I am new to meeting with providers and am a little discouraged.

I am a 35 year old, professional, considerate and attractive man.  I see several gorgeous women that I would like to meet in the Fort Lauderdale/Hollywood, Florida area.  The part that is discouraging for me is that they don't allow black men.  I do understand that "so called thugs" have ruined things for nice guys like me.  I was told that most providers put that restriction for their own protection but if they feel safe and see that you are not going to rob/hurt them, they will make the exception.  My problem is getting past the initial hurdle.  Can providers offer any suggestions?

opportunity to show you what I'm all about.

I'm sorry you still have to deal with this, for GODS sake when will it end.

I have been to Eastern Europe (Czech, Hungary, Finland) most recent just twelve days ago.    All the agencies I called and told I am a visiting American, the first question they asked was if I was a Negro.   It is also the case in London & Toronto where most of the agencies are owned by Asian Indians.    Ditto, Montreal.   I also found that lot of Asian massage places refuse to take in black men which I can directly related to dozens of massage & nail salons being robbed by black men at gun point in New York City especially in Brooklyn and Queens.

Everyone should not be classified as a thug.  

There are many very respected african american men that are members of this very site that have been around for years. I agree with itsmekelly, it is a ladies right and will also STRONGLY agree with HCM... when is this going to end? At the end of the day everyone is human, has needs and wants them fulfilled... isn't that why we are all here in the first place?

ntimid8er, your experiences are what you make them. If you search low end sites, your experience will be just that... low end. I suggest that you keep your future searches on the higher end and you will be tremendously happy in the future.  

My Sincere Opinion,
Sindie Symons

I'm not trying to tell you how to spend your money but maybe I am stay away from BP.

Offering sexual services to men is a very private and personal thing and experience for a woman.   I would leave it to her discretion whom she feels comfortable with and whom she feels not comfortable.    It is ridiculous to complain that someone does not want to see a particular person.    Go and find someone else who will meet you.

I have been turned down by couple of ladies in Orlando area for no reason and I am not black!.   That is the way it is, move on.

darlin, i don't know you nor do i know any of the ladies who may prefer not to see you, for whatever reason.  this is simply a comment from the peanut gallery.

ladies consider all kinds of things when weighing whether or not to see a gentleman.  particularly if you're making contact via email - where she has little to go on initially but your words - a less...er...INTIMIDATING handle might go a long way toward convincing a lady you're harmless.

its just a thought.  hope you find some lovely ladies to love...for an hour or two, anyway!

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I have never publicly posted that I will or will not see men of a certain race, because I find it hurts your business both ways. 1. If you say you don't see x race, hate mail and fake reviews come from those of that race. 2. Many older white men will not see a provider if they know she sees black men, and 70 percent of most provider's business is from white and asian men.