I feel two ways on this. One, is understanding in a way. We all have morals and comfortabilities, and if that's her look on it, then that's her opinion and choice. But, I do also feel like it's a little unprofessional. When we start in this business, 9/10 times we know what we're getting ourselves into. We know that not everyone we meet is going to be single. It's part of the fantasy we create. If you could get what we provide at home from your wife, you wouldn't be needing us. Whether you're on business, travel often, in a sexless or dead end marriage, or just simply need an escape. That, in reality, is what we're here to provide, not to be judgmental.  If you can't handle the fact that things like that happen and be open minded, I don't think you're meant to be a provider. Not everyone is meant to be poly, and not everyone is meant to be monogamous. I would never bash someone for their opinion or morals, so if she doesn't want to see you, theres plenty of other girls who will.