Okay so Im a virgin to the Greek experience.

BUT I have heard its the best thing going ...
My feable "attempts" have all been wrought with fear, pain, and then of course, ultimate failure.

My question is ... how the hell do you get past the first time????!!!!
I am in awe of you ladies who take it like champions ...
Please PM me your secrets .. and if any hobbyist like Greek virgins and have a gentle spirit ..

Lets talk ..


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Sent you a PM

If you would like to come to Boston I would be thrilled to help you with that and will be very gentle and understanding

Alisha,

I know you want to hear from the girls, but here's my thoughts on how you'd get used to it and hopefully enjoy it.

First things, first - you've got to be really ready to loosen up and enjoy the adventure to Greece. Start with your own enjoyment of this. You might want to start training with small anal beads, not much but get yourself used to it. Gradually go bigger and bigger.

Same difference, you can start out with the "My First Buttplug" brand of buttplug. and work your way up from there.

Each time you play with these toys, enjoy the experience while stimulating your clit or playing with a dildo. With that relaxing and stimulating combination, you should start to really enjoy it and you should see how easy it becomes to enjoy opening up. You'll then start to feel the pleasure associated all your thousands of anal nerve endings.

After you get the hang of it that way, you should be ready for real cock action.

Look forward to hearing your progress in this area because it might make me that much more interested in seeing you.

NYCAD

Definately on my list for 2009 ...

Maybe in the spring ... April-ish

So it really is a deciding factor for hobbyist?

If you are attracted to her and her reviews sparkle, but Greek is not on the menu, you will pass her up?

Come on? No way .... really?=

Could it feel that much different or THAT incredible?

C'mon guys ... speak up on this subject ...

Everybody has his or her own "dealbreakers."

For me, Greek is not one of them.  I, too, wonder just how much more "incrdible" it is, since my island experiences have been limited.

I'm sure there are others guys who will be more than happy to explain why it ranks so high on the list for them.

why put yourself through the pain and the mess? You can ruin the area. In later life, you'd really suffer.

The key to a great Greek experience is relaxing! Communication is also very important. Let the gent know it's your first time and you take control of the entry. Make sure that both of you are well lubricated and Go very slow...once you get past that uncomfortable spot...I can assure you, it's very enjoyable.

Greek is something that a woman either loves or hates, there is no in between. Once you do it, you'll know which category you fit into.

Also, once guys realize that you offer greek...some will start fingering it, even if they aren't taking the trip. I personally, don't mind having both holes played with at the same time. However, it is important to make sure that their nails are well-manicured and that lube is readily available. I've had a few gents 'try' slipping a finger in with no lube...OUCH!!!

Just be careful and only do it because that's something that YOU want.

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... any proof/info online of this?

Bing of true Greek origins, I have to admit I have never subscribed to that part of the culture but two words do come to mine – Olive Oil (and lots of it)!

And I agree with what and how Paris put it.

I think TRUST is a key thing.  Echo the feeling of others;  lots of lube and really take it slow at first, let the guy know. And most of all, the guy has to listen to be sure they are sounds of ecstasy not pain...that's no fun...for either person.  I personally don't ask for it BUTT (lol), will go with it if that's what she gets into and suggests it.
Don't let anyone pressure you into it...but you already know that.

For me it's not a deal breaker, but if you are going to go experiment with trips to Greece, that just adds interest. You're a beautiful woman. no doubt, so please don't take it like it's Greek or it's nothing at all.

Please absorb all of what I wrote on my posting, the hints on what you can do to see if you like it and get you comfortable with it. It's only a small investment in some anal beads to toy around and see if this is something you'll be into.


If you don't like it, that's certainly cool. I do like trips to Greece but I can't say I go for trips there all the time. So I'm not trying to stir up any bad vibes here. Anyhoo, if you're in NYC anytime soon, maybe we'd get together and I could help you with easing you into it with some toy play. Your call.

NYCAD

I'll look it up. I've seen info on this before.

Have you passed on me in the past because I didnt offer it?

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See Physical Damage at http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anal_sex

Also Google the term "anal sex damage"

It's a dirty area and you can get sepsis. I had a prostate biopsy and got sepsis. I was seriously ill. I was in the hospital for a week on high doses of numerous antibiotics.

You have a statement on your web site saying "No Greek. Period!" Hon, I'd leave it alone, just sayin'.

.....O there's Paris,  thought I was on the wrong board, didn't recognize anyone...

Wow Hardwood,

That last post was like you are an anti-anal propaganda machine. LOL!

In fact, all you did was just point out the technical nature of sepsis.

The pros and cons of anal - and yes there are pros about having consenting, gentile anal sex have been well documented. There are countless times that Dr. Ruth and Sue johanson have discussed it on their show.

Again, I'll make myself clear, in my opinion anal is fine but it's not everything. I'm just a firm believer that if you ease into the practice, step by step (small steps) develop a liberation / freedom / loosening up about the process, along with simultaneous stimulation, it can be quite enjoyable.

BTW for a Pornstar's view on anal, Nina Hartely has been quite well spoken on the subject.

Well, to each his own and that's my .02 cents worth. Please don't take this as a flame response.

I just can't take a doctor's finger, although I found a female Chinese urologist who was great. I once lubed up a dildo just to see. Wow!! That hurt. And the smell!!! Just not my thing. As for Nina Hartley, I'd rather watch her video on how to eat pussy. Now that I like!!!

If you need to be de-flowered anally-- I volunteer my services!

I will waive my normal fees for Greek Lessons. I'll have you speaking fluently in one evening.  

also include a "training film"  LMAO

...Eat lightly the night before, & give yourself an enema, not very “Lady Like” to leave a little fudge or peanut butter @ the end of the condom!

The only reason I've passed on you in the past is because I really wasn't familiar with you. (there is one other thing that held me back - ever so slightly - but I'll discuss this with you at a later time)

NYCAD

I like fudge.

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While I've indulged a few times, I personally don't get the attraction. Some things are just not as nature intended

Alisha, don't feel pressured. It's both a personal and business decision for you, that only you can make.

Cheers,

Sly

I agree with Paris if you want to experiment and are doing this for your own enjoyment fine!

Otherwise I can attest to the fact that you are just fine the way you are!

I got some really great advice on the post and in my box.

I think I will continue to be in "awe" of those of you who enjoy it butt ..
For me ... It will clearly require an unsafe amount of Vodka just to relax me.
I'll leave this one to the "Pros" and it will continue
to be that thing I still haven't done.

If I do do it ... I will DEFINATELY put up a post.

I loved the info .. That will be my question of the week.
Next Sunday I'll come up with another one.
Hell, Neva' stop learning.

Many many many Kisses

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.. But seriously ... Im available Wednesday for that Incall we have been talking about.

Call me tomorrow. Kiss!

... by being with a man who knows what he is doing, is gentle, and takes his time to get you REALLY turned on, and has an average or smaller penis.  I've been 1st time with over 25 ladies so what does that say about me? lol, BTW, only one asked me to stop & I did immediately & let her rest, played some more & then everything proceeded just fine.

In the Victorian classic "Man with a Maid" the hero reminds the young lady before he penetrates her anus, "Remember, larger things have come out than what is going in."

Wow, either everyone has pent up energy from the holidays or this was a really popular question (or both).

I would concur with others (like Sly), who've said it's your decision and yours alone.  Good luck and don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable.

I've been to Greece a few times and enjoyed it, but don't necessarily look for it.  Some of my ATFs don't offer it.

Happy New Year, and best of luck with next week's question.

here's an opinion from a guy, the only girls i have done it with are ones that asked me to do it
professional or non professional which hasnt been
many, maybe 10, but im on the large and thick side, to me it's nothing special and certainly not a deciding factor on seeing someone, it seems like the girl;s got off on it more than i did i much more prefer oral and regular sex

our board, except for the Floridians. Nice to see a fellow neighbor! I was beginning to think I was the only one left on here....

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Oh sure...NOW you wanna try it some 20 months AFTER the one opportunity I had to see you! LOL

Glad to see you on the board, Alisha. Hope all is well!

First and foremost, don't do anything you truly don't want to do.  Never let anyone convince you otherwise.  

Oh yes, you will/can experience pain, etc.  However, I have been very successful many times with not experiencing pain. Plus I have been able to handle some pretty large ones...

If you do decide to attempt it, I will reiterate what some others have said.
#1 lots of lube.. Thankfully I have a tendency to get very wet and that is not necessary for me.
#2 a guy who is patient and willing to be gentle with you.
#3 relaxing and the right position are the key.  I personally have found doggie is the best.

Now I could go into more graphic details here but I prefer not too... Another thing, yes I do offer it, but require for me to be notified ahead of time.  Oh I don't prepare my body for it, just mentally I do...plus I ask for more green so I want to make sure it's there.


Be safe and if you need anything let me know.

Bella