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Finally, Fuzzy thoughts that make Sense.......regular_smile
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...the Fuzzy one posted this on the GD board, after what happened this week in Bean-town.....

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=307832&boardID=12&page=1

Just read what they wrote...and it makes 100% sense! These ladies NEED to keep safe at all costs.

I don't think there's any way he could have said it better!!

Another lifetime ago I was involved in the 'personal protection' field...and I was amazed then, just as now, at how LITTLE people really know about information or protecting themselves. And now with the internet...with just a tad bit of info...the right person can find out everything but your shoe size.

I love, respect, and admire providers...but if the ones I've talked to are any indication...there's just too many with their heads in the sand because "nothing has happened so far" and "I know what I'm doing". Then you find out that when they go to an outcall...there's no record of who they are meeting or where they are going. So what happens if you disappear? Blank stare.
The ones who work from home?!? I can't even get started on how...let's be polite and say "un-wise" that is! Even if you have a location...there's no excuse for not knowing how to tell if you are being followed.

It's difficult for good people to know how the bad ones think, how resourceful they can be, and what they are capable of. I think if they did...they'd definitely be more careful.

Just sayin'

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working from the house...just way, way too much that can go wrong with that approach.  A final point...If the guy starts out with "I'm your number one fan", RUN do not walk to the nearest exit!

link inside jimmy's post at the top of this thread.  Fuzzy tells it like it is!

It's unfortunate this has happened. Ladies should always keep some kind of protection with them at all times. It could be as simple as mase, at least it's something. For those who provide incall at their residence, they should seriously invest in a home security system, protection in every room and a large dog for if any sicko who attempts to pay a visit while your unexpecting it. Having a few LE reside in your neighborhood won't hurt either...Just kidding.

With outcall's, ladies have no idea what they are walking into and it can just as dangerous. There's unlimited scenarios that could happen. It's risky either way, period!

Another point I would like to make is references. Now, speaking for myself here...You do not have to ask permission to use me as a reference! It is essential in making this hobby safe and ladies you should always check your references. If the lady they provide is out of the hobby, don't hesitate to ask for more information to validate the gentlemen.

Stay safe everyone :)

and have to admit I have a very strong rigid screening process now more than ever. I have done TONS of homework since I started and have continuously changed my process around to each individual.  Matter of fact, I have been told by other ladies "wow you really do alot".. Darn tooting...no one will protect me but me..however, it's for the guys too...

As far as references,  I to have no issue giving a reference and asking the girls opinion. However, do I only get that and say Ok he is cool. Nope.  I do my own process on top of that.  It doesn't mean I necessarily require alot of other information but it shows how careful I am.. RARELY do I have guys run from my process and if they do, no big loss to me...

As far as the incall that I now have, I have and am in the process of changing a few things to make myself safer.  So no frets here... the Boudoir is still open and won't close down....

It is just so critical for us ladies to do your homework and find out other processes...Many ladies will volunteer the information...I have helped many a ladies and have no problems with it.

We should all be safe, no matter what.  Just don't rely on one or two things.  And remember nothing in life is fool proof.  Our gut is the strongest instinct we have...

Love all you guys and girls,
be safe and if I can help, I will gladly.

Bella

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