Out of curiosity, this is a question to the gentlemen.  If you are on a 4-hour dinner date w/ a provider, what are your expectations of her and how would the date go in your mind?

I've been on two dinner dates with providers.  I expect the provider to dress appropriately for the occasion.  I asked both to dress up nicely for the date, especially high heels (I love heels).  They readily complied, one even buying new clothes for it.  I met one at the restaurant, while the other came to my hotel room, then we proceeded to the hotel restaurant.  The dinner itself should proceed like any other date, with good conversation, genuine interest in each other, and mutual respect (so guys, act like the perfect gentleman, it should go without saying).  Afterwards, on one date we drove back to her incall location which was nearby.  On the other, we returned to the hotel room for the private time.  I love this part of the providing experience.  Does this help?

If you where my date hurry up and finish so we could get the party started.

I'm afraid if you were my 4 hour date, I would have to bring a some fruit, wine, crackers and cheese, because I wouldn't let you out of the room.

That she show up on time and if she's late, she'd let you know. AND especially, she deliver the services outlined on her TER profile after indicating same was accurate.

lady who came to my hotel room. We had a quickie while enjoying some wine and cheese before heading to the restaurant. Dinner was filled with great conversation and some "under the table" teasing. Once we returned to my hotel room, we had a great round two until the time was up.

The 2nd way was a provider invited me to dinner which she prepared. I was given a choice of menu preferences and I brought along the appropriate wine. When I arrived, she greeted me with a kiss and hug. While she continued dinner prep we teased each other with hands and lips. During the meal, the conversation was light but sexy with some gentle touching. After a nice home-made dessert, we proceeded to the bedroom for a pleasurable romp in the hay for the final dessert.  

I must say I enjoyed the home-cooked meal more. Both providers were outstanding courtesans with whom it is easy to spend multiple hours. IMHO, there needs to be a "connection" in order for a dinner date to be a great experience. I would not choose to do a dinner date with a lady I haven't seen previously.

My experience was of your second type with an attractive woman three condos down from me in West Palm Beach in 2008.  We measured each other up while getting in or out of cars in driveways, pass each other at local Publix and best of all at the gym.   Broke the ice at the gym, after a week couple of visits to Starbucks for Frappie, then the deal breaker, dinner at Olive Garden.

Here is the mystery, the woman was moonlighting with now closed Miami Companions.   I set the date up at my condo, cooked a typical Asian Indian dinner with wine matched by a list I had from a wine tasting event.    

We had an hour session before dinner and two hours after dinner.    I officially entered the hobbying business!

Was the dinner with your companion before or after the Starbucks and OG? Did you know you'd be getting your gym buddy for dinner at yours?

It took a month of visits to Starbucks and one dinner at Olive Garden.   By then I had spilled all about me and my life and she opened up about her moonlighting.  So it was a double, a dinner date as a friend and the session as her being an escort.   I did not want to take advantage of her.

END OF MESSAGE

I like to take her to a Drive Through, then inhale the Big Macn Coke & Fries down on the way back to the hotel & get down to business for the next 3 hours & 50 minutes, lol...



Actually....I don't get having dinner before play.....you bloat & fart  during the action......I plan to play first, then enjoy dinner afterwards....& maybe have a goodnight BJ on the ride home or with my back to the hotel room door just prior to her leaving.......that's my idea of a 3 course dinner.

I START with 2 hours of play time, then we get dressed to go to dinner. The getting dressed part and drive time are usually about 30 min.  

If dinner time goes over, I don't mind. I do it this way for 2 reasons....I want to make sure the guy has his full 2 hours of BCD time and avoid being one of those providers who burns 2.5 hours at dinner  leaving the guy with only an hour to get some once drive time is included, 2. I don't play after I eat. That's seriously too much running back and forth lost in drive time, when we could be eating, and ahem eating lol. Add to that, I am not going back to fk someone on a full stomach, nor do I want to deal with someone else's bodily functions whilst trying to perform.  

Most women do just the opposite with dinner before, but I am actually more comfortable being with someone at dinner once I have had sex with them lol. Don't ask me why that is, because I doubt anyone would call me "shy." I also see many who play, do dinner, then play again...not happening. Once I eat, I am going to bed ALONE.  

I also offer an incall dinner in which I prepare a 4 course meal after we play. Guys seem to like that option if they are married and can't be seen in public. I don't charge extra to buy and prepare food.

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Thank you for all the feedbacks to my curiosity.  I am travelling at the moment, but will respond as soon as I return.  Xoxo to all.

I ALWAYS come home from my dinner dates S-A-T-I-S-F-I-E-D , lol!
If dinner isn't before hand, it'd def needed after...

You are too funny Marissa!  Like I said, for me, it depends on the person.  Class can not be taught!

I have never booked a dinner date, but once had a 2 hour session with a very special lady who suggested mid-session that we might grab dinner and return to her hotel for dessert.  I gladly paid for dinner, but she did nor charge me for extra time.  What a phenomenal date with a phenomenal woman.

London,

I like the way you describe your dinner date.  I think the whole process of playing after dinner -- unless it's just a quick bite early in the evening -- is challenging.  To me it makes perfect sense to play, shower, get dressed and then over dinner you can recall all the sexy moments and not worry about how slow the kitchen is.