Before scrolling down to your post I started a similar one with the below comment inside....
I've traditionally brushed 30 minute appointment requests off and almost considered them insults in the past. Last week, I met someone who was in and out of my place in less than 30 minutes and I felt *really* guilty accepting the usual 90 minute minimum. Based on that experience, the fact that I live downtown and because I work full time myself I'm considering putting a 30 minute daytime only "express" appointment on my menu. It was really easy for me to slide out of work, meet him briefly, shower and get back to my job. There was very little interaction between us but maybe that's all some guys want? A quick (and quiet) bang and to be on their way again?.....
After reading the replies to your post I can see that a 30 minute appointment probably isn't a good idea.
I know that there are providers that offer discounted 30 minute sessions, are gentlemen fond of such fast treatment, how can that possible be a true GFE session. I know we had a thread not to long ago about some providers that only offer two hour minimum session and the respons was great. Now I would like to get input on the opposite end, the speed racer session. And how much quality time can you really spend with a provider, or is that exactly what you are looking for, get off and get out??? Do most gentlemen prefer this service?
Just asking
Kisses
Elle
...Lots of factors, not the least of which is $, can impact one's choice here, and there's no "hard and fast" rule. Well, at least there's no "fast" rule. I believe that most men, if they had the time, funds, etc., to do a longer session, we would.
As for how a 30 min session can be a "GFE?" Child, please. Warren Beatty only needed 15 to 20 minutes, top. Ditto JFK. Seriously, though, a provider just does all the normal GFE things, just faster. And, many of us love a good french session, which of course can be accomplished, with great gusto, in a 30 minute session.
Sometimes, just a little tune-up is all we need to battle the crazies and impaired drivers and work/family stress, etc.
Personally, I enjoy spending time with a lady. When money was no object I liked 2 and 3 hour sessions. Now, I have to say, hey an hour works... I want a provider to be my girlfriend because I don't want a real girlfriend and that takes time, but if she's sweet it is time and money well spent.
For the guys who like 30 minute sessions, more power to you. I do realize its about money since I have cut back too.
-- Modified on 3/4/2012 7:30:45 PM
...it boils down to the old "quality vs. quantity" ... "it is what it is"... "you get what you are looking for"....
There are some hobbyists that are restricted to time constraints due to their work or home life. Their time is accounted for ... each and every minute ... their time is not their own and they have to account for their time. Such gentlemen, may schedule a 30 minute session and it will the most fulfilling session for both the hobbyist and the provider because they are making the most of the limited time they have.
On the other hand, there are those hobbyists that are restricted financially and are only willing to expend a 30 minute amount. They may not get as much out of their experience because their motives are different and the clock is the enemy to both. It becomes a mental block to both where "time is of the essence". To start putting "minutes" on sessions and then say you are "not a clock watcher" is an oxymoron.
Then you have to start considering the time to chat, get comfortable, a "no rush" session, the number of cups of coffee, time to prepare, time to wind down...in reality, one hour is not even enough. I personally request one hour at a minimum. If someone requested 30 minutes, that is fine, but I would require an hour donation in light of the time for preparation, travel (if any), missed opportunities, etc.
I also do not think there is anything wrong with requiring a two hour minimum. It offers everyone a relaxed extended time to feel comfortable with each other. If you do not have the time or funds to expend, then perhaps that is not the girl for you. As a provider who requests multi hour engagements, I would prefer to see fewer people for extended periods of time, then many gentlemen in a day and run them off like an assembly line every 30 minutes. Just my opinion...for what it is worth.
1/2 hr, 250, hr for 300. NOw who would go for the half hour unless he just abso-fuckin-lutely had to? No way would I go for that. My dates are hour long, I get my pop(s), some chat time, and I'm happy. These girls are smart, offering half hour for just a little less than the full hour, I just wonder how many takers they get for the half hour rate, when an hour is just a little bit more?????
Swim
I don't see providers who take 30 minute appointments. I don't like an appointment that brief and I want providers who are orientated toward longer term sessions. That said, its not like I have ever lasted THAT long....
questions, your forte pretty lady!
Lets talk about you and me , we have met many times to our great pleasure ! and NEVER for 30 minutes ! although often ,at my age, I am done before 30 minutes . yet , for me ,enjoying your companionship for the next 90 is more satisfefting then the first 30 !
One pop and out has its place and many fine ladies have do it well ! Not for me though ! Companionship is as important as SEX!!
A serious fave sang this little jingle to me some years ago to the notes of the theme song from Bonanza.
" Get it up ....Get it in.... Get it out.... Don't mess my hair up ! "
I would be glad to see YOU someday
for as long or short a visit as WE CAN enjoy.
THIS is a business about SERVICE &...
& at least IMO (unless "out of line") the customer is always right.
to get to your side of the state.
-- Modified on 3/5/2012 2:51:05 AM
I've always thought I'd try a 30 minute sesssion for the fun of it, but alway realize its not enough time for the fun.
Although I have never had a 30 minute session I think if we had already met before than a satisfying session is possible.
It is just like having a quickie with the wife while the kids are waiting for dinner.... ![]()
Before scrolling down to your post I started a similar one with the below comment inside....
I've traditionally brushed 30 minute appointment requests off and almost considered them insults in the past. Last week, I met someone who was in and out of my place in less than 30 minutes and I felt *really* guilty accepting the usual 90 minute minimum. Based on that experience, the fact that I live downtown and because I work full time myself I'm considering putting a 30 minute daytime only "express" appointment on my menu. It was really easy for me to slide out of work, meet him briefly, shower and get back to my job. There was very little interaction between us but maybe that's all some guys want? A quick (and quiet) bang and to be on their way again?.....
After reading the replies to your post I can see that a 30 minute appointment probably isn't a good idea.
Have you ever been on Goofy's rollercoaster ride at Disney? The lines are so fricking long, and you are so excited to finally get on the damn thing, and bamm...the ride is over in 10 seconds. You are like "WTF"!
Seriously, I'd call 30 minutes a quickie. An unplanned quickie can be very satisfying. However,I just can't see jumping in the shower and diving a half hour or more there for a blow and go, and then turning around and driving back. Too much work too little time.
I’m sure every provider can get me to pop in 30 minutes, but not every provider can connect with me and be a companion that I want to spend my valuable time and resources with. At this point in my life I put a very high value on my time. My day starts at 5am and ends around 11pm. A wife, 2 kids, business, dinner, laundry, homework, coaching…I’m running like a lunatic all day and all night long. My wife gets her downtime…massage, mani/pedi, psychologist, book club, shopping, girl’s weekend etc. The kids, I give them a lot of attention and they can drain every ounce of energy right out of me. One day I woke up and I decided enough is enough! What about me? I got back to the gym and playing ball. Next, I took the leap and started hobbying. Now my most precious gift to myself is my playtime appointments. It’s my getaway from reality, it's my relaxation therapy, it's my trip down memory lane, it's a few hours with a intelligent, compassionate, sexy, and beauutiful woman…and (drum roll please) it all comes with a happy ending! If the wife or the neighbor is up for a 30 minute quickie I'm all in, but that is no substitute for what I get from a great companion.