I just feel , I don't know ........Weird .
My brain just can't seem to activate my windpipe . I once saw swimtreker post he did not do them either . Maybe swim can interject his reasons . Hate to put you on the spot there man .......

I mean , I have about 200 , FINE , BEAUTIFUL , SEXY ,  choices here in South Flroida , and out of all those choices , the little head chose YOU !!!   Wear whatever you want , you already gave me a stiffie , and what the hell do I know about woman's fashion anyway - nothing !
Wear whatever makes YOU feel sexy and comfortable , please , by all means .
The whole point of our time together is for both of us to be naked - DUH .
So I make a request for clothes with the sheer intention of QUICKLY removing these clothes as soon as I possibly can . Does not make logical sence to me !
Am I alone on this ?

I swear ONE time I'm going to tell her I have a mummy fetish , and could she wrop herself up like a mummy for me when I open the door  ----  just to see if she would actually do it .
Is that wrong ?

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Clothing requests can add to the intimacy and fantasy of the session.  It can be an equal part of foreplay as the initial conversation.  Sometimes an outfit change can be a good break in the action and add a little spice.

I always have lots of thoughts around this but can never bring myself to ask for them.  Which of us is worse?

However, the whole experience is to seduce each other visually and physically, so I feel that sexy lingerie underneath a trench coat, high heels and stockings is definitely sexy and a turn on, would you agree ?

here goes.  No, I do not make special wardrobe requests at present, maybe I will some day, I don't know.  I do know some girls like to dress up in fancy lingerie, and that's always a lovely sight to see.  However, I think what gbg is referring to is that I have told providers that street clothes are just fine with me, they don't have to dress to impress me.  I'm already impressed, or I would not be there.  To me, ordinary street clothes on the provider just makes it seem more like a civvie date, rather than a p4p meeting.

Swim

I have, and I think most guys have an over active imagination. With that being said, I have already seen her in every wardrobe I can imagine, and trust me... she is fine.  In reality I think the ladies know what looks better on them, and consequently feel more comfortable in what they choose to wear. As long as she looks at me with deep seductive eyes, she could be wearing a sheet and I would be fine with it.  I would actually prefer the sheet.

I agree with you 100%

That said I love to be surprised. And in particular I prefer something that has not been worn in the provders on line photo's. I think it makes it seem too commercial.

The suspense of meeting someone new and beautiful is enough to get me up.

If I am on a dinner date the dress can be important. I don't want to stand out in a crowd. Thus no super short tight dress.

my eye. Naturally, I remove this garment mentally on several ocassions once our date is confirmed.

Sometimes, I go with the flow and make no request. I do know the lady will choose something that makes her look great which is why I'm there in the first place.

To date, I've never met a lady who declined the birthday suit request.  If she is wearing any lingerie or similar attire when she greets you at the door, I would not say anything until the action moves to BR.  At that point, if you want her to remove that, just tell her gently.