahaha!

Compared to the modern woman, we are ALL high volume. Once you get past 100, honey it really makes no damn difference how many in a week you're seeing. You've past the point of no return lol. I made my business off of not seeing many guys, and you can check my TER post count if you need proof lol, but that's neither here nor there. The same touring providers who are high volume, are also probably that way all the time. If my vagina can't handle more than one or two guys a week at home, what makes you think I can see 3 or 4 a DAY in another city? Now, blowjobs...10 a day easy, but who's gonna be dumb enough to pay for 2 hours of just that?



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Because I accommodate many special interests, I spend a lot of time in preparation and getting ready for appointments and I need huge windows of time in between appointments.  No revolving door for me, that would make me a nervous wreck.  While on the road, the most I might accept is one date in the morning, one in the afternoon and one in the early evening. Thats plenty busy enough for me.