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Ladies if a guy is interested in BDSM will you accomodate?
Icanttakeitwithme 663 reads
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and what would be your limits? Asking for my Uncle of course

HaleyOrlando848 reads

I will do role play and spanking, on him of course. I have breakaway leather restraints but prefer to use one of my black silk stockings as that prop. Using a whip or flogger is possible since it is part of my toy chest but not all that many gentlemen ask for real pain or to leave marks. My guess is those in the know who want a real BDSM experience go to a lady with a dungeon and all it's props. There are sites for these ladies to advertise this specific type of adult play.

Kisses Haley

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EdrienneCole769 reads

... blood, animals, children, permanent marks, injuries requiring professional medical attention (or activities likely to produce such injuries).  Of course, I tend to take the Domme side....  it takes a very rare man to bring out my submissive side.  ;-)

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LoveLaneysRedLightShow694 reads

... to see if we click. If we do I'm usually open to role playing and light BDSM.

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LoveLaneysRedLightShow770 reads

I met someone for cocktails Friday evening and thought I was meeting them for a "date". When I arrived, they told me they could get "it" anytime they pleased but wanted someone to model shoes and latex for him but not compensate me at my full rate. I was so thrown off balance by this blatant disrespect of my time that I mentally checked out in the middle of appetizers and physically checked out moments later after asking him to get the check and my valet tab. What he wanted was off the menu and he should have had the courtesy of a conversation about what he wanted and on what terms before asking me to meet him.

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notlong532 reads

sounds like less than thorough verification

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JLee5671090 reads

Sounds like he was disrespecting a lot more than just your time.

If this is what you mean by "clicking" (or NOT) then I do think I get it after all. I take it you mean you want to be treated like a human being.

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sobeslave673 reads

I think you were right to leave. If the guy wanted something not listed or mentioned before and was trying to lowball you he should have discussed it before and mentioned that the "date" was to be "off the clock" or something similar.

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JLee567675 reads

So, the guy has to play it straight with you at least one time before moving on to the kinky stuff? I'm not trying to be disrespectful but that does really work - I mean for the guy mostly.


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JLee5671136 reads

I don't mean to be disrespectful but does that really work? I mean it seems to me like the rule you are laying down is that the guy has to play it straight first and after that maybe you will consider the kinky stuff he really wants to do. I think that describes a lot of guy's marriages.

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Thewildthing1514 reads

& I do use them for myself & my visitors.
I love it!

I am a little embarrassed to admit...
I do NOT know what "BDSM" REALLY means.
MY take is... I will tease & please you 'til you "arrive" & then...
you can let yourself out of my Velcro cuffs.

I WISH I could inflict sexy pain on a man who enjoys it.
I TRIED it once.... I was a sweet failure.
I RAN for the first aide kit & apologized profusely.

There is a woman HERE I see post & I admire
& envy her ability to satisfy men in a way that is MOSTLY OF THE MIND.

I believe that men who enjoy it
are PROBABLY wonderful, grateful, interesting & generous.

Like I said, I WISH I could REALLY do it.

Alas... IF a "vanilla" version is what someone is looking for...
I love it. For MORE than that...
I recommend Brenda Boobies.

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sobeslave856 reads

I would think that many here have a different answer depending on the exact question and the type of BDSM activities.

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