I recently had a sexual encounter with a "civilian" or "amateur." I had to practically beg her to play with my balls. At least twice, she asked if she was hurting me, and she seemed unhappily saddled with a task beyond her capabilities.

some men like their nipples pinched, nibbled and occasionally bitten ... The same goes for their balls . I think she meant well but had no experience to base how to do what you wanted. You do realize very few men like their balls toyed with more than a little licking.  

A lot of civilian and providers don't let loose if they feel you are not so fresh. I know I'm like that. If they are hairy and have a misty smell I won't go overboard. I rather you think I'm an amateur than me telling you to take a shower. I know it's terrible but I rather be seen as inexperienced than hurting one's feelings.

I get the request of that and other fetishes alot. I do offer alot n have no issue with them n have Alot of fun.lol

Thank you for your perspective, Haley.  Maybe it was intimidation. They are big.

Hi Kelly...No, she wasn't a provider. She was a mid-late 30s, reasonably attractive woman. Unlike a pro, she always thought sex consisted of 3 acts. You think it was the Missionaries? Anyway, maybe I'll get to experience your finger-nails in the flesh, so to speak, one of these days.

Roxanne, Thank you for writing! your reviews are inspirational. I can assure you that it wasn't a grooming issue by any stretch. As I hope to show you some day, I'm completely shaved. I've learned that the sensation is best experienced bare. I think I was more lamenting the fact that I had hit it off with a civilian, we were gettin' it on...and I thought about how some of our favorite pros are like filet mignon, and it's hard (actually, sadly not) to go from that to taco bell. I'm not talking about 3 in the morning, drunk taco bell--which might be the greatest meal of one's life. But for dinner, it's a hard swallow. And that's what she said!

London is always calling, Serena. I could be your prop for the civilian lessons...

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Oh, Lord. Too much for me. Once machinery is involved, I'm audi.

I actually have something similar. Just not as heavy. Lol!

Tie Elle to the 4 bed post and we are cooking!

I assume she was young...it takes seasoning and the guidance of a sexy man/ men to help you learn to handle the boys!