Ladies,
Do you like it when your client is hard/fully aroused at your arrival, or is it more fun to get him hard/aroused with some flirting/kissing. Does it turn you on if the client is hard for you as you walk in the door? Do you notice one way or another?
Often, the anticipation of the date is arousing in itself. Showering, cleaning up one's apartment, setting the mood--all with the knowledge that a gorgeous, sexy woman will be there to rock one's world. The fantasy, anticipation, excitement can all be very powerful. When she walks in, you are ready to impale her.
On the other hand, seduction can be equally powerful. At times, I've tried not to think about it--pretend that it's a surprise encounter. It can be fun to be aroused/hardened by a soft kiss, the press of breasts against my chest, a squeeze of the ass. Sometimes letting her know I've gone from soft to hard in a nanosecond enhances the connection.
I'm curious as to what the ladies think, if they have a preference, and if there is a particular aspect of this that is arousing for YOU. I'm sure the guys have some thoughts, too.
