I've been doing FBSM for a few years, as what I call my "creative outlet". Never more than five a week, and a lot less than that in the last two years. I'd never been an escort, and I never offered "more" or "different" to massage clients--the ones I have like to have clear boundaries and expectations as much as I do. There are a few regulars I'll probably keep seeing until we're all very old.

But by now I'd like to transition into something new. A dinner date once or twice a month, eventually hoping for a great connection, maybe some travel. I'm missing the excitement of getting away.

My life is full as it is, I'm in a great relationship, I have a busy professional life, I'm just looking for the occasional escape.

How should I go about this? I got rid of my website since I'm not interested in getting a lot of requests, and I don't want a new one, certainly not an escorting one. My FBSM reviews should at least show that I'm honest.  
I've been considering an ad on eros.com, but I've been out of things for so long now that I'm not even sure whether that is still a good place.

Any suggestions are very welcome!

You just want to travel a little. Get a little romance on the side. Go home like nothing ever happened. Try GatorJimmy or Dirty Daego.

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Lucia if I read your post correctly, you will not be offering the same service as many escorts. Instead, you're desiring a gentleman to share dinner, events and of course....great conversation. Is this accurate?

You could certainly advertise on Eros, although their advertising fees are ridiculously high. You could also promote yourself on each of the verification sites. My suggestion is to be clear, in your advertisement/profile, to ensure both parties are on the same page. There are plenty of gentlemen who desire this form of companionship.

Good luck to you,
Paris

Doing FBSM is not something that a guy such as myself would be willing to take you on a trip to the Caribbean for. Sure you are missing out on some of the perks of the industry but you seem to have set your boundries. No escorting = not much by way of overnights, dinner, travel, blah blah blah at least from me. I can only get massaged and jerked off enough in a day. You seem that you want the best of both worlds but are not willing to do what it takes. If you Re pretty to look at, we have good communication, we have great sex, then hell yeah lets book an overnight or run off to mexico for the weekend.  Sorry if I flamed you

.... if you don't have an ad or website up anywhere and if you're not a constant participant on some of the boards you see out there you're business could potentially fade to nothing. I suppose you could get around paying for ads by making sure your companions submit new reviews on you from time to time but it sounds like you might be meeting and dating the type that don't often write reviews for privacy reasons.

Eros can still be effective but they are most definitely the most expensive out there. There are other nearly free ad sites out there you can join that may provide just enough traffic for you. I'm not sure if I'm allowed to mention them but you can PM me for a list or you can just visit the home page of my website to see which links I feature and then go from there.  

Good luck!!
xo Lane

Very sorry about the confusion.

I've tried to tell you a bit about my background, and that I have not been escorting before, but I was talking about the past, not the future.  
The experience I'm looking to provide is definitely GFE. I like to have fun, and I used to always have multiple relationships. I'm missing that, and I figured that a bit of escorting might just give me what I want without being too demanding on my life.
Yes, I want the best of everything, guilty as charged.

If your advice is that I should have a website, and that I should have reviews as an escort, I understand and I'm grateful for the advice. I guess in that case I should change my name, too, so there won't be misunderstandings.

Since I'm only looking for one or two dates per month I thought I might not have to start another website.  

Thanks so much for your answers

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I sent you a PM.

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