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Oh yes, for sure this is about a man's fantasy...however, while it truly is a business for the lady (when it comes right down to it)the fact remains that many of us ladies really enjoy what we do...I am a very sensual woman and I love meeting new friends and learning all about them as it truly stimulates my brain and certain body parts. Making new friends is always an awesome feeling.

I personally begin to correspond with gentleman more on a business note to weed out the ones that don't follow the rules..for my safety and his...then once all is said is done my guard is down and the real me comes out..

I absolutely love this board and the knowledge that is gained.  Somethings are negative and drama of course, but sometimes things can be brought to each person's attention and that individual can make his/her own opinion of the situation.  We are all adults and can make our own decision about what we want to do, who we want to trust and most importantly, who we want to spend time with.

Personally, I also hate the drama. I am too easy going of a person with an outgoing personality that to me is more important that all the other stuff.  It's is soo much more fun to just be happy and live each minute of the day with a smile on my face.

PS  I agree with Eve..she put it perfectly....

Now, it's time to get back to showing some love,
Bella

XLTrojan2036 reads

When I look back at the drama here a couple of weeks ago and some things have happend to me personally over the years. I believe the beautiful Rae Monroe had it right a few weeks ago when she said that we need to remember that for the men it's a fantasy and for the women it's a business.

Not real sure why I posted that, just food for thought I guess.

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erotic-eve1720 reads

I can only speak for myself, but for me it is Fantasy as well....If I wanted more drama in my life, I would still be married!!!!  LOL....

LUV & LIX

Eve

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a9b8c7990 reads

While it is certainly true that for some women it is strictly business, I think a guy can pick up on that quickly enough.
Maybe those "goin' thru the motions" experiences are exactly that make it all the more enjoyable when you do meet a woman who really lives by the credo "I love what I do and it shows".
I've been very fortunate to meet some women who fall into the latter category. And while we've never met, I'd say Eve belongs there too!

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Stud851230 reads

Get down on your knees in front of me, I'll help make your fantasy cum true.  You don't even need to beg.

Hell, who am I kidding, you don't even need to get on your knees - I just want to complete your fantasies.

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upncummin52952 reads

That's why we love you SO much!!!!!!  ;-)

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1rob1509 reads

Amen, UP-Man-and I would add as well as being drop dead gorgeous, Special Lady, you make us laugh and are just FUN! xxxx 1rob....Happy Easter, All...OUT  :-)

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jadastone928 reads

Short and sweet and to the point!

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MatureGFE1209 reads

It's a fun fantasy for me as well. Nice lingerie, candles, sexy music and great gentlemen who go out of their way to show us how special and sexy we are! It's all good ;-)

xoxo,

Steph

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HaleyOrlando1482 reads

If you see how much I post you will know I fully enjoy who I am and what I do. I'm very comfortable in my skin and just love this lifestyle.

You have so many people to please here and only a select few post. Very hard to know what's going on behind everyone's front door.

I try not to even read drama if I can help it. This can be reflected in my dealings with others and who needs that. As long as I am respected that's all that matters to me.

Kisses Haley

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anon44557788871 reads

Oh yes, for sure this is about a man's fantasy...however, while it truly is a business for the lady (when it comes right down to it)the fact remains that many of us ladies really enjoy what we do...I am a very sensual woman and I love meeting new friends and learning all about them as it truly stimulates my brain and certain body parts. Making new friends is always an awesome feeling.

I personally begin to correspond with gentleman more on a business note to weed out the ones that don't follow the rules..for my safety and his...then once all is said is done my guard is down and the real me comes out..

I absolutely love this board and the knowledge that is gained.  Somethings are negative and drama of course, but sometimes things can be brought to each person's attention and that individual can make his/her own opinion of the situation.  We are all adults and can make our own decision about what we want to do, who we want to trust and most importantly, who we want to spend time with.

Personally, I also hate the drama. I am too easy going of a person with an outgoing personality that to me is more important that all the other stuff.  It's is soo much more fun to just be happy and live each minute of the day with a smile on my face.

PS  I agree with Eve..she put it perfectly....

Now, it's time to get back to showing some love,
Bella

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Dbara1197 reads

long after the session ends, I find myself having very fond memories if it was a great time... and that is where to keep myself grounded and my sanity .. .I remind myself how many men she's been with since then... and yes, something very special for me... for her????

sure in the moment it was great for both of us. .02

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DirtyDaego1731 reads

Like it or not...sometimes 'big', sometimes 'little'...but the experience of life is always one of drama to some extent.
There is no "right" and there is no "wrong" when it comes to people saying how it should be dealt with. Everyone deals with it in their own way and time. Each person lives up to their own version of "right" or "wrong". From those who say they hate it and are never involved...to those who say they hate it, yet somehow can't get enough of it.

One of the few universal truths is that generalization tends to never really be correct.
Sure...some guys do it for fantasy while others have very little concern for that and are into it for pure lust and a self-imposed belief that they simply "need" to 'get off'.
Some ladies are into it purely for business, while others may enjoy the fantasy and attention, while still others may enjoy knowing that their company, in any form, has brightened someone's day and left them feeling much better about themself.

So in the hobby...as in life...you can very rarely generalize and be correct.
All you can really do is be true to yourself...try to find others that you 'click' with in whatever manner you are looking for...and remember that while there always will be some kind of drama....
Today is the only today that you'll have...ever.
Tomorrow was never promised to anyone...and think about what it would be like if your actions and words at the time were the last thing you'd leave.

Tough to do...but it's amazing how great the days can be when you can pull it off.

Just sayin'

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Sindie Symons4084 reads

Life is simply defined as one hell of a roller coaster ride that you repeat riding over and over again. You have your ups and downs and your wild and crazy turns.

Even though there are times when you would like to ride it a certain way, you keep repeating the same damn crazy ride that you think would never end, which eventually does stop dead in it's tracks.

In the hobby as well as life, you have to ride that roller coaster and pray for the best. Just like at the end of every ride, if feel so good to "get off", however, it is the thrill of the ride that keeps us going to reach our destination.


Sindie



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SuzySolaris924 reads

DD-I totally agree, wonderful comment. :-)

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anon445577881318 reads

and I totally 100% agree.

No matter what we all have situations that happen in our lives and to others it appears to be drama. It is sad though that others judge others for things happening.  I am sure everyone of us would LOVE our lives to go easy and free sailing.  However, that is truly not reality.

I personally, am very happy that my true friends in and out of this hobby, are just that true friends.  We all have hurdles but it is what we do with those hurdles that make us a bigger and stronger person.  Me personally, I like to look at everything that is thrown at me as an opportunity to learn...

Kisses,
Bella

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Dbara2058 reads

I click with I stick with her for awhile...seems to build an interesting friendship.. and it seems real from her as well... one never knows.. but in those moment... it is very real for me.

Cheers!

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FlaSailorRon1656 reads

When it's strictly business from either side it leads to a less fullfilling encounter.  If both parties have a bit of fantasy then the sparks fly and the fire is hot

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RaeMonroe1794 reads

Or perhaps you are paraphrasing me. While I believe that "this" is a fantasy for men it is not just "business" to me. When it comes right down to that invisible line, yes, it IS a transaction BUT if it begins to feel that way to me it's time to quit.

At the end of the day, you pay us to go away. No hassles, no drama, no worries except the next visit in my opinion. Hopefully during the waiting period lots of jerking off. (Preferably about me).

My point being, keep it real. Keep it what it is and when fablous things happen and you meet others who enrich your life that is something to take in and appreciate. Be the fantasy don't just sell it. And when negativity comes your way just politely close the door because you shouldn't have to give a white envelope or a second's thought to negativity within this hobby.

It's about sex. Pure and simple. Lots and lots of forking and spooning.

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rentagirl1816 reads

Rae, you are wise beyond your years! Great response from a very special lady!

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