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bushyannette See my TER Reviews 1021 reads
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Ok here is something that is been going thru my head lately...  

Let's see what most think or would do..

Your married or involved in a ltr.  After 15yrs u walk into a store and a much younger cashier hits/flirts with you. This happens everytime you go into that store. The cashier knows your married but still hits/flirts with you. After a month you give them your contact info. They contact you asking if your open to a serious thing or just fun....  

What would you do? Lol

Unless I wanted to end my ltr, I would immediately shut that phone down and stop shopping there. One of the benefits of hobbying is that the relationships are anonymous and momentary. Trying to manage a side lady is almost always messy and risky.

What if they say its only about sex.. but once u do it find out they r selfish in bed?

I wouldn’t believe them if they said it’s just about sex. With enough time, it will become about something else and if they are selfish in bed, they are likely selfish overall which means everything will be about them. Hence my initial reaction...to run.

Think long and hard about it ...first off she knows you are married and she still goes forward?  to me this means she does not respect boundaries and does not have respect for you . Or perhaps your wife arranged this you never know  in this day and age. If you value keeping your marriage, just call a provider as we are paid to be discreet and leave lol with 0 drama at least this is how I look at it ...Best of luck

I normally feel the same way.. but if there is alot missing from ur relationship.. y not have a side piece with ground rules

So after 1 fun meet... come to find out they r in the same boat of a sexless marriage.. so do u keep on meeting just 4 sex or find other avenus?

Falling in love with two people is what would happen. That would not be a good idea.

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