This question is for both client AND provider.  What length of date is best for you?  Why?

is a better topic of discussion. The efforts the ladies go through to do the screening only to get the cold shoulder is very disrespectful... however, I will play along. I enjoy a 2 hour date or better, there is more time to enjoy each others company.

Yes, I prefer an appointment of 2 to 3 hours if just enjoying time behin close doors as the song says and up to 6 or 8 if spending time in public, such as dinner.  The first gives time to get to know one another and spend time enjoying each other.  The second, time in public let's you get to know one another and time in private makes to really please each other.  Now, I do a lot of 1 hours also, usually due to time restraints and other plans for the time I get to myself.  I never do half hours or 15 minutes,  TER won't allow me to post my thoughts on them.

One hour anything more than that is a waste of time. I'm not looking for a friend only one thing on my mind. And Sindie I hear you are a nice girl but why is it when a provider cancels something came up but if a client does the same it's disrespectful, this is not a oneway we have to get ready for the date also.

It does help to get all your info correct before adding your 2 cents. Perhaps reading my post again will help you understand what I meant. Just for the record, I am very understanding about things coming and having to reschedule, things happen... life happens, that is not my issue at hand here. You are correct on one thing you have said, I am a very nice woman.  

I am older and am speaking for myself from experience. An hour is sometime too long. I prefer GFE and languishing and cuddling and kissing. If a provider is only interested in a one shot, slam bam thank you then 30 minutes should be offered. Since discussing the actual time spent for "companionship only" does not allow for details, then I basically will see this type provider only once, or if agreeable for a reduced time. 30 minutes is hard to justify as I realize the cost of an incall can cut in to the bottom line. More than an hour is for special ladies and special occasions , but that is just my budget. Others with fatter wallets can indulge the ladies and themselves! Eom

That being said, it depends on how much the gentleman enjoys spending time embracing all our intimate affections. Myself it's all that which leads to the best time over all. I can spend an hour with a gentleman and find both of us have  had a nice time but you do miss the long slow warm up and cumming down misses much of the real personal touch. Two hours works best for me especially with a new friend.  

I have experienced a longer date, that has been my preference; usually 90 minutes or 2 hours. I have also enjoyed about a 1/2 dozen dates of 3 hours or longer. Still haven't taken the overnight plunge yet. I have found the right lady but the price point is above my budget considering I would only get 2 pops; one in the evening after dinner and the other as a wake-up or after breakfast.

guys who indicate they would like to see her and send her the necessary screening info. She takes the time to screen the potential client and then when she responds to him that everything is all set, he says "no". This might be several days before the potential meeting; not last minute which is considered a cancellation.

Actually, there is no response. I am fully aware that there are many ladies to choose from and if someone else sparked a fancy a simple email would be very polite.  

I got it the first time I was just going more into than that.

Sindie I'm very smart. Smart enough to know who I would like to spend my time with and to pass up.

Ok I am going to bite what Sindie is saying and I can't believe this thread got this far!!! I mean really there is a rash of bookings that come in especially from out of towers who can not seem to appreciate the time and effort And dropping a previous personal event to take an appointment which we are paid to do no argument there so don't start. We get bombarded by late schedule changes as well as people not even responding when we try to confirm which is a loss to us oh then call us last minute expecting us drop all and come running that is very gross. What is also gross is the aliases which attack unfortunately I have grown accustomed to so no rabbit out of the hat there when a provider brings it up. This is a hobby to most it is a business a great one for us so stop and take the time to think what it is like to be us and go through the gauntlet because our business is the way we make a living and when you cancel or not respond you take that away from us also the slap in the face when men cancel our Work to say something like they have to take care of their business what a double standard. Personally I see signs then I disengage period saves me aggravation providers do the same it would save you grief. Just a thought

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I prefer longer encounters so I can take my time knowing my date, knowing his preferences and enjoying the experience overall however, I can't say that the one hour rendezvous are necessarily bad. Some people are really busy so maybe a dinner date or a 2-3 hour engagement may not be possible or even financially feasible. So bottom line is while my preference are extended dates, I can easily accommodate to shorter engagements providing the same level of service.

Val I get it I'm just saying that as a provider all I see is how much time is spent getting ready and blah blah blah maybe the out of Towner had something come up and couldn't confirm and he say a better deal. As a business you should prepare for that and not get bent all out if shape. Orlando has a lot of pretty women and maybe he changed his mind it happens all the time if one person is going to hurt your business that much then maybe you should get a 9-5 this is a free country and you can spend your money and time how you want, I'm not saying that this is right but it happens and you have to move on. Why come on here and bitch about something that will never change just saying.

Actually with some it is their schedule things come up and I do very well thank you but the point is why put somebody through all of that really everyone knows I am very fair and give much to my clients that is why I have repeat business but it goes without saying the same holds true for locals it is a catch 22 for both parties I on the other hand just move on there is more than one way to catch a fish for both provider and hobbyist. As for bitching lol I have ways of dealing with stress it is called lace up get my head gear on and beat a bag or some ass!!!

them your screening info and confirm with the first one who gets back to you. Then you wait and if others get back to you then you look at their web sites and pick the one who has the lower rate, or who you think is sexier or who has the larger breasts, or whatever. That is called double booking and is strictly no good.

Here we go dude I didn't say I did that I said it's not right but it happens. And as for a bargain you said yourself that you like one hr appts because of your budget lol I guess you didn't remember that one. Captain save a hoe. If I am engage in a discussion with a lady then I think you should not jump in Sindie and Val can handle their own.

none of the ladies on this site would ever consider seeing you!  And while you claim to be smart you obviously aren't smart enough to stop posting when you are being an asshat.  And as to somebody 'jumping in' you were NOT in a 'discussion with a lady' you were in a discussion on a public forum and ANYBODY can 'jump in' when they choose.  You had your original say why wasn't that enough?  Or do you just enjoy reading your own crap?  And why would you imagine that anyone else would enjoy it?

dinner date of 4 hours. I find that this amount of time feels like a real date, and that's what I love. I know this kind of experience is only doable for so many, but you did ask what my best length was. I also enjoy overnights... nothing like snuggling down together to sleep and waking my gent up in a very special way.  

Lol I see you like Peanut butter

two reasons for 1-hr. dates--(1) time constraints and (2) possible lack of compatibility with someone I haven't met yet.

Re: And yours? eom

Mine?  Well thank you for asking!!  LOL

Lol maybe you shod read your post again.

I totally agree with the double booking! It happens so much and I don't think gentlemen know that many girls in their circles TALK! I do realize, not all girls are available so why not put it all out there. I guess the way I feel, being bisexual, I would pick a girl based on her appearance, reviews and general attitude on the boards. I know many of ladies cannot post on the site, so some of my birthday gifts were from people I wanted to meet or have already met, which means word of mouth. I'd like a guy to want to see ME, not just someone that has a pulse for the evening.

I was waiting for someone to post this. I like longer dates with a gentlemen who likes the erotic things life. I have recently had two dinner dates with a gentleman that just blew me away. Had drinks beforehand which is something I've never done before on a long date with someone new. It totally gave us enough time to get to know each other and know that we were going to be very compatible, VERY! At the end, we went to dinner at some of the finest restaurants and he totally made me feel like a princess.  

To be understanding when things happen requiring a reschedule is a good quality.

In US I am OK with an hour but while on business travels to Budapest, Helsinki, Prague and London I go for 3 to 4 hours.   I puke at seeing some providers here asking $500 to $700 or in some cases $1000 an hour.    While in EE cities I can get the most beautiful woman in her 20's for 3 to 4 hours for the same kind of money.

To me personally having sex with a beautiful woman comes from instincts and I want the meeting to happen spontaneously.    No more a fan of emails, filling online forms, scheduling and everything else etc., etc.,     I look for a few women suited for my taste, pick up that phone and call and whoever can make it, that is it.

Your practice won't work in the US.

Try sticking to the point of this -- the Florida board -- and make comments relevant to it for a change

I do meet women in Florida and other states in the US.    What I meant was the way my professional business goes, it is not possible to sit and write emails and schedule stuff like that.     As a matter of fact I had great time recently in S. Carolina and Virginia.     It does work in US!

I have close to seventeen reviews of women I have met in Florida, LMAO.   What is your point?

I have reviews for close to seventeen women I have met in Florida.  LOL.   So what is the lie angle and loft on a pitching wedge?

I saw a woman in S. Carolina and another one in Virginia in the last 10 days!   LOL.   Money talks and Queens walk in this business.

What you want me to do?   Tell my boss at NOKIA that I cannot go on business trips to Eastern Europe?

And your Eastern European "conquests" likely don't interest any of us.

Don't read it LOL.

If I offerered an hour, a bit useless to say "I really prefer longer dates" but can't up my rates lol.

Tis why more and more of us won't even get past 2 emails without a deposit Sorry, but it's just not worth it anymore to deal with self entitled hobbyists. Too many true gents in these parts and all over the world to waste even 20 min. on dipshits.

In 6 years I have canceled less than five times..yes, you heard that right, and I have been late maybe only 2 or 3 times. You reap what you sow, but I cover my ass just in case. I don't deal with idiots with a certain mentality that we should just deal with it. Nope, I sure the fk won't lol, and do you think I care if some loser crosses me off his hooker list? Yah...this is how many fks I give bwahahaha.