J Marie on the Miami board was a no show.

Grow up. This could've been handled a little better if you had any common sense and take it up personally with the provider in question. Providers are people too, they have circumstances just like everyone else. When a NCNS happens to us, do you see us posting about it? C'mon man really...

Just my .02¢

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Can it be that someone on this board actually calls out stupid bullshit when they see it?
Say it isn't so!

Fantastic post....but be careful.
Next thing you know there will be people saying that you're trying to control the board, or that they don't like your attitude.

Oh wait...if they do.......fuck 'em.

Just sayin'
DD

if she feels uncomfortable, or if in her professional opinion the date is inappropriate.  further, a lady should not have to fear a threat of retaliation if and when she exercises that right.

    stuff happens-I've only had one no show and called the provider as soon as I got home-She saw me the next day to make it up and did she ever-For my bucks, handling things privately in a respectful way is ALWAYS preferable to airing dirty laundry publicly.  If you didn't try to work things out with her before posting here, I'd say you made the wrong call.  My 2 cents.

This should have been handled privately not on the board.

I agree with J. Marie!

So you're saying that you cancelled with him and didn't just no show?

yes, that's exactly what i'm saying:  i am saying i notified this gentleman well before we were to meet that i wished to cancel.  he acknowledged receipt of my message immediately.  there was no misunderstanding, this was not a no-show.  end of story.

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..... Just a confession of hurt .... or false pride .... who knows the whole truth, ... other than these two, ... and they may even see it differently. Perhaps she was simply affording him the same amount of courtesy she felt she had rec'd ..... Hey, you can't fault ANYONE if they don't feel comfortable or safe, especially in the industry today.... to many shady things happen to people anymore .... Just sayin'......Torre

Feeling unsafe or uncomfortable if fine, just say so and cancel the date..in my opinion...just not showing up and not calling is not the way to handle it...again just my opinion and 2 cents..

I guess I missed the previous post saying that plenty of notice was given to cancel the date...my apologies j Marie...

Once again, the Dirtman rushes to judgement and attacks soneone on this Board.  When does he stop being so judgemental and stay out of issues that don't concern him?  Hey Dirtman, I'm "just saying"....

Dirtman, you once again show your arrogance and lack of reality. The poster did not state the correct facts and once again,you took a negative stance and 'supported' something you know nothing about. You must be areal success story in the real world.  Why don't you man up and apologize to J Marie?  You continue to be a pompous a hole and ruin the integrity and community of the Board.  Many months ago, when you were taken out of the Moderator position,you said you weren't going to participate any longer.  Why don't you live up to your promise.  The tenor of the Board would be so much more positive without your continued negativity.  Just sayin .......you're an a hole

A No Call No Show (NCNS) or a No show is not the same as a provider cancelling on you due to her preferences. Before posting something like this you need to ask about the terms before posting a slander as such. She is a great gal/provider and doesn't need this sort of thing to be on the board B91623 and you shouldn't of mentioned her name but instead asked the Florida board about gals cancelling. Just my opinion and I will chew you out later LOL (yes I know him very well and he's a great client but new to Florida...I think he got upset because he is used to Atlanta and his regular gals not cancelling) He plans in advance. But it is what it is. So sorry J Marie that he jumped the gun! Modersators should delete this post. B9 I will discuss this with you later.....Hugs JoJo

Are you off your meds again?

What "rush to judgement" or "attack"?
Someone had the stones to call out a poster for making a post that wasn't necessary.
I supported their position, and having the guts to say something. That's it.
Reading comprehension another problem of yours?

Again, Miss Thang, your obsession with me is cute.....but unfortunately you are unable to see that all you're really doing by stalking me is making yourself look like a whack-job. Maybe the New York cold is freezing whatever brain cells you have left? Stay inside. You can't afford to lose too many more. lol

Just sayin'
DD

Lol....sorry to say b, but what a dip shit.......

You too patti.

Glad that's all settled

Everyone has made a mistake.
Everyone has experienced disappointment.
Everyone has handled things in a way they wish they hadn't.

NOT everyone has the backbone to step up and deal with it head-on.
For that...I give you respect.

While no one knows exactly what went on between you and J. Marie...we've seen what has been made public.
Sometimes it breaks down to that simple bumper-sticker wisdom......"shit happens".
J. Marie, and now you, have handled this in a very classy way...which you both should be applauded for.

On a side note...these boards are for the sharing of information, and humor, and personal things, and other associated nonsense. You should consider participating more. The board can always use new life and new insights. Sometimes we toss shit around like monkeys in the zoo....but that's part of the fun.

Just sayin'
DD

I am sorry to cause such an uproar. I do not particapate on these boards usually. I will agree with J. Marie that she cancelled the appointment rather than be a no show. I made a date with her a day ahead of time. I gave her alot of information about me and it was more than most hobbiest would ever give a provider. I wanted her to be as comfortable and excited about the date as I was. She gave me 2 hours notice of the cancellation after I had been looking forward to meeting her for a few days. I just maybe a cry baby. I never cancel on a provider and feel that I desever the same treatment. I feel the reason for these boards are to let the other hobbiests know when a provider disappoints you as appossed to a gossup board between the providers. I appologize to J. Marie and hope this ends the discussion.
.

It's nice that people chime in with their opinions....but did you not read the progression of this thread?

Every point you mention has been covered...and the guy even apologized. Everyone stated their case, and it's pretty much settled.

It would have taken a LOT less time to read through what actually happened....than it did to post your diatribe.

It's done. As the Irish cop says....Move along....nothing to see here......

Just sayin'
DD

Hello JoJo!  xo

You are so correct in explaining the difference between a No Call No Show and a true cancellation.  I have never met j.marie but I can tell you that I SERIOUSLY doubt she would NCNS anyone without good reason and to CANCEL, she would need a better reason.

If a provider verifies a gentleman through whatever means make her comfortable, she already has an investment in that gentleman and would intend to follow through.  IF there was a conversation during or after verification that made the provider uncomfortable, it is her prerogative to either clarify or cancel.  If she can't be comfortable, she will probably not give you the date you deserve.

To the OP, why be such a crybaby with a FALSE subject line?  Only you and j.marie know what made her uncomfortable.  Some of us truly enjoy being under the radar and require discretion and privacy for ourselves.  This includes our real names, facial photos, residence locations, even our incall locations.  We like that low profile and so do certain gentlemen.  Some simply don't care.  You should take her true cancellation with the courtesy it was meant to be.  She NOTIFIED you that she would not take your date...FOR WHATEVER REASON.  Are you in a gated community where PERSONAL information would be required to gain entrance?  Perhaps some of your conversation made her uncomfortable?  Maybe it was something else.  For whatever reason, you say that you are not used to this treatment.  Sometimes things just don't work out.

Sorry for your troubles.  This was not the way to air your grievance or hurt feelings.  

I only know j.marie to be a diligent screener and discrete provider of quality.  

Happy play is the only way to go!

get along, fuck and be happy?

Tara xoxo

Hmmm...I don't post anything but ads here occasionally and don't participate much and do not visit daily, let alone live on these boards like some folks do, posting constantly.

I saw the thread and like everyone else, posted my response.  It was not a diatribe as you put it, yet if that is how you read it, fine.  

Moving along

Why is is when a client has a problem with a provider then things should be handled in private, but when a provider has a problem with a client she blacklist him?

Miss patti

You are rude & arrogant.
Stop it.

Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha.....that's funt patti...

You say Man up & you have a girls name

Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha
Made my day girl.