First, you need a connection. And read the girls reviews to see if she's a fun date to begin with. I've had about 4 overnights, many 4-5 hour dates during the day. I do need sleep and yes that can be made up the next day. However, there's nothing like being worn out for your first morning of coffee.
Also, keep emailing a lady, get to know her interests and yours. Do dinner/dancing/movies etc other than to hole up in a boring motel room for 12 hours. That gets boring no matter how much you know someone. Since I'm very active and energetic, I like adventure in any form.
Hope this helps..
I'm posting this under an alias because I don't want to offend any of the women that I have or might schedule an appointment with.
I have a few upcoming business trips and am debating about whether to plan a multi-hour appointment or overnight and am wondering what experiences you'd had.
I hate to sound cheap (which I'm not), but other than the benefit of companionship (and sex) in the evening and the morning, is it really worth it to spend the money to have her sleep next to you for the hours in-between?
I did an overnight once and was disappointed. Maybe it was a YMMV situation, but I felt like I overpaid for the evening and got 2 cups during the overnight when I could have gotten that for a 1-2 hour session.
I appreciate the quick answers from "Governor Crist" and SophieSimone (whose recent photos look amazing and who I need to eventually meet--sooner rather than later).
That said, I wonder if others have counterpoints about the topic, or if the ladies want to add their thoughts....
no counter points..its cut and dry...very simple..you sound like u want someone to talk you into trying it again when you already said it wasnt worth it the first time..
I love overnights myself. It allows for a real connection and for intimacy to be explored on all levels. That's very challenging to achieve in an hour or two.
An overnight should be booked when nothing is planned for the following day. I personally believe if a gentleman is going to pay for an entire night, then a reasonable amount of time for play should be expected. Yes we all need sleep eventually, but sleep can be made up.
If we fell asleep before 2pm I would be disappointed and who doesn't love to be woken up with a wet tongue early in the morning!!
By my calculations, that's about 6 hours of personal time for an overnighter up to 12 hours ...well worth the price.
I do like over-nighters or 3-day trips. I enjoy them more when there is an activity involved like elk hunting in Colorado, white water rafting in Costa Rica, ice skating in the rink at Rockefeller Center, dressing up and participating in Key West's Fantasy Fest , or experiencing the AVN Convention in Las Vegas.(well, Las Vegas - any time!)......It's a great time to just relax, have fun, and enjoy each other's company.
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My one suggestion is PRIOR to committing to such a long length of time with anyone have at least 1 or 2 1-2 hour dates with the person to see how well you click
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if you are having the overnight because you expect a lot of cups of coffee, well, you may well be disappointed. Ya know, typically that is when people sleep!
IMHO an overnighter is more about having fun with someone you have clicked with. I spent 24 hours with someone from Tampa, and it was great - yep, there was lots of cups of coffee, but we also truly enjoyed the time together. We went to a movie, had dinner, lounged around, etc. and it was a fun time, and for me at least, it was great because I seemed to be the center of her universe for that time period. For her, well, maybe she earned her money, or maybe she enjoyed it. I may never know.
The other overnighters I have had were all about the same thing - me being the center of the universe. However I always made sure to have lots of time early in the evening for the coffee cups, and then some early morning coffee as well.
If you are looking for a non-stop action session, schedule it in the middle of the day, or all day. I've done that too, and even this old guy was able to go through a bakers dozen in 8 hours.
I definitely appreciate your comments and the suggestions that you make.
I've done an overnight once--my wife was out of town--and instead of calling one of my ATFs, I booked an overnight with a woman whose posts and pics had caught my attention from afar.
We went out on the town and had some fun, but I was definitely underwhelmed.
I'll have to consider if I can do it again, and if so, with whom.
The problem in part is that it'll be on biz trips and it'll be in cities where I haven't met any ladies, so I might be better booking a 1-2 hour session rather than an overnight just in case.
From all I have read, I would never do an overnight with a provider I had not seen several times previously. You obviously didn't 'click' with this provider.
Since you are going to be in places where you don't know the local talent, follow your own advice and schedule some extended, like maybe 2-3 hrs, appts with girls that strike your fancy.
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Its a lot of time to spend together with anyone, let alone someone you just met. I have done overnights but only with women that i had previous seen several times and knew I enjoyed spending time with them, not just about the cups.
obviously there are pros and cons and it is not for everyone for a variety of reasons. For me, I have had overnights with my ATF and everytime has been different and fantastic in its own way. 
If you can't find one of your favorites in your travels, then shorter appointments would probably be best.
Hobbying about 15 years. Last 12 years-90% have been overnights. No rush, go to dinner, plenty of play time. Cost effective as far as cups, it depends on the girl. Rates are actually going down due to the economy.
It all depends on your budget in both time AND $$$, as well as your taste/preferences.
If you have a few nights to play, you might want to "play the field". If you already have a favorite, you may want to host her for an overnight (or two).
Absent that connection I think I'd go for a couple evenings with different ladies. The well-reviewed ladies here are ALL great in their own ways; let them show YOU why they're special.
and it is definitely with someone I've seen many times. We've discussed things in general - play time, going out, a night cap - some morning fun and maybe a middle of the night surprise.
Bottom line, everyone here is saying the same thing - it's a long time, much longer if you get bored or sense her getting bored. Don't do it unless you really know the lady and you click. This is no time to test your mileage.
And it was wonderful and something I will remember for a long time.
As said above, it's best to have spent time with the lady before and discuss what you'd like to do. I've found that if you do things you enjoy and also some that she likes it becomes that much better.
It's not always about the "cups of coffee" that you have, but the time spent together. You wouldn't want to take a lady to the Super Bowl for the weekend if she doesn't enjoy football.
Only you can decide if you really want to do an overnight and if it's "worth the cost".
First, you need a connection. And read the girls reviews to see if she's a fun date to begin with. I've had about 4 overnights, many 4-5 hour dates during the day. I do need sleep and yes that can be made up the next day. However, there's nothing like being worn out for your first morning of coffee.
Also, keep emailing a lady, get to know her interests and yours. Do dinner/dancing/movies etc other than to hole up in a boring motel room for 12 hours. That gets boring no matter how much you know someone. Since I'm very active and energetic, I like adventure in any form.
Hope this helps..
It could be quite uncomfortable if you're with someone overnight that you really don't know. I have a rule, no overnight until we've had a regular date (1 or 2 hours). It is a lot of $, so I would geel badly if the gentleman felt short changed. Sunny
effort, or money. Even with an ATF it can turn out bad. Did an overnighter with an old fav that I'd seen many times. Was the worst nightmare of my life. Got one half assed attempt at a BJ. A lot of bitching and moaning about being too sensitive during DATY (I was the only date for her that day and night). She took phone calls to set up other dates, and a lot of other shit.
I let her know what I thought of the whole situation, and she promised to make it up to me!
Haven't seen that either, and don't expect to.
Hook up for an extended date, maybe dinner/drinks, but even a lady you've known for a long time can flake out on you on an overnighter.
If you want to pay thru the nose to listen to bitching, and watch someone sleep...get married!
Totally agree with making sure you do things that provider will enjoy. Last year had an all day date bought great tickets for the NFC championship game Eagles Cards in Phx. She hated football and wanted to eat the whole time lol. Got so bad we left in 4th qtr, of course Cardinals came back and won the game lol Tickets cost all much as the date!