Knowing that many of the ladies (and gents, I suppose) have enjoyed various swing activities, I've got a few questions:

(1)  How do you "operate", just wander around til you find a suitable partner?

(2) Is it typical for couples to just trade partners, or is it more of a free-for-all?

(3) Are activities private, or as this Atlanta thread suggests, wide open?

(4) Do you always find "what you want"?

Thanks in advance....

Does the club that was WAY out in the woods from Orange City still exist?

The bugs got a little bad at times but there were several screened huts on the property and several folks paid extra to keep little private travel trailers, inaddition to an above ground pool, billard hall, etc.

'rock'

One thing in the swing scene the ladies rule the roost. Each club has their own ambiance and talent to watch. I find the show to be very enticing but as I said varies from club to club. As a single man you have to wait till they come to you since making advances to ladies is frowned upon. Some couples look for males and the few single women might want your company. No, it is not just a free for all but each club will have open swing rooms where anyone can watch but you must be asked to join. That's my favorite room because I love to watch.

Many single men go and are never able to find what they want in the flesh. Look see is what they find for a $60-100 door fee. If your hung like a horse i'm sure you'll be passed around for the novelty.

If you find a lady to go with who is known at that particular club you'll have a better time. Here on the Florida board Tabu specializes on this type of entertainment and she is very pretty. Having a lady who others are attracted to will get you more attention.

Do a search on the board close to the area you are interested in visiting a swing club and i'm sure a companion will be mentioned

Kisses Haley

I've been to several swing clubs and there is no universal rule of how to go about things - other than keeping everything safe, sane and consensual.  

Some places have various colored wrist bands that indicate what you're looking for or what you are (blue for Boy4Boy, pink for Girl4Girl, green for Full Swap Couples, white for straight only, etc) and other places just leave it to you to figure out through small talk.  

For (2), unfortunately every couple has a different set of rules (which totally sucks).  Some are full swap/guys straight, others full swap/guys bi, or soft swap/girls only, sometimes the other guy can receive oral but can't go all the way with another girl, sometimes he can go all the way but can't finish with another girl, sometimes you're limited to 'above the waist' play with the other girl, sometimes you can touch but not penetrate, etc...  The only way to know is to ask.

3)  Basic etiquette is that if folks playing in the open are ok with being watched and those in private areas aren't (so don't go snooping).  If you see people engaged in some activity and you want to join in some way, just ask.

As for finding what you want.... total crap shoot.  I've seen some pretty scary things that made me not want to think about sex for the next few days... and I've seen some dang HOT things that made me go nuts.  My best advice is to take a lady with you and have an open mind.  Worst case scenario is you have fun with your date and can say you experienced something new.  Best case scenario.... you find whatever multiple partner situation you can dream of and have the time of your life!

Where in Florida are swing clubs?
I have never been and would love to check it out.

If you do a search here for "swing club" be sure to do 300 days so you get a lot to read. You'll find links to the clubs websites . I have been to a Tampa bottle club/swing club but they don't seem to be busy. The Ranch4play use to be very busy but never been there. It's to close to home for me.  I have been to Miami Velvet and that is a really nice club with lots of activity. Ft Lauderdale clubs are suppose to be the best but haven't been to one.  Being a pretty lady you'll get tons of attention. Single women get in free "I wonder why"

Kisses Haley

and lets me offer an adventurous, sexy evening for my dates. My favorite club is in Ft Lauderdale, Trapeze.

Generally speaking, I tell my single male friends to try it solo if they like, but to understand that paying a door fee doesn't guarantee any action. In that sense, it's the exact opposite of the hobby.

So yes, going with a sexy, outgoing partner who knows the ropes is sure to increase your opportunities...and your fun.

If you're in south Florida, get in touch!

Tabu

Miami has Miami Velvet. Big club, nice facility, horrible food. Tends to attract a very late, very Latin crowd. Typically the crowd engages in lots of showing off the girls, and not that much actual action.

Ft Lauderdale's big club is Trapeze. Upscale environment, excellent buffet, friendly people. More real players and equal-opportunity couples, if you know what I mean!

The huts are the F@ck Huts 8 of them with A/C or heat..Great for 2 couples to switch comfortably..There is a couples room were many couples swap and general orgy occurs..The place to be..pool hot tubs, food, Disco room with pool tables..its run by a woman..there even is a performance hut that is screened in and a audiance of up to 50 people can watch you bang...On rt 44 between Eustis and I-4..Next to the banging its a great place to make friends...The owners wrote an essay that handles the swinging lifestyle quite clearly....Written by them posted below:
It is a very clean laid back environment for men and  women..I endorse this place with 4.5 stars.

Love

Val

Why do couples swing?

It is generally felt that you can divide swingers into those who participate for recreational and those who participate for utopian reasons. Recreational swingers see swinging as a social activity much like bowling, playing tennis and cards. Utopian swingers have a general philosophy of communitarianism and wish to share not only sex but all other aspects of life with their fellow participants.
At this time there are relatively few scientific data that indicate what long-term effect swinging actually has on marriages. Nevertheless, there is a general belief among swingers that swinging has a positive effect upon a marriage. They believe that sexual fidelity is harmful and breeds jealousy and a feeling of ownership between a husband and wife. According to them swinging does away with jealousy and helps each mate see the other as an individual and not as a possession. Another reason for participating in swinging is boredom with marital sex. Swingers feel that it is impossible tor one person to satisfy another sexually over an extended period of time. Swinging is seen as a method of adding new excitement to the marriage, perhaps even salvaging it. Most swingers know couples who have tried to salvage a bad marriage by swinging, but they argue that this generally has not been very successful. Most swingers believe that swinging alone cannot save a bad marriage.
They do believe that it can strengthen a good marriage. There may be deeper psychological reasons for swinging. It is believed that men may need to translate early sexual fantasies into reality and that women may be fulfilling social-romantic needs. Some believe that because of the marginality of the new middle class, they seek experiences with others in order to feel they belong. They participate in swinging to develop social ties and to satisfy the need tor sexual fulfillment that is a result of their restrictive middle-class backgrounds. Swinging gives them an opportunity to do both without disrupting their general lifestyle.
All reasons, whether social, psychological, or sociological, are at the present time only speculation. One could easily conclude that the reasons for participating in swinging are as varied as swingers themselves.

Jealously........

Generally, swingers do not show jealousy on the surface. Most swingers argue that this is because by going to parties together and leaving together, they realize their commitment to each other as a couple. Thus, they do not feel threatened because the other partner has gone into another room to have sexual relations with another individual. One such swinger said, "We both know that each of us have experiences with other people and, yet, we come back to each other because we want to be together" They feel that this gives you a feeling of security that you never had before because you feel and know that the partner is coming back to you even though they have had a sexual relationship with someone else. They feel that this builds up self-confidence and security.
For a couple to engage in swinging, they must throw off the belief that having sexual relations outside of marriage is improper; they must break the shackles of the double standard. That is, the wife will be having sexual relations with other males much as the male may have had sexual relations outside the marriage with another partner previously. Swinging for most women changes their view of the world and sexual relations. Many argue that it has made a complete turnaround in their life from the way they viewed the world two or three years before swinging.
In attempting to determine what causes some women to go into swinging, It's noted that many wives are urged by their husbands and others go into swinging to carry out their fantasies. One such woman reported that she finally acquiesced in going to a swinging party saying that she would not participate but would be willing to go and observe, have dinner and a drink or two.
Swinging is about commitment, that is, commitment to each other and the relationships you are in.

... I get there about once a month. Been there as a single, as a couple with a male friend and as a couple with my female buddy. I heard about Plato's but I think they are closed long time now. Trapeze is a great layout. Tabu look for me when your there and I will do the same, would love doubles.

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I have yet to find the right lady to attend with, and would never want to go solo.

Hopefully, I'll be able to coordinate a trip there soon.

I frequent many clubs in Fort Lauderdale, Miami, New York and Las Vegas. If you send me an email, I would be more than happy to talk to you about the ins and outs (so to speak ) It is fun and that's what it is all about... enjoying yourself. Everyone is always respectful and it is an erotic adventure whether you participate or just watch.  Enjoy! Talk soon.

Judging from these and other posts, it would seem that there are a lot of out-of-date reviews which don't properly reflect if the provider is into "groups or multiple men"......

I'm wondering if we might need a new thread where ladies would tell us if they are open to such a scenario in private or at a club like Trapeze.

I have not been to the ranch in a while, but If I knew you where there I would love to cum out to see you.

I did not know they where open on Thursdays.

My 2012 bucket list includes a trip to the Trapeze

I was NOT a participant in this particular MFM.....

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I wouldn't belong on the same course as her.