Glup....

The out come of this will be scary...

Either way

It is offered and accepted every day in this hobby.  We may as well discuss it.

If people dont think BBFS happens all the time in the hobby, they are delusional.....everyone is an adult, and everyone has the right to make their own decision and do what they want to do, or are comfortable doing.  There are risks in everything we do in life, this is just another one to add to the list....

Cheers

(Thanks for the call out DD, you would be amazed at the amount of PM's I received from guys and ladies agreeing  100% with what I said BTW...I just hope some of them gain the courage to post it openly....hence the discussion)

WHOA!!! Slow your roll there, people! Let's be more clear.

Ok...everyone take a breath. Deep one.
Now let it oooooout. Sloooowly.
Repeat.
You good? I know I am.

My PM box has been BLOWING UP here recently.
Let's clear this up slowly and rationally.

First....TER is NOT endorsing, rationalizing, or telling everyone to toss out the covers and boink bareback.
Do we have that?
Do we need to repeat it?
Please.....PLEASE....use your rational heads.


Now that we have that established....let's discuss what this means.
Whether you are in denial or not....BBFS happens every day. Deal with it.
Somewhere....someone in the hobby is doing it right now.
Maybe it's a drunken one-time thing. Maybe it's someone "special". Maybe there's a "connection". Maybe someone offers it for extra pesos. Maybe someone does it because they know they have something and want to hurt the opposite sex. Maybe it's for any number of reasons....but let's be adult and at least admit that it happens.

When it's not allowed to be discussed or reviewed....we have NO WAY of knowing who is doing it in our little community.
Don't think the community is little?
Just stop for a minute and think about the "six degrees of separation" thing. The odds are pretty good that almost everyone on this board is "connected".
That guy or gal you think is a douche....or you argue with all the time? Guess what....you're "tunnel buddies" in some way.
I know....makes you ill in some ways...huh? lol.

When it IS allowed to be discussed...at least we know who's doing it. We can then make INFORMED choices as ADULTS. Right?

So...to recap....TER is NOT endorsing the behavior or telling you to do it.
They are admitting that it happens...and taking a bold step to move out of the shadows of blind ignorance....and allow us all to help each other.

Hope this clears things up a bit...and diminishes the 'panic'.

Just sayin'
DD

I see a discussion about it all the time on the General board. I believe there were 2 threads running at once sometime last week.

It is well over due

I believe in free speech!

Some people are going to be very suprized and a few guys are going to have their bubbles burst. It's going to be interesting to see how this plays out.

I thought massage "privates to privates" was some type of calling card till I was educated on what that meant. So that's a tease for the gentleman on a hunt to slip his head into skin to skin. I would think any lady with that on her profile has a fight on her hands often. Now there will be less guess work on the man's part and less risk for the ladies who care not to engage in this practice or as with second hand smoke deal with the residual effects. You won't find that on my profile yet I still get men cumming my way and trying. I think I react as in " sorry no Bareback here buddy". Well, I guess or hope they will finally find exactly what they want "RAW" and let other ladies alone who are repulsed by this.

So let's see who the first lady will be advertising BBFS here.  My bet, she'll be a very popular lady

Kisses Haley

Will they add a search feature for it?

There are a number of hobbiest' who search for this on purpose.  And the number is bigger than many would actually want to admit.

Will TER be adding the ability to look for this, just like BBBJ, or will those who want this have to comb through the reviews?

I am okay having it discussed, but think it will be like Greek and other activities that may be available on a limited basis only.  Regardless of what the reviews say, your mileage may vary.   In addition, I wonder if guys will get upset if a provider that they like offers BBFS with others but not with them......