I know that I have asked this many times before but what is your favorite sexually intimate act that occurs in a date or just in general (maybe with a civilian friend or SO).

Sexually speaking the intimacy of a kiss is something that I really enjoy and it turns me on as well. I also enjoy the slow build up of foreplay before the "main event" so to speak.

So for me it would be the kissing and touching that happens...

What about you?

Are you a fan of Greek or do you like a long, slow, delicious BJ?

What's your ultimate?

Rae

I love being greeted with a very long, deep, pssaionate DFK and then have my date strip me down and get on her knees and give me a wet, sloppy, deep and long standing BBJCIM and then go from there.

If I could find a lady (be it provider, civilian) that loves..and i mean just loves giving head and would do it for as long as you wanted and never complained, and would actually get very upset if you took her lollipop away from her, than I would marry her in a heartbeat if she was a civilian or she would become my ATF if she was a provider and i would never see another provider again

Reading your reviews you seem to be great at everything you mentioned,If  I ever get to meet you I'd love one your legendary BBBJS and a trip to greece

I 2nd that, but an unlimited 69 would be just as good. Actually, I almost like giving head as much as recieving...as long as my partner is VERY responsive.

I meant in general. Is there something that you like that you could literally be happy with for the rest of your life. What if you could only pick one sexual act or position or hole to do it in for the rest of your life. What would you pick?

long slow sensual teasing foreplay

Since you put it that way, to me it would be mutual oral pleasures, there's nothing like being right there and tasting it when her orgasm erupts.

Rae, my fave position for intercourse is mish.  I love to be able to kiss her while enjoying the pleasures of sex.  For me, if there is no kissing, I'm not really interested in seeing her.  Love the touching too.

Kissing is what gets me fired up for what is to come. Her on top is ok too, as long as there is kissing and touching as well.

No kiss DFK, is one of my deal-breakers.  If she is not into that, she will not see me in her bedroom.

Swim

I'd say for me it's 69ing hands down. I just don't enjoy myself as much if I take an "it's all about me" attitude and I get off on at least believing I'm pleasuring my provider as best I can. It's an important part of the GF experience to me. The perfect encounter for me starts as you suggest with a lot of touching, good conversation etc. and moves onto oral play. I actually think I enjoy that aspect of it more than the actual sex. Don't know about greek as I've never done it.

Enjoy! WIT

passed out drunk with her mouth open OK?

Loved your last review!

I kind of like most everything. I'm sort of lazy so I love laying back & watching a lovely lady working on my member with lips, tongue, throat, et al, while smiling up at me with her eyes.  For the same reason, I love cowgirl, letting her do most of the work (they're always younger than me, after all).  But I also enjoy doggie, love watching a great looking tush sort of under my control.  And I'm a relatively recent convert & fan of Greek pleasures, & doggie is a great transition position for that.  One of my first Greek experiences was RCG Greek, sort of combines all the advantages of Greek doggie (great view & deep stroking) with me lying back & letting her do most of the work--not many ladies do this.  About the only position I'm not terribly fond of is mish, and I'm not totally sure why.  But I like everything else, & if I was forced to choose just one pleasure, it'd be a tie between slow sensuous BBBJ & Greek doggie/RCG.

#1 on my list!

Oral is the best!!

Rae, I have not yet had the sweet pleasure of meeting you but hope to remidy that soon.  To your question, not much can be more arousing than long, slow, sensuous, passionate kissing.  That will always raise my temperature quickly.  But most men are visual creatures.  And one of the most intimate things a women can do for a man, and therefore one of the most visually stimulating, is to look down and see a beautiful woman on her knees, smiling, making eye contact, showing slow, loving attention to your member and loving what she is doing. Wow!  But also, because we are visual, I like to have a woman standing bend over slightly, say in front of a dresser, so she can see herself in the mirror and I can see her and watch her reactions in the mirror.  She needs to behave and keep her hands on the dresser while I am free to approach from behind and give slow, sensuous attention to that beautiful, sexy female body.  Start by kissing the back of her neck, her ear, her shoulder.  Very slowly working my way down going from front to back, watching her reactions in the mirror, feeling her quiver, kissing every square inch of that wonderful body.....well, you get the idea!

One of the hottest things I've experienced was getting a BBBJCIM from a girl who really loved doing it so much, she masturbated to orgasm right before I came.  It was unforgettable!

Not that there's any wrong reply really since it IS a matter of preference.

Especially when I'm having one.

Tends to get my motor running.

Swim,

I have heard that a lot of guys like mish because of the depth of er, penetration, and the fact that they can look their partner in the face & kiss if they want to.

I think kissing is the most intimate act that occurs between two people.

Rae

Participating in this thread.

Oh Well.

Rae

For a prolonged period of time but I know what you mean about mutual pleasure. It would be hard to stay in a 69 position unless it was on your side if you're going to only enjoy that position for the rest of your life. Thank God we have variety though right.

Rae

I blogged about just this topic a few weeks ago, and am reprinting it here because it answers Rae's question:





I've said it before and I'll say it again. I've paid for sex.

My friend KinkyDad wrote a great post about why at http://kinkydad2001.blogspot.com/2009/10/why-i-pay-for-sex.html

There is no standard formula for pay-for-play sex. While I always want to feel liked and appreciated, and feel as if the provider would be into me even if I wasn't paying, the actual session always varies depending on our moods, the participants and the situation.

Generally, it usually involves lots of kissing, touching, mutual oral and intercourse, and sometimes involves anal or toys.

It had been awhile since I'd seen anyone, but between stress at work and home (and no sex there of late), I needed a release, and one of my all-time-favorite providers was back in Florida for a visit.

I scheduled a session with her, and expected it to include the kissing, touching, mutual oral and intercourse that I described above.

But this time was different.....

Her dog, who usually occupies the main room, was away, so the house was empty. She greeted me in a sexy bra and panties and we kissed as I entered the house. She undressed me, and told me to relax on the couch. We kissed some more, and she began to work her tongue down my body--first licking, sucking and biting on my nipples, and then moving her head towards my cock.

She took my cock in her mouth. She licked the head. She licked the shaft. She licked my balls. She licked my asshole. And then she started again. She continued licking the head and shaft of my cock, then turned her attention to my balls and asshole.

This went on for at least a half hour, and I was relishing every selfish moment of it.

The whole time, her hand was buried in her panties as she fingered her cunt.

Finally, neither of us could take it any longer, and I grabbed my cock and jacked off into her waiting mouth and onto her face. She couldn't swallow all my cum and it leaked back onto my hand.

When we finished, she went to get a washcloth to help clean up.

It was fabulous to say the least. And I'm craving another blow job right now.

Any kind of surprise BJ is fantastic.  In the car of course or when you just wake up.  I'm talking about about just getting it when you don't expect it, wherever that may be.  Maybe making out and she just goes for it without saying anything.

Also love any kind of rear entry position although spoon is perhaps the best.  With a petite woman, I like to lift them up and do them against a wall or in the shower.

It all starts with this Rae.  And leads to more wonderful things.

You are right.  Kissing is the most intimate thing a man and woman can do.

I had a meeting with a lady almost a year ago where after a glass of wine and some getting to know each other conversation, she sits on my lap, looks deep into my eyes and gives me the best dfk I have ever had.  To me that was more intimate than all the sex I have ever had.  It seems to me that it is hard to fake passion, and even though I have seen a few ladies, it was always in the back of my mind that this was an expense for me and a business for her, but for just a moment with that one lady, I forgot that and let down all of my guards and emotional walls and allowed her to be a part of me.
That my friends is what passion is about...to me anyway.
Whew, now I need to go find me somebody.

I love to give DATY...so for me, it would be giving it to a splendid lover!