I would wait a couple of days at most. The fact that you have not heard from her is not a good sign.

Is she usually pretty quick to answer back via email/phone call? Have you called back and is the VM box still full?

I don't want to be negative but you really have no idea what could have happened to her. The list is endless and if something bad happened to her throwing her name out their will be the last thing you would want to do.

You automatically assume she has done this before when you have no idea if she has!

I know that no shows can happen, and I understand that there are a variety of reasons why they happen. However, when it happens without a phone call, I think that it is irresponsible and completely uncalled for. Here's what happened to me. I contacted an established, well-reviewed provider that I have seen before, at around 1:00 in the afternoon. She called back about 20 minutes later, and we confirmed a 9pm appointment for that evening. She said that she would call me when she is leaving so she can put the address directly into her GPS. OK, no problem. I had not heard from her by 8:30, so I tried calling. Got her vm and left a message. Tried calling again about 15 minutes later and this time her VM was full and I could not leave a message. Bottom line is I never heard back from her, either by text or phone.
My dilemma is this- do I give this provider's name? I don't want to put a black mark on somebody- I am not a spiteful person. But, as I said, she is an established, well reviewed provider, and putting her name out there would be the same as a bad review. I have had PMs from people asking me about her, and I have always given a glowing recommendation, based on my previous experience with her. I would really appreciate any feedback on this.

Maybe even a week.

I would call her VM. Email her.
If the VM is still full then you know something is wrong. Hopefully nothing to bad.

Like another lady here said, if she replies back with a whacked out BS excuse then I would think about the next step.

Let us know what happens.

I completely understand babe how upset and disappointed you maybe by this no-show. It is completely uncalled for that the provider did not call you to cancel or reschedule. But, have you thought that something may have happened to her? I only ask this because this same thing happened to me a few years back. It was the night before i had an appointment scheduled I was rushed to ER and so doped up on drugs from my situation I never called him. I felt horrible he was so upset. So try to take that into consideration. Everyone makes mistakes and we are real people that do. Good luck babe!! Who knows she may give you a mind blowing make up session!!! That's what I did when I felt better!!

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... and ask for explanation. Who knows there might have been an emergency of some sort and she was not in a position to let you know that she wouldn't be available.

Has she gotten back to you at all yet?

Especially as you have seen her before and she has great reviews, I would be sort of worried something may be wrong, seeing how this is out of character for her.  I guess I would give the benefit of a doubt, and give her a day or two to get back to you to see what the issue may have been.  Call her vm every so often...if it remains full then she likely something is keeping her from being able to answer her phone or check messages.

If she gets back to you with a lame or flaky excuse then absolutely... But if its something serious, like she got into an accident or ill or something where she really couldnt get back to you, then it would suck to have written a NCNS review that you cannot retract.

Just as we give praise for a for good performance, we need to know about no shows. Let us know who this is. Chances are you are not the first on she has done this to.

There is the dilemma. I tried her last night and once today to say that I wanted to make sure that she is okay and to just give a call back. I have no intention of calling her again. She usually does answer within a couple of hours.

I completely agree.....a similar situation happened to me and I couldn't reply I was in the hospital. But, I made sure I had a hot make up session with him as soon as I felt better!!

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And honestly, I don't quite understand it. One was a while back, scheduled an appt, gave me directions, talked twice on the phone. All set up, and arrived at the hotel, no answer. Called a couple times even, no answer. No call back, no nothing.

More recently, I scheduled with a well reviewed provider on here. I called, we agreed, and I said I was on my way, about 20 minutes. Got the second location, called... no answer. To be fair, she DID call back, over two hours later.

I understand things happen, but an explanation doesn't hurt, at least if they are actually seeking out business. For me personally, if that happens, I won't be calling again.

That is the exact reason that I did not want to just throw her name out there for everyone. I tried calling her again today to just see if she really is ok. Have not heard back from her and I am not planning on calling again