... the point of the post was to let us know who he was talking about and to show her he can play the same game. She has a history of this behavior too.
As for the OP's question, I would just ignore her. However, I'm divorced and contacting my place of employment would get her nowhere. Unsubstantiated phone calls are automatically ignored by HR departments for legal reasons. She wouldn't make it past security at the front desk where I work either. Nobody cares what I do on my own time. Who is going to show up in person and sign a legal document admitting to being a prostitute anyway? Everyone has to make their own decision based on their own personal circumstances though.
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Whst would you do if a provider threatened you and your job because she was upset with a review? I am not the first to give her a less than stellar review; mine was the third in the last ten reviews for her.
By not doing so, you left enough of a trail for VIP's to track down who the lady is. If she is threatening as you say with exposure, you may have compounded your problem, as you might as well as mentioned her by name. Thanks for being honest and forthright with your fellow hobbyists, but...
You should contact the moderator, or what passes for that now, and request to have this post rescinded immediately. As for having the review in question removed, if she has your personal info, I would consider contacting the other hobbyists who gave her poor reviews, and find out if there was any fall-out for them. Then you can decide whether you need to retract your review.
Good luck, dude.
... the point of the post was to let us know who he was talking about and to show her he can play the same game. She has a history of this behavior too.
As for the OP's question, I would just ignore her. However, I'm divorced and contacting my place of employment would get her nowhere. Unsubstantiated phone calls are automatically ignored by HR departments for legal reasons. She wouldn't make it past security at the front desk where I work either. Nobody cares what I do on my own time. Who is going to show up in person and sign a legal document admitting to being a prostitute anyway? Everyone has to make their own decision based on their own personal circumstances though.
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that is the same place you met me, you need to report her to Gina on p411 and they will kick her off. I can vouch you are one of the nicest guys I have ever met which is rare...You dont have a bad bone in your body. I am sorry this is happening to you and I think I know who it may be if it is the same girl we spoke about. Shame on her. There is a big difference in people saying your much much heavier than your photos or you dont look like your photos than just telling the truth about performance. Some people have no damn sense and this seems to be happening more and more. What some people forget is you give your personal information out but what is good about p411 is you go by a number.
I will never give out any more info that my ter name. This threat thing pops up every couple months. It is part of the business that puts too much power into a providers corner and that can lead to abuse. At this point I would play the wait and see game. If she persits blast away as she will deserve it. Everyone here knows things sometimes do not click and will discount a bad reveiw, but I do not think anyone would write off a threat that a provider follows through with. Good luck.
That's one of huge more concise statements on this type of issue I have seen in a long time.
Thanks.
I only had 4 drinks writing it. thanks
Apparently she has failed to realize that two can play that game. A bad review sucks but what sucks more is violating the provider /client trust. A provider can over-come the negatives resulting from an occasional bad review. What a provider can't over-come is the stigma associated with violating the provider /client trust. If that should occur she should realize that she will likely never be able to get another informed client again.
All the client in question has to do is contact the various boards and screening service boards to get her banned. She should realize that any client who had been injured in such a manner would certainly have the motivation to follow up such an assult buy continuing to monitoring the ad boards and flagging any of her furture ad's that she might post under different aliases from the one she is using now to the point that she would certainly have to find different employment.
If she is reading this i highly advise her to think again.
All the client in question has to do is contact the various boards and screening service boards to get her banned. She should realize that any client who had been injured in such a manner would certainly have the motivation to follow up such an assult buy continuing to monitoring the ad boards and flagging any of her furture ad's that she might post under different aliases from the one she is using now to the point that she would certainly have to find different employment.
If she is reading this i highly advise her to think again.
There are 3 sides to EVERY story.? ( EOM )
He is saying there are THREE sides to every story.
..indeed say 3, not Three or three. Please re-read the 2 previous post submitted by NoCommonSense.
Also Hardwood469....how do you know the 2 posts by the alias NoCommonSense is a He?
Thank you.
(EOM)
His truth - Her truth -The real truth.
Time and again rumors start with one person and trickle down to others before they know the ENTIRE truth.
Som until we hear from the lady in question, DON'T judge her for what another has said unless ther is 100% truth to the ENTIRE story.
EOM!
posted a review. It was obvious that there was no click. Most would read it in passing and take it with a grain of salt. If it is the review that I think it is then he did a fair job giving as much credit to her while telling that he had a less than stellar visit. Just because a provider goes through the motions does not mean a 9 10 rating. Now if he is lying about the threat or exaggerating greatly then I would like to hear the other side but just the hint of a threat is enough to make me want to pass judgement.
Feel free to give us the 2nd or 3rd side any time you want.
let's hear side 2. let the provider in question explain her side of the story.
if this is true about threats of going to your employer I am glad you put this post up. That is completely out of line and I am glad you were proactive and went to her employer, us, and let us know what is going on. that is what ter is all about, letting your peers know who is a must see and who is a must avoid. I am no detective but I know exactly who it is now. I am just thankful she isn't a south fla provider.