I have been in this hobby for a while and have meet some beautiful and wonderful ladies.  Some that I knew in my normal life I could never have...and others that I felt I could have meet in a bar.

Some of the ladies were sexy and beautiful, but boring in the bedroom (too many rules) and others really surprised me on how they were a lady in the streets and a slut in the bedroom.

My question is to the guys (and girls feel free to chime as well)...I know we do our homework but researching the girls, read reviews, look at pictures...but we all know YMMV.  Some of the ladies I have been with have broken a few of their own rules we were together and those are the things you do not post on reviews...butwhen it comes time to picking a lady you want want to see what  do you do...

1.  Pick a super hot and attractive girl that has rules and you know you are 1 and done? (kind of like that super hot model girl with the great body that never looked at you in school)

2.  Pick an average girl who is pretty open-minded? (the girl you knew in school that was average looking but was open-minded and you knew things were going to be fun and exciting)

3.  A girl that is not so hot but is open to everything in bed?

Now for me I want the hot girl that is a lady outside the room and a slut in the bed.  I know there a few of them on here and others that are just closed-minded.

Just curious what you guys think about before you pick the lady.

A girl who is a 7 in looks but a 10 in performance is far, far more appealing than a 10 in looks but a 7 in performance. Girls who feel they are so special that guys a lucky to be seeing them suck. With that being said there are a lot of very beautiful providers out there that are great performers as well.

First of all, I have to be physically attracted to her.  If I am, I look at her rates, and if she is out of my budget limit, I move on.  If she is within my budget, I look for reviews.  No reviews, no visit, unless a trusted hobby buddy or provider has vouched for her.  When I look at reviews, I do check to see if she offers my two deal-breakers, i e, bbbj and dfk.  If they are not on the menu, I move on.

She does not have to be a 10+ in looks, but, as I said before, I have to be physically attracted to her.  I prefer pics that show her face, but it's not a deal-breaker if she blurs her face.  Her age is not one of my parameters, I have seen providers from 18 to late 40's, and had great times with all ages.  With my research, I have had few disappointing dates.  Granted, some were better than others, but that's to be expected.

What puzzles me is when I look at reviews, then look at the reviewer's list of reviews and see that many of his encounters have been less than stellar, lots of 6's and lower for looks and or performance.  Don't these guys do research?  It also baffles me when I see a guy review a girl who has nothing but ripoff reviews, and there is one in the Tampa area like that, but every so often some dumbass will see her and review her, thinking she will be better with him.....   NO, she ain't gonna change for you.  If she's a ripoff to others, she's gonna try to rip you off too.

Swim

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i agree with what swim said.. thats my thinking also.. age is not a real big deal for me. if i am into her then i will search for reviews then go from there..

where i live i am limited to who i see...

...my absolute favorite kind of date is dinner and desert.
I love whining and dining and charming the pants of him with my elegance and wit, but having him think I'm slightly too poised to be any good in bed. And then when we get back to the bedroom I fuck his mind by bringing out my inner pornstar alter ego!!
It's very interesting to me that women get into this business and are sexually closed minded.
I mean, how is that even possible in this line of work?
I once met a girl who I wanted to do doubles with until I found out she had a no kissing rule, wtf!
You know very well what you are here to do, have some fun doing it!  
And guys, be more open about what it is that you really want.
What are the things your wife won't do? What do you fantasize about?
This is the exact place where we can all let go of our insecurities and go wild.
Isn't that why you called?

I always look for the exotic beauties. I'm only interested in paying for spectacular looks. The average looking girls I can bang in real life anytime. I want that hard to get hottie to show up to my place.

I then look at reviews to see if they offer CIM or face as I love to finish that way. I also see if they really like to kiss or do they just do little pecks. I try to avoid the ones that dont like kissing. I think its funny that  a woman will suck your cock, but won't kiss you lol.

Every once and a while I'll see a girl that I don't find attractive based on the pictures she provides, and I'll read the reviews to see if she is a wild one. Sometimes pictures lie as you show up and see a much older woman. I need to write more reviews of those situations!

But on the times that I have booked the hottie it was not as good as the one a step or 2 lower on the looks scale.  Same in real life the really hot ones seamed to think their shit was caviar and did not work it for the total experience.

4) I know many of the best providers from Florida, and most make their way through NYC.  All are different in looks and personality, but all are desirable as friends and lovers.  Those that I have before in person have a decided advantage.  Take this approach as a hobbyist, and you will have more than enough choices...

Are her initials PK?