poster on that ridiculous General Board that was dying to say something just to see his name on screen.  People tend to overthink on these boards.  And overreact.

And bbfs has become the topic of choice now that TER has allowed it to be mentioned.

but fortunately you aren't missing anything important. lol

 
Don't let the words of one moron make you believe the entire world has gone nuts. CDL has been on a mission for months to convince us that such terms as PSE and "open minded" are somehow "code" for BBFS. It most certainly is not true and as long as enough of us are around to shout down such ridiculous theories "open minded" will not EVER become synonymous with BBFS.

 
The danger here is that if a few people start believing such nonsense and they tell a few people and those people tell a few more people, then it could be possible that at some future date it could be true. That's why I disagree when people talk about "unnecessary rudeness" I am a firm believer that in some cases a certain amount of "rudeness" is indeed necessary.

 
The English language is easily hijacked, especially in this era of the internet. People are still trying to convince me that I am not "straight" but that I am "cisgender" or that I should be insulted when called Oriental and that I should insist on being called Asian or even worse Asian-American when I am actually of mixed race, born right here in the good old US of A. The only way we can keep these things from happening and having our language corrupted is to push back when people try to change our language against our will, and sometimes that calls for a bit of "rudeness" lol

your situation "the author". As PW and GaG said, some posters are not playing with a sharp knife, or full deck, or . . . .