Posted By: gr8tguy456
Curious if this has ever happened with anyone. I recent saw a new provider who I have not reviewed on TER. We hit it off right from the time the door opened. I know the GFE experience is supposed to be like that and I understand it is for only the time that we agreed to meet for the hour. But this was my first experience that was way more than that. We went way over time. The last hour I just let her roam through my social media site on my phone and look at my pictures of where I have been and what I have done. She was really into my travels and we just chatted for a while - just like if we were in a relationship.
Here's what has never happened to me though. She pulled out her real, personal phone and asked for my number on that phone. She gave me her full real name for my phone to know it was her. Then she asked me if she could join me on my next trip to the mountains in the US. It's a place she's never been. I actually mentioned she could meet me there, but she said it would be great to drive to my house and then we could drive up together - about a 10 hour drive. I kind of thought that would be great to have a travel companion since I usually travel alone. But then I started thinking. I really don't know who she is. And she doesn't know me. Yes, our time together in that hour was awesome, but we just met. I kind of blew it off thinking I wouldn't hear from her. But, then last night, she texted me and we just had a normal conversation. In that conversation, she mentioned looking forward to our trip next month. O_O
So, what should I do? Keep in mind, she is a beautiful model and I'm an older, overweight guy. ha. We are actually only about 10 years apart in age. I have my concerns about spending a week with someone I've only known for an hour. I'm happy to pay all her expenses, but is she want me to pay for her time also? She has not mentioned that and every conversation is just about wanting to go see the mountains and hang out with me.
Has anyone ever developed a relationship like this with a provider or client? I did have a similar one about 10 years ago. But, that was more of helping her out and driving her to get groceries, dinner or the bank since she didn't have a driver's license. It was fun hanging out with her, but it was clear we were just friends.
If it's too good to be true....it probably is.